How your life has changed is after you have had a baby

Before giving birth, I always didn't understand why my mother was always nagging about our sisters and brothers, and after giving birth, I found that I had become a woman who loved to nagging and doing things like my mother!

Before I had children, I was a working woman who worked overtime a lot, working overtime four or five times a week, and traveling for 10 days and half a month every month. At least 2 times a week, I have dinner together, and I have a break time to go shopping, old movies, hiking, or beauty and fitness, although I am very tired from work, I am very full and motivated. After giving birth to a baby, even if he still goes to work in the first year, he never works overtime and resolutely does not go on a business trip, arrives late and leaves early every day, and refuses to have dinners.

In the past, you can basically remember it, maybe because of the relationship between the baby and the anesthetic, now I often forget what I was thinking about in the last second, often forget whether I have locked the door when I go out, often go downstairs to open the door only to find that I didn't take the key, often obviously see the person I saw yesterday today and ask who the person is, that is called an embarrassment.

Before giving birth to a baby, it is cleaned every week and ventilated every week, and only the vacuum cleaner is allowed to suck it, and the room is messy. After giving birth to a baby, a day of ventilation, a day of cleaning, the baby will crawl, 2-3 times a day cleaning, sweeping and mopping, lying on the ground rag to wipe hard, clothes neatly folded in the cabinet, keep all the baby's contact places safe, clean and tidy.

Before giving birth, I didn't like children very much, and I got very angry when I heard them crying, let alone playing with them to deal with feces and urine. After giving birth to a baby, my heart is full of children, Ding Ding leftover meals are all I eat, Ding Ding poop I have to look at the color and smell the taste, especially, Ding Ding stool when eating, that sour smell, after cleaning up and continue to eat without changing the color, really, I admire myself when I think about it.

Before I had children, I tried many times to convince my husband to become a dink, but in the end I didn't succeed and had to give up. But I also really don't like children, and I want to go a little farther when I see them. But since I have a child, I can't talk to anyone about the child, and when I see a baby about the same age as my own child, I want to go up and tease it.

Before giving birth, my husband and I earned money, and almost all the money I earned was spent on myself, and my husband earned money to support the family, and after giving birth, all the money I earned was spent on the children.

I've found myself getting busier and less personal time.

I feel that the pressure on my life has increased, and the most important thing is that the expenses of my children have increased, and my financial pressure has increased.

After having my own children, I know that it is not easy to be a parent! In the future, you will double the compensation for your parents' dedication to you.

1.In the past, every strand of hair had to be cared for, but now I am worried that no one will take care of the baby even after taking a bath for 3 minutes.

2.In the past, the water emulsion surface was like the essence of the cream, but now it is all done with a bottle of lotion.

3.I used to sleep until I woke up naturally, but now I wake up every half an hour to see the baby.

4.In the past, I couldn't hold half a watermelon, but now I hold the baby with one hand and carry the vegetables.

5.In the past, all the shoes, clothes, and bags were bought, but now I only buy cheap and convenient ones to wear with a baby.

6.In the past, the scum quietly went out shopping in high heels, and now he goes out in flat sneakers.

7.In the past, the bags were full of lipsticks, sunscreens, and skin care products, but now they are full of diapers and saliva towels.

After giving birth, life has happened, and it is different from before, and everything in life will change to worry about.

Having a child is actually another starting point in life, although the process of giving birth to a child is particularly hard, but as a mother, this process is also full of happiness and touching. Many women feel that it is difficult for them to have a child, but in fact, the difficult thing is not life, but choice. After giving birth, women don't know whether to continue to go to work or take care of their children at home, everyone wants to give the best to their children, but they can't have both.

Difficult choices for careers and children.

The choice of career and children is what many women need to face, especially in this era, many women in the workplace have no way to give up their jobs to take care of children, not that women are afraid of the hard work of raising children, but that women understand that the economic foundation is also an indispensable part of life. Although I really want to accompany my children to grow up, I don't want to be a full-time mother.

Everyone has their own yearning world, everyone has their own dreams that they want to achieve, and the workplace is very important for women in the new era. However, many women also have to face the choice of having a child after giving birth. If there are reliable elderly people in the family to help, then you can return to the workplace, and you can rest assured that you can go to the workplace.

But some families don't have the right person to take care of their children, so they have to make other choices.

Giving up is also an option.

Many women are very entangled in their hearts and don't know how to choose. Because in today's society, everyone's material requirements are not low, and sometimes a family needs the joint efforts of husband and wife to live a better life. If a woman has no one to help take care of a child after giving birth, then she has to give up her career.

Or if a woman is not worried about others taking care of her children, then she still has to sacrifice her career.

Some women are unwilling to sacrifice their careers, unwilling to give up the world that they have long been outside the world, and want to realize their own value. Then at this time you have to learn to give up, give up more time with your children, give up more time to rest. Although the choice is particularly difficult, giving up is also a choice, and it is up to you to choose.

People always have to stick to what they want.

After giving birth, a woman needs to think about work and family, and she needs to weigh the two by herself. No matter how you choose, it will always be unsatisfactory, but this is life, and everyone needs to face it. People always have their own things to hold onto, and if you pay more attention to your family, then you will temporarily give up the career you like and devote yourself to your family.

Everyone will have their own name in their heart, and it depends on how you weigh your choice. People don't want to suffer from gains and losses, as long as they make a choice, then they should work hard in the direction they choose.

1.Find joy.

Although the journey of parenting is difficult, but the bitterness and happiness are firmly together, the child is innocent, enough to recall the memories of his childhood life Xiangzhen, the noisy parents for 30 years, but also need a junior to relieve boredom. Like the punches and kicks he has in the stomach now, they can make me happy; And all the creative inspiration he gave me was an intangible treasure. This kind of happiness cannot be bought by money.

2.Make up the memory.

If you are asked to recall now, you may only be able to recall the events after the age of 3, and the stories before the age of 3 can only be imagined by the oral narration of the parents, and the real situation can only be clear when you raise children in person, shouting "Raising children knows the kindness of parents". This kind of life memory can be considered complete, and it is more able to understand the hardships of parents along the way.

3.Overcome your fears.

When you still have a young and vigorous new generation in your family, you will suddenly feel that your youth has been extended. Material abundance cannot fill this spiritual void, and the period is mixed with sustenance, concern and hope.

4.Rapid growth.

The bitterness experienced by having children makes you truly aware of the change of identity, and both of you must learn to take responsibility, and you can no longer only look for romance and freedom like the world of two people, and maintain a stagnant psychological state. The new situation forces you to grow up quickly from a romantic person because you want to be a role model for your children.