What was the most painful breakup you ve ever had?

The most painful breakup was of course when I fell in love for the first time, he was very good to me, and I gave almost all my emotions to maintain our relationship, but his mother disliked me for not having a formal job, and wanted to break us up!

Under pressure from his mother, he gradually became cold to me, but did not mention breaking up; But the more this happened, the more painful I became, I felt that when we were together, we were simply the most familiar strangers, I couldn't stand it anymore, I proposed to break up, and seeing his relieved appearance, my tears flooded into a river! It was an indescribable pain, and my heart was broken piece by piece.

Every day, he moved back to the dormitory to sleep, and every time he was afraid that he would fall asleep. When he came, no one opened the door for him. I've been waiting for him at the window, and when there's any movement, I wake up and run over to see if it's him.

And then he kept coaxing a girl in his class to come to me. I fought for him, and then he talked and laughed with the girls in his class. Crying all night.

Later, I gave up. That night I didn't look out the window and waited for him to come back, and he told me that he was at the door, and it was drizzling, and I didn't open the door for him, and we broke up. You never gave me hope when I was waiting for you, you said I didn't pay anything, that's because you don't understand, you messed with me all night to keep me, but you don't understand what death is.

A person's life is the happiest in youth, almost everyone has a love story, also known as emotional experience, this experience has smooth sailing success, there are loss, success is the majority, loss is a minority. I have also had a loss, a young man looking for his or her other half, the aesthetics of the opposite sex should be ranked first, of course, more stable people pay attention to character, regardless of appearance, if both have it, it is difficult to find a lantern, everyone has shortcomings, there are character appearances, others are not shortcomings. But fate is not at your own mercy, and we will always think of the law to joke with you, and we still can't come together in the end.

The loss and helplessness are indescribable, and I struggled in extreme pain for some days, and finally I accepted a piece of advice from my elders: a twisted melon is not sweet.

The reason for the breakup is youth and ignorance! She let the little young man pull at the door, that beat me I think that the young man will not pull girls in this life, love her willful and unprincipled, indecent and absurd or something, the only thing is that she has become my personal belongings, never took into account her thoughts and feelings, just want to love her and satisfy her enough, and finally woke up to the water, can only break up for her lifelong happiness, now thinking back to the two hugging each other and shedding tears goodbye, the heart is still guilty and uncomfortable, so young people must cherish the person who loves each other with life.

Now I am going through it, the day after the breakup, the next day I tried to make amends, but the answer I got was even more overwhelming. That woman was so heartless that I didn't even know it. I did my best for her, and changed a lot for her, but she said she would be busier when she went to school.

That is, on the third day of graduate school, I confessed that I didn't want me anymore. And I'm still working on my old plans at home. Hey, she can't feel the distress.

Maybe that's the price of growth. I really don't know when I can pass and forget a person for a lifetime, but she is really the regret of my life!

These are the times when my second girlfriend broke up with me, and I felt so sad.

The most painful breakup was the one in high school, she was my first girlfriend, and finally separated because of geography and never contacted each other again.

I told him I loved him, and I went to him with joy to start our official relationship, but he told me that he was okay with another girl I never knew existed...

He had been waiting for my reply, and when I replied to him "I love you", he had been "touched" by her, and when he saw me off, he cried a lot, and I cried back to school after getting in the car.

I've never met someone as suitable as him, but he's really good, and I've always lived under his shadow, so we broke up, but I still love him.

Life is better than death through that breakup experience.

Break up, the Chinese word, pinyin is fēn shǒu, which means to say goodbye, to separate, to separate, to break up, often refers to lovers going their separate ways.

Everything will have a part, and love is the same, most love can't end from the beginning. Breaking up is a sad experience and a painful thing, both for the other person and for yourself. When a relationship no longer exists, when our love has come to an end, how should we break up so as not to hurt the other party?

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Some people who dump their lovers think that by sending emails, text messages, or even leaving messages on social **, it will be less cruel than breaking up in person. But this pattern of sending remotely can actually leave a psychological wound on the other person — when you don't get any explanation, you spend a lot of time thinking about what you're doing wrong, and these hard thoughts can lead to depression.

John Cassiop, a neuroscientist at the University of Chicago in the United States, said that a lack of direct contact can be particularly painful when falling out of love. This will also create obstacles to the other person's future relationship, so that they cannot invest in new feelings, and will cause a psychological burden for your future life.

It's that you have paid a lot, and you can even make any changes for him, but he still has to be separated from you.

If that's the case, don't embarrass yourself anymore, because no matter what kind of changes you make, he won't see it. The reason is that he doesn't have you in his heart, so he naturally won't spend time on you. He won't stop for you, because he's going to find a new life.

The saddest breakup I had was my last breakup, because I really liked my boyfriend, but my boyfriend really didn't like me anymore, so he would directly propose the breakup to me, I felt very sad, and this experience will be very unforgettable for me.

