Psychological masters come in to help my little brother, and those who learn psychology help me

It's so simple, do what I say.

Think about everything you say, what he would think if he listened.

It's actually the same as playing chess, you have to estimate which move he will make if you make this move.

What kind of point do you want to lead him to in your heart?

Practice slowly, and the longer you go, the more skilled you will become.

At the end of the day, you often talk to people without thinking, and you have a good grasp of the proportions.

Speaking of which, digression, you have a psychological yearning for this.

My advice to you is that if you do sales in the future, you will definitely be excellent.

Otherwise, you can be an actor, and communicating with people is our art. Learn to face it in a variety of ways.

Ha, otherwise why would my friends always play cards with me and win less?

It's not that they're not much worse than me. It's because I'm going to mislead them with my expressions.

Remember, communicating with people is an art. If you have the mental foundation for this, you should do it. It's not just sound. You also need to use Yan.

Rich expressions.

Plus vivid words.

And just the right hand pose.

There is also a good psychological quality.

And a sharp eye.

Grasp the time to speak, whether to interrupt or fork the conversation.

The tone of speech is fast and slow.

As you become more proficient, you will become handy, and finally ......

You won't be a language master.

Rather, it has cultivated a way of thinking that is different from others.

And the thinking is more original.

And was praised by so many people.

And to be liked.

And what you have to remember is the second sentence I said to you. That's ......A real master will be as unbelievable and magical as ......a martial arts master

I hate people who love to talk, men and women alike, because there is too little serious business, too much nonsense, and a waste of other people's time.

How can I speak in terms of language to be more likable and noticeable? "

I think to do that, you have to be targeted, after all, you're dealing with different people

Environment + people + being yourself = appropriate words.

It's enough that you can be friends with strangers very quickly. That's good.

wohe, you talk a lot, but this often leads to the perception that this person is unreliable, and Dora is really not very good! As for the question you asked, I don't agree with the above saying that you should first filter and then say something that will please others in order to please them? That's not fair to yourself!

Think about it: Why should I make others happy? Just to pull him like me?

Or say a few nice things about me? Don't plant! Know that someone who really likes you, even if you can't speak, will like you!

You're not obligated to please others, so why don't others? But if you can think like that, it means that you are really kind! Oh, I hope you help you pull! Ha.

Look for the occasion! Attention objects!

Take control! Too much talk can make you lose it all!

You're just trapped in your own little world, others can't get in, you don't want to come out, you should try to get out of it, not be trapped in it all the time.

You don't love him, why bother, so he suffers and you are also miserable, it's better to be friends, people can't only meet a man who really loves him in this life, you will meet someone who suits you in the future, and that man is just a tool you use to forget your ex, you will be very disgusted with him, since you are disgusted, why bother with such a stalemate, and give each other a free space, let each other enjoy their different lives.

I'm not a psychology student, but I can understand your feelings, in fact, you haven't come out of the shadow of falling out of love yet! The deeper you love, the longer it will take to step out of the shadows! No one else can help you with this kind of thing, only you can save yourself.

If you can't let go of yourself, how can you ask for pain? I can only give you a few suggestions, the first one is to get out and get in touch with the beautiful things. Second, if you like to have pets, get a pet and divert your attention.

Third, force yourself not to think about the things and things in the past. Fourth, there are many men, why hang themselves from a tree. Finally, remember that marrying someone you love is never as good as marrying someone who loves you, this is the truth in practice!

These are processes that everyone has to go through, regardless of gender.

Since you raised this question, it means that you still care about your current wife. In this case, we should try to forget the past, we can't always live in memories, let's forget it......

Some people may say that I am ruthless, but this is the most effective way, when you can't see everything about her, this scar in your heart will slowly heal. Of course, this good girl who has been waiting for you for five years, you have to explain it to her clearly, don't let the family waste your youth, who let you have a home and a child! Men should be responsible.

If you break up with your current wife, isn't your wife sad? You touch your conscience and ask if it will condemn you if you do this, it will be much more uncomfortable than you are now, and it will be a lifetime, think about ......

