The girl came in and fell out of love, and the girl said I m out of love , how to answer?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    On the surface, it will be annoying, but in fact, it feels like the girl feels that you love her very much, care about her and care about your relationship. She will feel an indescribable comfort in her heart! I think it's better for you to wait for her, wouldn't it be nice to make it clear in person?

    If she really doesn't love you anymore, maybe it means that he has a heart and wants to leave you. Then you can die. So that you can have no regrets, after all, she doesn't want you.

    You should also regard her as a passerby in life, some people have some things that are destined to become an indispensable beautiful and sad memory in life! I believe you will be happier in the future. Learn how to love, and you will be loved and happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm a girl, I know. Break up with you, either because of another man, or it's a problem between you. I don't think you have to be like an idol drama on TV, but with what you think you are most sincere to him.

    Then, you will win her heart. I'm sure that girl will understand you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If she really doesn't love you and hates you very much, I will advise you not to go, after all, even breaking up is not about meeting, I think she just wants to avoid meeting. But if your breakup is bitter, and you don't dare to meet and say it when you break up, for fear that you will see her unhappy, then I say you must go, a real love is really not easy. It took a lot of courage to get it.

    If I really separated like this, I would feel that it would be a pity, no matter what the reason, it will not be an obstacle in love. It's up to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes、It's annoying for me、

    I'm a girl.、If it were me, it would be annoying.。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not an annoying problem.

    She said that she broke up on QQ, which proves that she doesn't want to say it to her face, she doesn't want to face you, obviously, she won't see you, and even if she does, it will be in a bad direction,。。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, even if you break up, take a screenshot if you like her.

    If she really doesn't like you anymore and has to be separated, then she'll naturally be annoyed, but maybe that's not the case.

    You want to redeem or whatever, it's time to have to worry about it, there's no need. When it's the last struggle, good luck.

    I'm a little woman, too).

    Mr. Ahn.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, you don't even know that her home is **, it can be seen that your relationship is not very deep, is she really your boyfriend? If you say you are angry and say that you are breaking up during a quarrel, you should go, and if you suddenly say that you are breaking up without warning, you can forget it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    May I ask you for what reason you broke up?

    I don't know how your girlfriend is.

    But if it were me, I'd be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes. said on QQ that breaking up is that you don't want to meet again to avoid embarrassment.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, let's talk about it later, it's inappropriate to say it at this time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I break up with that boy, there must be a reason for it, it's either me or him, and if it's his reason, and he's coming to me again, I'm going to change for me, and I still love him, and then I'm going to give it a chance to see what kind of girlfriend you are.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello, if you are chasing this girl, and he also knows your intentions, then you can tell him that you are not out of love, because I am still there.

    When a girl sends a message + saying I'm out of love + what's the matter.

    Hello, if you are chasing this girl, and he also knows your intentions, then you can tell him that you are not out of love, because I am still there.

    Hurry up Sensei.

    If she is in a bad mood, it is best to rush to her as soon as possible to prevent him from doing something excessive.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Find the right reason and learn to comfort yourself.

    The ABC theory of the famous American psychologist Ellis tells us that what makes people sad and painful is not the event itself, but the wrong interpretation and evaluation of the event. Therefore, in the face of the pain of falling out of love, we should learn to find our own reasons from different perspectives.

    The author believes that there are two ways to try:

    1) It's about looking for reasons that make you accept the reality of breaking up. For example:

    I love him (her) but I can't guarantee that she (he) will love me;

    There are still many married people who divorce and choose a new spouse, not to mention the person to talk to, I am only one of the objects chosen and referred to by the other party, and I have no reason to ask others to choose me;

    Love is a matter for both parties, and our breakup shows that we also have factors that are not suitable for each other, and the responsibility is not all on the other party;

    The breakup now is for holding hands in the future, and if we keep arguing, falling in love, or even getting married, the breakup factor is still there. That's even more painful. The temporary pain of the present is for the pain of the future, and it should be pain in the present, not in the future;

    Since he (she) proposed to break up, and I still have to pester him (her), it means that I have no backbone, a person can have no strength but cannot be without backbone;

    I left him or her because there were better people waiting for me.

    2) It is to seek the other person, and there is no reason for him to pursue it again. For example:

    He is a flowery person, such a person is unreliable, and it is my luck to leave him (her);

    He (she) has many flaws, how can I love someone with so many flaws for the rest of my life?

    He (she) is a person who doesn't care about other people's feelings at all, and is more selfish, he (she) is so ruthless and unrighteous to me now, do you still expect him (she) to be good to me in the future?

    His or her performance is not worthy of me, and my target should not be someone like him or her;

    His or her actions hurt my heart, I need happiness instead of pain, and I can only be happy if I let go and not ask for extravagance;

    2. Shift the object of attention and try to adjust your mentality.

    For lovers who have not been separated for a long time, memories are a pain. Whenever you want to think of each other, try to shift the goal and put it on appreciating another scene or another scene. For example, (1) immediately concentrate on some daily necessities, enjoy a little flower, look at a pattern, pay attention to decorations, etc., try to imagine some quiet and beautiful things, focus on the blue sky, the deep sea, the vast grassland, the golden beach, cattle and sheep, white clouds, etc., it is best to sing songs or light ** that praise the good life, do not choose too noisy or too sad**, because these** may aggravate their bad mood, at this time, we should invite our friends to do some favorite activities together, For example, swimming, shopping, and watching a movie, choose a position that you feel comfortable in, or stand or sit or lie down, relax yourself, listen to the birds singing, humming, and taking deep breaths.

