The more you want to forget someone, the more you will remember her

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go with the flow. Why do you want to forget? That's because I care too much.

    If there is not such a deep love, how can there be such a deep hatred?

    Time is the best antidote, and when you suddenly think of him one day and it doesn't feel like anything, you really forget.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are some things that we will never forget, and some things that we will remember for the rest of our lives. If you can't forget it, don't forget it, so why force yourself? All we can do is to look down, leave a place for her in the bottom of our hearts, and then live happily again, and everything will be fine.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The answer is yes, as the so-called is the more you miss the more you miss, forget that a person has no tricks to what kind of life attitude you usually have, as always, you will slowly forget, you have to do it deliberately, then you will never be able to get out of this invisible net.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is impossible to forget that you are no longer you, and losing yourself is a terrible thing, hurting yourself, sorry for yourself, sorry for the people who love you.

    In fact, I think no matter how much she hurts you, you have to live well and continue your life.

    The last thing a person can do in this life is to forget himself, to forget what he will do in the future, and to forget how he has been hurt.

    Lenin said that he who forgets history is betrayal.

    In fact, a certain philosopher in China also said that whoever forgets history commits suicide.

    If you are hurt so badly that you forget about yourself, then you are doomed to be divided. If everyone hurts you so much, but you don't resist yourself, and you don't change your personal ecology and love yourself like this, then you will be hurt many times sooner or later.

    So remember to love yourself, remember that history, in fact, you accept the past, and this thing is really forgotten just like we are now. Breathing, blinking, such things we don't deliberately remember There is also the computer, people didn't use computers before, now we take this matter as natural, accept him, we won't think about it deliberately, feelings are the same, accept these. Incomprehension, betrayal, hurt.

    We have to respect Him for reasons from ourselves, accept these facts, and occasionally warn ourselves.

    In this way, I will not deliberately think of him, and I will be myself, not hurt myself, and respect others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, I only remember its name now"Dear White Spoon Yueyueyou, I will slowly forget everything about myself at noon, and even forget about you, but Yanqing, after I forget about you, don't forget me! "An Alzheimer's patient once wrote affectionately in a poem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't try to forget someone who is so important to you in your life.

    Time will make you learn to forget.

    Going with the flow is perhaps the best.

    May you be happy every day ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do something else, divert your attention. Or find a girl who is prettier than her and has better people than her to call her a friend.

    If you really can't forget it, remember her, I'm sure time will erase everything. Including her, if you don't see her, soon you will forget what she looks like, and eventually you will not even remember her name. I believe that time can make you forget her, hehe.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it. If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......There are many things that you want to forget, just to run away. And there are some things that really need to be relieved, and only facing them can make a difference. We flee to another world, grab other people, immerse ourselves in other things, but that past is still there.

    Do you remember her habits when you forget someone?

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it. If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......There are many things that you want to forget, just to run away.

    And there are some things that really need to be relieved, and only facing them can make a difference. We flee to another world, grab other people, immerse ourselves in other things, but that past is still there.

    It's better to calm down, recall the beginning and the past, count the steps with that person, and then tell yourself that gains and losses are meaningless, a result will not negate everything we have before, and if we have been happy, even if we get more pain, it will not be meaningless for ourselves. Everything can be faced, so that we can be calm and face the future life. I will still remember that it is only because it is a part of life, life is perfect because it is imperfect, and we can grow because of pain, which sounds exaggerated, but only when I come over and look back will I understand.

    Don't forget, face it bravely, and cherish this experience in life.

    The more deliberate you are, the more you can't forget.

    You may suddenly remember some of her habits, but when your heart doesn't have any more waves, it means that you have let go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Loved, always hard to forget, those memories of love, that person's smiling face and words, are deeply rooted in my heart, can only be gradually forgotten! Don't deliberately forget, deliberate will only deepen your memory! And hatred will only make one's life more tired, one's heart more bitter, and it will be more difficult to start one's new life!

    It's hard to get the memory of that person out of your mind, and losing your memory to escape can only be escaped for a while, and your heart will still hurt! Why bother! In the past, even if it will be painful, there are still good memories to cherish!

    Face it calmly and forget about it! You can, don't choose to run away anymore! Be strong!

    Let's forget about that woman! When you think about her, force yourself not to think about it and do something else! Look more at the scenery outside the window, look at the sky more, and you will be more open!

    Listen to more songs and let your heart stop wandering! Tell yourself to stop thinking about yourself and her, tell yourself that she and I have become a thing of the past, and that we will only be friends, ordinary friends in the future!

    Even if you can't help but think of her, you have to force yourself not to think about it anymore! Say to yourself every day, she is in the past, the past feelings will not come back, to admit that the feelings are over, and to face the current life is the most important thing! Don't lose what you have now because of a past her!

    Let's look at the point! Forget that there will be a new life! Wishing you happiness!

    Friends, the new year has come, please sort out your wounded heart and give yourself a belief that tomorrow will be better! Love, enough, don't stay in the memories of the past, face the new life, and start again at a new starting point in 2010! Here I also wish you a Happy New Year!

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  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because it was once possessed, it has long been preserved in the invisible mind, and it is unforgettable!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    'Cause you still love Him ... Calm your mind and take your time, time will dilute everything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because forgetting doesn't need to be forced.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you leave it to time to forget.

    When you think of him when you don't know it, there is another him.

    It means that you have forgotten him!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

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