I don t know what to do with such a relationship

Updated on society 2024-04-21
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To be honest, I think this man has a lot of vanity, and I suggest that if you are planning to marry him, it is better to get to know him a little better, get along with him, and then consider marrying him.

    Because looking at what you said above, in fact, you don't seem to know very well what kind of person he is, and if you want to get married, why should he hide some things from himself, and it should be something on the surface, although everyone has their own secrets, and they have their own hearts, but some things that should be clear and still have to be figured out, otherwise how can you entrust your life to him? After all, you are going to live together in the future.

    Every time you ask him how much money he has, he always doesn't have you, and there are only two situations, one is that he doesn't have any money at all, and the other is that he is very rich, but I think he prefers the former, and he says how he has money, and what kind of store he has opened or something, just to be able to stay with him, if he tells you that he has no money, imagine that you will still follow him? At least he doesn't think so.

    But he probably really likes you, or he doesn't take care of your life every day, so it's not about who's right and who's wrong, it's about how you look at it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think this man is unreliable and unreliable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The man you said makes me feel too unreal, do you still think about whether you really like him or just because you have some dependence on him in life, and what he has done in your life can he still persist after marriage?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think he should love you very much, I think people, there are always some shortcomings, I think you love him too, right, otherwise you wouldn't be so entangled, I suggest you should talk to him, say more about what you think about him. Really, acquaintance and love is a very good fate, just ask, who can not have some shortcomings, right, you should see more of his advantages, you can bear it, and you can talk to him directly, let him correct it, after all, you are in love, I hope you can give me advice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's divide it! If you are sure you want to get engaged. You have to find out about his family. Anyway, you have to figure everything out! Don't regret it later!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You want this kind of man too, I obeyed you, haven't you ever been in contact with a man?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Well, look at this. If you feel you can stand it and can't live without him, don't leave. If you feel that you can't stand it, just separate it first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think this kind of person is very empty, you should be careful when you are engaged to him. Think about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone has advantages and disadvantages.,Actually, when I saw the front, I also thought your boyfriend was not very good.,First of all,He's a little deceitful.,Three storefronts or something.。 Pros: Vanity, love to show off. But later, you said that you do laundry every day and cook for you on weekends, but you are a model of a good man.

    After all, you are not married yet, it would be good to give you the capital to do business, and as for what you said, I don't think it's okay to pay it back if you make money. After all, you are not married and you are not listening to you, provided that you are sure that you will control the economy after you get married, after all, he didn't tell you how much money he has now, hehe.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dealing with a relationship may require different approaches depending on the situation and type of relationship. But some general handling skills include: Proactive communication

    Be respectful of other people's opinions, which may not have been thought of by you. Don't criticize, negate, or belittle the other person's opinion. Building Mutual Trust:

    In late round code communication, you should listen carefully to the other party's words, and honestly express your own thoughts, and convey a message of mutual trust through words. Be honest with each other: Talking openly about your thoughts and feelings with the other person can strengthen mutual understanding and trust, which is conducive to strengthening the development of the relationship.

    Accept differences: Differences between people are normal, and we need to learn to respect and accept each other's differences, rather than trying to change them. Harmony is precious:

    Neither side should be greedy for a momentary victory, try to combine the needs of the other party with their own needs to achieve a win-win situation for both parties. These are some general handling techniques, but the specific processing method needs to be selected on a case-by-case basis.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, that's right, I think that if you want to have a good relationship with others, you must first have a good relationship with yourself and be able to accept yourself. Only those who accept themselves can fully develop their body and mind, and thus obtain harmonious interpersonal relationships. If you don't get along well with yourself, no one will get along with you; If you get along well with yourself, others will get along with you.

    Therefore, people should first understand themselves and get along with themselves, rather than only seeing others. Whenever you face the mirror, ask yourself whether you love or hate the person in the mirror. A person who doesn't like himself, probably very few people will like you.

    But in fact, most people don't like themselves, and they always feel that they don't look good here, and they don't look good there. There is only one way to change others, and that is to change yourself, and changing yourself is not about going for plastic surgery, but about accepting yourself. When you accept yourself one day and get along with yourself, then you will find that all the people gradually get along with you and begin to accept you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I think the gift from your child is not what you want, please follow the suggestions below.

    1.Stay calm: First and foremost, you should stay calm and sane. Your child may have had good intentions, but he just didn't pick a gift you liked. Try to understand their motives before expressing dissatisfaction.

    2.Show gratitude: Although you may not like this gift, show gratitude to your child because their heart is the most important thing. Let them know that you feel their care and love.