    In addition, don't go to bed too early at night, wake up immediately in the morning, and try to leave yourself as little time and space as possible to remember those past events.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The girl said that she fell out of love, which is undoubtedly a good opportunity for the brothers, but also be careful not to fall into the trap set by the girl, we can use the formula to solve this problem perfectly!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Answer hello, when a girl tells him that he is out of love, it means that his emotions at this time are more collapsed, you have to say that you have to say goodbye in vain, the next better one is not very sad, because it is not the end of your life, he is just a station of a train in your life, he is not the end, you have to look forward not to be too sad, and don't be sad for unworthy people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. Don't go into a warm room alone (this always makes you upset, irritable, and restless).

    2. Don't overeat (that's the most likely situation at the moment).

    3. Please don't find a reason to meet him (always deeply provoke everyone's association).

    4. Don't suffer from feelings quickly (only let the emotions get worse and worse).

    5. Don't do something delicate and broken (quasi-wrong).

    What should I do if a girl falls out of love? How do you get out of love after falling out of love? If you fall out of love, you should do something like this to help you forget the pain.

    1. Find a warm-hearted confidant and chat with the sea. It's sitting in a nightclub, and the dim lighting effects can hide your lost mood, and there will be some looming expectations.

    2. When I go to a friend's house, I can only have two of us, cook and talk about it. Friendship will allow you to find confidence, hands-on ability, and live a real life, not easily depressed.

    3. There is an unexpected excitement in doing something that I have wanted to do for a long time.

    4. Go to the store and buy yourself a set of favorite clothes and pants.

    5. When traveling with a backpack, you should naturally pay attention to maintaining yourself. Vacation travel will make you lose your emotions, and beautiful scenery will make you forget about your injuries.

    6. Play with friends of the opposite sex, you don't need to give him all the hints, releasing stress can bring you real happiness.

    7. Do some creative work, give full play to your edification characteristics, and you will find that in addition to love, there are other flattering things in your original life.

    8. Go to the painting garden, the art center, and the fitness club alone; Refresher classes alone, develop a new plan that makes you sound up, and there will be unexpected surprises waiting for you. You've got 1 free sentiment analysis, claim it now

    9. Socializing with one's own family and being happy with them is commendable.

    What should I do if a girl falls out of love? How do you get out of love after falling out of love? In fact, the loss of love on the road to love is very helpful for the road of life and married life after that, because the loss of love makes people understand that emotional things can not be done well by just one person's diligence, and emotional things can not be improvised, but with diligence, there will be gains, and the whole process is more critical than the result.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can do what you have done, you can say it, maybe what you have been obsessed with for a long time is meaningless, no matter how much you like it, it will end here, he is not worthy of your such thoughts, sooner or later he will let go, it's just a matter of time, but you haven't met the right person, take your time, one day you will meet a person who wants to stay with you all the time than you imagined, you will also be firmly chosen, you will also be his once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, you can also tell me if you are sad, I will always beAt the same time, I also hope that you can tell me about the little things in life, sad and happy and interesting that you are bored with can tell me, I am willing to listen carefully, I will always be here, you can always believe in me. You can also be sad temporarily, but I want you to look at the sun outside, smell the flowers, catch the raindrops with your hands when it rains, and see that the world is shiny and full of light. Just let it be, the person you should meet who is very important to you, gentle, considerate, affectionate, and extremely loving to you, will come sooner or later.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A girl fell out of love. You go and comfort her, but she ignores you. You don't blame him for this.

    Because it's painful for him to fall out of love temporarily. Don't want to be with people. It's normal to talk.

    Time will change everything. So this girl will take it slowly. Coming out of the pain of falling out of love.

    You don't have to worry. As his friend, it would be nice for you to care about her in your life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I just want to be quiet!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If a girl falls out of love, she should still take good care of the girl's thoughts, or comfort the girl from the heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Now that someone comforts her, she will feel even more sad in her heart. This matter can only be figured out by himself. Comfort her when you are willing to talk to you, otherwise don't say anything now. Give him some time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Time can change everything, she just fell out of love, uncomfortable, can't accept it, take your time. Care about her, it will be fine, give her time to calm down first, and then talk about it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When love is out of control, anything will be done, comfort is useless, I will comfort her, even if she ignores me, I comfort her, falling out of love is painful, heartache, out of control, this time you need others to comfort, you also need others to care.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The girl falls out of love, you comfort her, she ignores you. This is the saddest time for her. You comfort him, of course he will be indifferent.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In a general sense, the so-called "broken love" refers to the abandonment of an infatuated lover by his love partner. The main emotional response caused by a broken love is pain and annoyance, and most people can treat and deal with this frustration in love correctly and happily move towards a new life. Patients with mild lovelorn can go into groups and participate in group activities to make new friends to get out of the shadow of lovelornness. In addition, for severe patients who are too pessimistic, it is recommended to go to a specialized hospital for treatment, and psychological ** can be carried out if necessary.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, when a person falls out of love, it hits him very hard. Because the more you give to a relationship, the more you feel unusually sad when you lose it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    According to the question published by the landlord, let's give you a few from a personal perspective In this era of fast food feelings, it is normal to fall in love Love and break up are very normal How to say Which party loves more and can't let go is the one who cries the most As for not understanding your comfort after the breakup, it is normal I don't have empathy Come on.

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