What kind of experience is it to say something that immediately turns out to be stupid?

In fact, many times people are like this, they inadvertently say a certain sentence, after they calm down, they feel very regretful, recall what they said before and find that they are very stupid, this feeling is very bad, I feel very level, as if I have not seen anything in the world.

For example, during this time, I often contact my ex-partner, sometimes we will fight each other, and I will be very basic when you fight with him, and I always take the initiative to ask her out, but every time he refuses.

At this time, I will regret it very much, and find that what I said is very stupid, why should I take the initiative to ask him out as a girl, I feel that I am very unreserved, and I don't have the appearance of sending a girl. So every time I hang **, I will tell myself in my heart, why did I say this.

At that time, I was too excited and not calm enough, so I silently made a wish in my heart that I must think twice the next time I speak, and some words must be said through the thinking of the brain, and if I say it without thinking through the brain, it seems that my behavior is very vulgar and low.

This feeling made me even less confident, as if I was always in a hurry to go out with him, as if I was cheap, as if no one liked me. Sometimes I play ** with him very loudly, and every time I hang **, I will regret it very much, and I feel like a shrew.

I found that I was very stupid and unreserved, so I couldn't think about it in ordinary life or at work, and I had to think about the consequences after you finished speaking, so that I would be generous and decent.

Although I know that this is a difficult thing to do, and even I can't do it myself, but there are facts that are like this, and the reality is also like this.

The most embarrassing thing in life is to round yourself up with embarrassment. I am most afraid of the sudden embarrassment of the air, and at that second the air suddenly stops, and I am silent, and that is when the mood is the most broken. Or after his own words, causing everyone to laugh, he will make himself feel embarrassed, and he wants to leave this place of right and wrong as soon as possible.

When we speak, we can't take back the words we say, but we can't think deeply about every sentence in our lives, sometimes we don't speak through our brains, and the moment we say it, we find that what we say is particularly stupid, and then it's too late.

In high school, I was a more introverted boy in the class, but a little narcissistic, once in the recess when I went to the lecture hall to fetch water, from behind a female classmate to speak, I didn't look back, she kept talking there, at that time I thought she was talking to me, because no one has been paying attention to her, and then she said that today I think you are so handsome, I heard it and held back the joy in my heart, and then said thank you, I have always been very handsome. I don't know what's going on at that moment, the class suddenly quieted down, I heard what I said clearly, I turned my head and found that she was talking to someone else, at that time my face suddenly turned red, I felt how I could say such a thing, I didn't know what to do, so I immediately lowered my head and returned to my position, the class was full of laughter all the time, and at that moment my image was gone. I hate it.

Sometimes it's not a shame to say stupid things, everyone laughs it off, no one cares, and after a while, maybe no one remembers, but you bring joy to many people, and it's also a very meaningful thing. I have to learn to face it with a smile.

I sometimes say something that makes the air embarrassing, I don't think it when I say it, and I regret it the next second, and I want to find a crack in the ground to get into, alas, the air is cold to **.

Once, when I went to play with my best friend, I met a girl in our class and her object, and that girl was in our class, and he was not, so I didn't know him, but the conversation that followed was extremely embarrassing.

The four of us walked on the road and chatted, saying that I and my best friend were a light bulb, and joked that we didn't want to be light bulbs, and then the girl said that my best friend and I were too high-eyed, not that we couldn't find a partner, and the suspect's parents were not handsome, I said, I didn't ask to be very handsome, ugly, do you have a hand? And then they kept arguing, arguing until they were ugly, how ugly.

As soon as my brain was hot, I said that your teammate is really not ugly, but handsome. I really didn't mean anything else, but the topic at the time, I was answering such a sentence that your object is handsome, just a little bit of my good words to say, that is, he looks ugly, I said that my best friend glared at me, the two of them didn't speak, kept walking with their heads down, I felt that I said wrong, so embarrassing, but I really didn't mean that at the time, I began to explain, I said I didn't say that you mean ugly, it doesn't mean that, your object is really handsome when you look closely, I said it seriously.

This explanation is even more embarrassing, alas, my God, my girlfriend has been staring at me, and I am so embarrassed myself, I really want to find a crack in the ground to get in. The more I explained, the worse it became, and I shut up before I was too late. The air went all the way to the time when the four of us were apart.

I don't know anyone yet, so I leave such an impression on people.

I've always felt like I'm stupid, and I'm often crying by myself, and there are many times when I say it as if I haven't thought through my brain, and I will find out how stupid I am right away, and at that time I really want to find a hole in the ground and get into it, which is really a very embarrassing and embarrassing experience. <>

I feel like I'm a heartless person, I'm silly every day, and there are many times when I feel like my brain is short-circuited, and I often make stupid mistakes, people around me say that I not only have a low IQ, but also a very low EQ, they are all anxious for me, and every day it's like I haven't woken up, often making all kinds of jokes, and I feel that I can't stand myself. Just last week, I did another really stupid thing, I woke up in the morning and didn't wake up yet, and then I got out of bed and ran to brush my teeth and wash my face, and after washing up, I wanted to comb my hair, and then I looked for my comb, and I couldn't find it, I remember I put the comb on my desk, but I just couldn't find it, and then I asked my roommates if they saw my comb, and they all looked at me with very surprised eyes, and then one of them said, "What's in your hand?" I saw that the comb I had been looking for was in my own hand. They all died of laughter, and I didn't hold back my laughter, thinking that I was really stupid, and the comb was in my own hand and I could ask others if they had seen my comb, and I myself was defeated.