That one... You said she had waited for you for 5 years, and she said she didn't want to destroy your family... I think she just doesn't want to get married, but not to wait for you to marry her... I don't know if I made it clear...

People must know that they are willing to give up, and they can only get if they give up, and if you are not willing to give up her, then your future road is of course very confused.

Everyone has such a time, it is just a good memory, and now life is real! Give QQ points to help you get out of confusion. 9426530

It's not that you can't forget, it's that you don't want to forget, or you don't have enough time. After all, you hurt her deeply. You can be friends, but you can't hide it from your wife. You can't socialize privately, you know?

Since you love each other so much, you shouldn't have listened to your parents and married her in the first place. Now that you have been married to your wife for five years and have children, she loves you very much. How many people want to have a happy home.

You should cherish everything in front of you. If you marry him, you will do your best to give her happiness. As for your first love, he knows that you are married, and he is still waiting for you, what are he waiting for, will he wait for you to divorce and then marry her.

Now that you have a wife, take good care of your wife.

Your family has taught you Mandarin since you were a child, and even if you don't learn it, you will definitely be able to speak some of it. If you listen to the radio and watch TV, you can learn more. If you are more shy, tell your family more first, and say that you will not be shy when you get used to it.

If you are transferring to a new school, it will not be easy to make friends at first, regardless of whether you have figured out the language or not. If you don't know Nanchang, you can speak Mandarin and learn it slowly. It doesn't matter if it's not right, but you have to speak and show that you are willing to communicate with everyone so that others can get close to others.

Otherwise, you won't say anything, and others will rarely take the initiative to pay attention to you. If you feel that your classmates are not easy to approach, you can also talk to the teacher more, for example, to ask questions about studying. Teachers are usually more patient than students and know how to communicate with you.

Once you are more familiar with the teachers, it will be easier to deal with your classmates.

If you don't speak dialects, you can speak Mandarin. If you come from Guangxi, it is natural that you can't speak Nanchang dialect. If your classmates reject you because you don't speak Nanchang, it's their fault, and you should ask the teacher to report it.

The point is that you can't stop talking just because you're upset. Do unto others as you would have them do to you. If you don't talk and others don't want to talk to you, then adapting to the environment will be slower.

Other classmates don't lack you as a friend, but if you are too silent, you will isolate yourself.

When he was in school, he saw his classmates take the initiative to call him by name every day and say hello. The students are all the same age, and they all take classes together, so there will always be a lot of common topics to talk about. As long as you take the initiative, it's easy to make friends.

Don't people speak Mandarin? Impossible, right?

You just use Mandarin to talk to others, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, make friends, rely on the initiative of both parties, use your own sincere heart, to make friends who are sincere to you.

It doesn't matter if you can understand or not, it's good if you speak Mandarin, this has nothing to do with whether you have friends or not. There is no difficulty in language communication, so don't worry too much about this, you should think about what you didn't make friends with, and the language piece can be ruled out.

You have to be confident yourself, you can't do that.

Categories: Medical & Health >> Psychiatry.

Problem description: I've loved to be alone since I was a kid.

I don't like to talk with my classmates, I don't know what to say, and I don't have a sense of humor.

But I want to make friends, I want to be sincere, I want to be like everyone else!

Can anyone tell me what the hell to do???

Analysis: Well, the number of things The people above are quite right, sincerity is really important.

But perhaps the more important thing for you now is courage.

How do I take the first step?

It's best to think for yourself ......

Don't have the illusion that someone else will take the initiative to communicate with you, take your first step!

If you like computer games, it doesn't matter if you don't play well with your classmates, know that people like to be teachers, let them take you!

If you love sports, playing more can also promote communication, so you have to be righteous!

Or play chess and play the mountain card.

There are many ways to do it, depending on what you like.

Don't be stingy, wealth gathers people scattered, wealth scatters people gather.

To care about others, if you feel that you need to care, then care about others, people, in fact, are not much different, will want to take it, you must first be with it.

In fact, it is impossible for me to solve your problem with a few words, everything is on your own!

Since you dare and are willing to share your heartfelt words with us, you can actually say it with your classmates or colleagues around you.

Best wishes from the bottom of my heart!

And you, too, believe that you will be happy!