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I'm a girl, so I'm very feminist and thought, you guys better not get back together.

From your story, my intuitive feeling is that the reason why you want to get back together is that she treats you very well, and you lack such a good person around you now.

So this good reason is a bit selfish

The reason why you denied her before was because of her appearance, I thought, has this improved now, and what if she gets fatter? Will you accept it?

I think it's hard for a man to really accept a woman he once denied from his heart, especially because of her appearance.

What would you do if you met a beautiful girl who was also nice to you in the future?

So, lz you need to think clearly, whether you like her or not, there is no equivalence in feelings, and there is no particularly strong reason, you see it, you like it, this is natural love, if you think too much, the more you think about it, the more confused you become.

So I advise you, don't just because a person is good to you, you have to repay her with affection, because I am afraid that you will get rid of her after you meet a more suitable person in the future.

Therefore, every girl in the world should not be hurt, so take your feelings seriously!

Your ex-girlfriend will be a good wife and mother in the future, she will put the family first, but I feel that you are really selfish, do you want to be reconciled? Have you taken into account her feelings, please think about it before you get back together with him, don't hurt her again in the future, cherish it!

You're shameless!

You yourself dislike people and dump them. Now you haven't found a new girlfriend, and you want to get back together when you're lonely? Do you want to hurt someone?

When you find a beautiful one day, will you dump her again?

People are good to you, and you have talent, you don't cherish it, why are you looking for someone now? You deserve to be alone!

First of all, you make sure that she still likes you, and then you have to find a way to redeem it.

Maybe she still wants you to go back to her, but there are often many people who are afraid that they are sorry for each other, and they dare not cherish themselves when they return to each other and are condemned by their conscience.

Well, she likes you very much, and if you reconcile with her, I guess she'll kick you.

She'll find out that you're not as good as she was.

Being too idealistic will only make your life tiring.

Let's think about it for the future moderately.

I'll send you two words for free, go to death

Facing the fact of the breakup, since there is no way to change it, you should face it calmly. Don't take drastic measures to redeem you, as this will only make the other person hate you more, which will make it more difficult to recover. You need to keep a normal mind, don't push the other party too hard, give the other party enough time and space, and temporarily disconnect so that the other party can gradually forget your badness, so as to remember your good.

At this time, you need to face up to your own problems, treat them with a normal heart, and do not do extreme redemption behaviors, so as to make the recovery smoother.

Experience teaches.

Don't know how to cherish after experiencing loss, two people should be responsible for each other when they are together, don't break up at will, never talk about breaking up over trivial matters, and don't use breakup to threaten the feelings of two people. Not all feelings have a chance to get back together after separation.

A girl's heart is very weak, but after experiencing a relationship, she may be able to make her heart stronger, which is very good, even if she loses a relationship, but as long as she can get her true love, it is very good, it is very important to regulate her emotions in time, and girls must learn to ease their emotions more, so that the mood will be better.

For girls, the world of feelings is very important, and if you want to make yourself happier and happier in life, then your emotional life plays a great role. When you have the idea of breaking up with your boyfriend, it means that there are some small problems in the relationship between you, and if you want to solve them better, then you need to think about it and think more about the relationship between each other, so that the two of you can live a better and happier life.

Breaking up for two years can change a lot of people and things, you haven't forgotten him in your heart, but he now has a new relationship, you should also let go of the past, so that you can live your own life, and you will find your own happiness when fate comes.

1 Love is everything when love is there. If love is not there, it is as if nothing ever happened. The origin is gathered, the end is scattered, and the fate is cherished.

2. Take responsibility for your own decisions. In fact, no matter which choice you make, you will regret it in the end. Because there is no perfect choice, even if you choose to go away with him at that time, you will encounter unsatisfactory places at that time, and you will definitely regret it in the end.

3 Time is a good medicine, it can heal your emotional wounds. Let's fall in love as if you weren't hurt. When a cup is filled with overnight tea, no matter how good the tea is, it can't be poured in.

When your heart is full of that man, no matter how good a man is, he can't get close to your heart. Develop a hobby for yourself, make friends with similar interests, give others more opportunities to get to know you, and give yourself a chance.

It's been two years since the breakup, and you still miss him, then you can try to chat with him.

See if he already has a re-partner, and if not, try to see if he can get back together.

And try it to see if he will like you, give it a try.

It's simple and simple, and it's complicated. Since you can't be together, you can only choose to forget to deal with it. If you're thinking too much right now, don't give yourself time to think about it – if you had a trickier and more important thing to deal with at this time, would you still have time to think about it?

Obviously you don't have time to think nonsense. So keep yourself busy, have something to do, and you naturally don't have time to think about it. If your current job is relatively simple, find a job that can improve your ability, or learn a certain skill, think about it, you have gained something, and naturally you will not miss it again.

It's normal to think about her, which means that you are an emotional person. Think about her, it won't hurt her, give it a try, think about her when you think about her, instead of blaming yourself for not thinking about it. Slowly, you will find that you don't think so much.

If a person desperately wants not to do something, it often brings backfire. Is that right. This is my experience and I hope it will be helpful to you.

From the boy's side, if he didn't treat you coldly at first, but you felt panicked because of the distance, he might feel your reason?

This kind of thing is not good, since he has returned to life, you don't have to stand still anymore, what is better for you will definitely be in the future, but you have to make a free space.

Also, someone told me that your ex should be passed away, although it is not good, but it is very practical.