At the time, I really regretted asking my roommate about my comb, and if I hadn't asked, I probably wouldn't have been ridiculed, and I felt really ashamed at the time, and I wanted to find a crack to get into it if I could.

Sometimes it's okay to be stupid so that you don't get so tired, but don't keep saying things that will immediately make you feel stupid.

People's thinking and words are often symmetrical, when they think of something, they will speak it through their mouths, but sometimes, we will have said the words before the brain has thought clearly, and we find that those words are not appropriate, so there will be some guilt and discomfort in the heart, so we will feel more different.

I remember that I once had the experience of saying that I had missed it, once, I was traveling with a friend, we were both walking on the road, and then I saw a car coming from behind, and I saw one of my friends walking in the middle of the road, and then I was afraid that she would be in danger, so I tried to persuade her to feel standing on the side, but in a hurry, she shouted, "Go to the side." At that time, because I was more frightened, so I was louder, and she looked at me very surprised, and then she seemed to understand something, and was pulled by her friend on the side of the road, and then the more I thought about it, the more strange I felt, so after I finished speaking, I felt very stupid, and I felt that my ability to express myself was very poor.

I still remember one time, during my class, the class leader at that time asked us to hand in our homework, because the teacher needed to review these in class, and we needed to do self-study, when the class leader came to me, I found that the homework book seemed to be left at home, so I said to the class leader that my homework was gone, the class leader was a little confused, I immediately found that my expression was incorrect, so it was the homework at home that was gone, the class leader was a little crying and laughing, and slowly I smoothed my tongue and told her that my homework was not brought, Then she joked, you don't have to bring your brains, and it was really embarrassing at that moment.

1.When pasting Spring Festival couplets during the Spring Festival, it is always difficult to distinguish between the upper and lower couplets.

2.In the days when Gao Xing rushed to take the exam, people all over the country would consciously provide convenience for candidates.

3.Ever since I had a rival in love with Tsinghua University.

4.When I went to Mount Tai to watch the sunrise, my classmates chose a particularly good location based on the knowledge they had learned in geography, and I was still competing with the people around me for the highest point.

6.Double 11 can't count the coupons and full discounts.

7.Listening to an older professor's lecture, he was able to use the knowledge in various fields as a case study, and he could clearly state which book he was citing from.

8.After the test, as long as the results are different, then I must be wrong.

Here are some of the moments that make you feel ignorant and stupid:

1.False statement of facts:

When discussing a topic, you suddenly find that your statement of a certain fact is wrong and can make you feel ignorant.

Example: When talking to a friend about history, he mistakenly thinks that Napoleon is the king of France, not the emperor.

2.Can't understand other people:

When someone talks about an area or topic, finding out that they don't understand it at all can make people feel stupid.

Example: At a party, friends are talking about quantum physics, but you can't understand what they're talking about.

3.Don't understand the basics:

In everyday life, finding yourself ignorant of certain basic common sense can make people feel ignorant.

Example: When traveling abroad, you don't know the face value and exchange rate of your local currency.

4.Confusion Concept:

When discussing an issue, you suddenly find yourself confusing the two concepts, which can make you laugh and laugh at yourself.

Example: When talking about economics, confusing inflation with the concept of deflation.

5.Bad decision:

Choosing the wrong option when faced with an important decision can make people feel stupid.

Example: When investing, the market trend is misjudged, resulting in heavy losses.

6.False stereotypes :

Holding the wrong stereotype about others can make people feel ignorant.

Example: Believing that all people from a certain country have the same personality traits, ignoring individual differences.

7.Unable to solve the problem:

When faced with a problem, you find yourself unable to find an effective solution, which can make you feel stupid.

Example: When solving a math problem, I tried several methods and still couldn't get the correct answer.

Faced with these moments, people can feel frustrated and lost. However, we should see that these experiences are also a process of growth, and that by constantly learning and accumulating experience, we become wiser and more knowledgeable.

1.A client asked me to complete a project in two hours that would take two days to complete.

2.A boss asked me to complete a complex project without any resources and budget.

3.A client asked me to write a perfect business plan for them right away, without any prior information and research.

4.One boss asked me to turn his ridiculous idea into reality and do it in a matter of days.

5.A client asked me to design a perfect brand identity for them in a short period of time and at no cost.

6.One boss asked me to work overtime on weekends to complete an urgent project, but he didn't offer any compensation.

7.A client asked me to do all the lead slippery questions in a few minutes, but his questions were extremely complex and specific.

8.One boss asked me to provide them with technical support and solutions immediately without any experience and knowledge.

9.A client asked me to write a professional, in-depth article for them in a short period of time, but he was paid very little.

10.One boss asked me to complete a project that would have taken weeks to complete in a very short period of time and did not provide any resources or support.