I've only broken up once in a relationship, and this one is something I'll never forget because I ended four years of love life. After I returned to being single, I looked down on my relationship and would no longer give my true feelings.

The saddest breakup I had was when I fell in love with one of my high school classmates, he was a very attentive person and very good to me, we got along with each other for a while, and in the process of getting along, it was also very sweet. But he was about to take the university entrance examination, and his family arranged for him to study abroad, he was very unwilling, but he couldn't go against his family's wishes, and finally left me, and our relationship ended here.

Yes, true love can't be friends after a breakup. In order to alleviate his pain, he can only cut off all contact.

I wish all those who have loved me a happy ending, including you; I want all those who have hurt me to die without a place to die, except for you.

The most hurtful breakup is that the person who wants to break up has premeditated, and the person who doesn't want to break up is unprepared, although breaking up will be difficult for both people, but most of them are the one who was broken up and sorry.

I think this kind of experience is one of the experiences that I feel particularly sad, that is, when I broke up with my first love, it was the saddest experience for me, because there was a relationship between the two of us, but the first love didn't like me anymore, so this kind of thing happened.

I know that I like each other, and I know that the other party still likes me.

But maybe two people are just not suitable, so two people have to break up, and this experience is really sad.

Of course, the two of us like each other, but because the other party's parents asked us to buy a house in the city, I couldn't get the money in my hand, and finally I was forced to break up, and the two people who obviously loved each other couldn't get together, which was the saddest thing for me.

The saddest breakup was a long-distance relationship, when I went to live in the other party's city for a few days, and the breakup was proposed by text message on the train back, when she cried outside the car, and so did I.

Anyway, the saddest breakup is mainly between two people, in fact, they love each other very much, and they like each other, but they just say some things outside of the relationship, and the other party's family doesn't particularly agree with these, so they have no choice but to separate.

The saddest breakup, I like each other very much, and the other party also has a good impression of me, so I paid my sincere relationship with the other party, but I didn't expect him to be sincere, there is someone I like, so I was very hurt to break up.

It's because two people really can't work and live in the same place, so they chose to break up, in fact, they still have feelings for each other, but under pressure, we are both only children, and it is impossible to leave our parents to go to each other's cities.

When I broke up with my boyfriend, I chose to leave, he went to the station to give me the headphones he was listening to, "You are the love of my life", I threw away the headphones and got on the train without looking back. On the train I burst into tears, goodbye my boy, goodbye my love.

I think the breakup of these two must be heartbreaking, I must feel that the sky is dark, and my mood is particularly depressed. The sky is so gray, so it is very difficult for anyone to experience such a breakup.

The saddest breakup was the first love. Because adolescent love is very pure with each other. They all care about one person in particular. It's hard to experience that joy. Separated, I felt that the whole world was gray. Particularly sad.

When I first broke up, every time I thought about it, my heart would be like glass shattering to the ground. What is hateful is that countless times I will think of it: I heard a song I heard together, I ate something we ate together, and I saw the scenery I once saw together

Anyone who breaks up can be a little sad. It's just that because everyone has a different amount of emotional investment, the degree of sadness for a breakup is not the same. In fact, it is better to face the reality and want to open a little.

That time I should have been heartbroken, I didn't believe in love very much, and if anyone didn't want to believe it, I wanted to live alone. Fortunately, he came back to me, apologized to me, I forgave him, and we are still together.

I love each other very much, but the other party can't be with me because of family reasons, which is the saddest breakup. The other party also loves himself very much, and there are many helpless reasons why he can't continue.

The most memorable breakup is, of course, the most unforgettable experience, and the saddest and saddest experience. So a breakup is a very painful experience for everyone.

The saddest breakup is that you still love each other, and you have to choose to break up because of different regions. At that time, the two hugged their heads and cried in the house, and after experiencing that love breakup, they decided to get married hastily.

I think the saddest breakup should be to hear from the other person's mouth that he has fallen in love with someone else, no longer loves himself, and feels that he has been abandoned.

These experiences may be insignificant, and there are even many girls who have met worse than me, but I always believe that it should not be that I want to stay and can't keep it, it should be that I will never be able to run.

After 3 or 4 years of that experience, I still feel that the state at that time was very bad, and I still feel a faint pain in my heart when I think about it, and the loss of a favorite person may be the most regrettable thing in this life.

I remember the saddest breakup is that two people love each other very much, but the family strongly opposes it, so they will choose to break up when there is no way, which is hard to forget.

It must have been that I was wholeheartedly good to her, but she didn't take this relationship seriously, and finally made me very sad and disappointed, and then I had to break up.

The saddest breakup is that you regret it after the breakup, and you want to keep with him very much, but you don't know what to do? Whatever it is? has such an experience, and with such an experience, don't let him know that he should be cautious about breaking up in the future.