It shows that you are still very nostalgic for the past. Don't dare to look for the future. In fact, you should accept the saying that there is no fate.

Since it can't go to the end. You should let go and bless each other well. In a relationship, when two people have different ideas, no matter how much you love each other at the beginning, you will one day separate.

It's not that you still think about him that you still like him, it's just that you don't know how to face a new relationship, and you're just scared.

It's been two years since you broke up, and you still think of him, which means that you regret that you proposed to break up in the first place, but your ex-boyfriend has found a beloved, which means that you should let go of this love and start your relationship again.

Since the other person was nice to you when you were together, then this is also a good memory.

If your conflict is still there, then just bless each other and stop thinking about each other.

If you still want to think about him, you must go to him to explain that you still have feelings for him, so the two of you must communicate well together, and it will definitely be fine after a long time.

In fact, this is very normal, because after two years, each other will definitely not forget each other, and a relationship will not easily disappear in everyone's mind, so it will naturally be said that he can give love to each other.

I think you will think of him, which means that you still have very strong feelings for him, so you must grasp it well and get along with each other well, only in this way can your life be better.

If you still miss him very much, it means that your feelings for him have not dissipated Then you can go to him and redeem him Because we will always have a lot of regrets in life, try not to let yourself have irreparable regrets.

Hello, for this situation you should face the fact of the breakup, since there is no way to change it, you should face it calmly. Choose to forget in order to have a new beginning, otherwise it will only hurt you more!

It's normal to look back on the past, but how did you break up? What is subjectivity? I have a good time to look back and reflect.

I see righteousness, rather than always thinking about him! It's better to find another love.

After breaking up for two years, you will still think about his words, which means that he has left a deep mark in your heart and a very strong mark in your life.

Do something that interests you to distract your feelings for him, and don't be sad now that you know it's impossible to be together.

People have feelings, how can you say forget it, but since you have separated, you must slowly learn to give up, let go when it is time to let go, and don't always be entangled.

It's been two years since the breakup, and you'll still miss him. But will he miss you? If he is not married. You can try to make amends.

If you still miss him after two years of breakup, then go to him, after all, you still have him in your heart.

Alas, it's easy to fall in love and forget, so let's find a way to reunite.

I miss my ex because you have an unfinished complex, so you will always miss each other and can't let go of him.

You once had a mountain alliance and a sea vow, saying that you would grow old together, but it all ended because of the breakup, which also left regrets in your heart.

Are you unwilling or are you really unable to let go because of love?

It may be that the other person is seamless or that you are still too invested in your own feelings, and the other person pulls away and catches you off guard.

So many times, you may think that you are unwilling to be in love.

How can you be sure that you like it and not just possessive?

Unwilling is a sign of possessiveness, because after we break up, we will drill the horns, why should they break up with me.

It is also normal to have both after a breakup, and people's possessiveness and other situations will make us want to take back the other party.

A little unwillingness can promote our determination to redeem and benefit our actions.

Aren't we still hesitating before deciding to redeem ourselves?

The thought that the other party is going to be with the right person is already very unbearable, and when you finally have the decision, a new person has already appeared around the other party, and it is not a simple matter between the two of you to redeem it at this time.

Going back to what I said earlier, there is an emotional foundation between you, and although there is no connection, the friendship is still there.

But if you want to use friendship to achieve your current selfish desires, keep expressing your thoughts, and begging the other person to turn back, it will not have any effect.

Or some people have been entangled because of a breakup, and they didn't get the expected results, so they can only give up, and they are sad and depressed there, and they are recalling the past in their dreams.

I still miss each other, I can't let go, but I also love.

It's been 20 years since we broke up, and I've probably reached a certain age. will suddenly think of each other because of small things and some scenes.

Thinking of each other's goodness and the beauty of the other party, I feel infinite emotion in my heart when comparing the present. Naturally, they miss each other more and more. But I don't think I'm thinking about each other. What I miss is that kind of good memories of those years.

It can only be said that you are nostalgic for the past, and the past relationship still leaves traces in your heart even after 20 years. But the lover of 20 years ago has withdrawn from your life early, so say hello when you think about it, it won't affect your current life anyway.

When people get older, sometimes they are very nostalgic, and they will think of the unforgettable things in the past, and it is normal for people to be normal.

It's probably touching the scene and evoking memories of the past.

Summary. The real letting go is to go with the passage of time, for example, when you will never think about him again one day, you will not think about his various goodness, all kinds of appearances, and will not be emotionally fluctuating because of him, this is letting go.

After breaking up for a while, I thought about it, and then I was sad about whether there was any illness.

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Pro, not the liquid family of Song Di, everyone has seven wild buried nuclear feelings and six desires, breaking up is originally a sad and sad thing, many times, it is possible to think of his good, you will feel that it is not worth it, thinking of his bad, you will feel that you are good, you will be happy, not sick, dear.

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But. After crying, I felt indifferent, did I really let go or.

Dear, this is not to let go, or Yu Kaixian misses him, after all, the two of you have experienced a lot of happy things, the relationship between the two of you is celebrated, you must understand whether it is worth persevering, if it is not worth it, Sun Sansuan will have to let go no matter how sad he is, so as not to be even more sad in the future.

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How do you let it go?

The real letting go is to go through the passage of time, for example, when you will never think about him again one day, you will not be idle for a while, you will think about his various goodness, all kinds of appearances, and will not be emotionally fluctuating because of him, Qingji is to let go of his hands.

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