    3.Communicate with your child: Communicate your feelings with your child when appropriate. Tell them what kind of gift you like and why this one doesn't meet your expectations. This way, your child will know how to choose a more suitable gift next time.

    4.Teach communication skills: You can take this opportunity to teach your child how to better understand other people's preferences. By understanding each other's interests and needs, it will be easier for your child to pick the right gift.

    5.Swap roles: You can also try swapping roles so that your child picks a gift for you. That way, they can understand why sometimes it's upset to receive a gift they don't like.

    6.Show affection for the gift: Although you may not like the gift, Cape can try to find the good in it and show your child your affection for the gift. This way, the child will feel your support and encouragement for them.

    Finally, the key is to maintain a good relationship with your child and teach them how to deal with relationships. Through effective communication and understanding, both you and your child will be better able to meet each other's needs in future interactions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After breaking up with someone you particularly like but has no future, whether you should continue to entangle or be separated is a more complex issue that needs to be judged comprehensively according to the specific situation:

    1.If the reason for the breakup is that there is a big difference in the personality, life values or other important aspects of the two people, this will seriously affect the stability and happiness of the serum, and it may be a better choice to separate and widen. Continuing to entangle will only cause more pain, torturing both of them physically and mentally.

    2.If the breakup is only caused by a momentary misunderstanding or other external factors, and the two are still compatible on the basis of feelings, then after a certain amount of calmness and self-reflection, if both parties have the willingness to repair the relationship, moderate entanglement is sometimes a good choice. But this requires enough sincerity and rationality.

    3.Even if there is a relationship foundation, but due to their respective living conditions and circumstances, the current objects really can't come together, and it also has its positive significance to let time cool down the relationship and break free from the other party's dependence. In the future, if the opportunity is ripe, if both parties feel that there is still a possibility, they can still come back together.

    4.Too frequent and persistent entanglement, especially if the ex party has clearly expressed their unwillingness to get back together, is likely to be seen as a form of harassment that not only fails to achieve its original purpose, but also has a negative impact on one's own and the other's well-being, which needs to be avoided.

    In summary, there is no one standard answer. This requires a comprehensive judgment on a case-by-case basis as to what is best for you and the other party. Rationally analyzing the relationship foundation and reality between yourself and the other person, and calmly thinking about what you really need and want in life, will help you make the most correct choice.

    But no matter which path you choose, learning to let go and get back out of the scum is an important lesson in life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello dear! What you want to ask should be how to do a good job in interpersonal relationships, and now I would like to talk about some immature opinions based on my experience for reference. I hope it can help you a little bit.

    Relationships are an important part of our lives. If we don't have a good interpersonal relationship, it will have a negative impact on our work, life and mental health. In the real society, it is normal and understandable that there is a certain ideological gap due to the differences in people's personalities, aptitudes, life backgrounds and goals, etc.

    If you don't fit in with everyone at work or in life, it's not normal, and you need to adjust yourself and change it. People play different social roles according to their age, gender, occupation, position, environment, etc. Different characters have different behavioral norms when interacting with people, so there are different requirements and skills when dealing with different people.

    Here I am only about what you have proposed.

    You don't have to snatch it all, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some forgiveness with yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The key to dealing with interpersonal relationships well is to be aware of the existence of others, to understand their feelings, and to satisfy themselves and respect others. Here are a few important principles of interpersonal relationships: 1. The principle of sincerity in interpersonal relationships.

    Sincerity is the golden key to open the hearts of others, because sincere people make people feel secure and reduce self-defense. The better the relationship, the more it is necessary for both parties to reveal a part of themselves. That is, to communicate your true thoughts to others.

    Of course, there are risks associated with doing so, but it is not possible to gain the trust of others by wrapping yourself up completely. 2. The principle of initiative in interpersonal relations. Taking the initiative to be kind to others and taking the initiative to express kindness can make people feel valued.

    People who take the initiative tend to be likely. 3. The principle of interaction in interpersonal relations. The goodwill and malice between people are mutual, and in general, sincerity begets sincerity, and hostility begets hostility.

    Therefore, it is important to have good intentions when interacting with people. 4. The principle of equality in interpersonal relations. Any good relationship allows one to experience a feeling of freedom and uninhibitedness.

    If one partner is restricted by the other, or if one party needs to look at the other party's face to act, it is not possible to establish a high-quality psychological relationship. Finally, it should be pointed out that good interpersonal relationships must be found in the practice of interpersonal relationships, and avoiding interpersonal relationships and wanting to get the friendship of others can only be a matter of seeking fish, and it is impossible to achieve the ideal goal. I believe that being popular is sometimes better than having a lot of money.

    Hope it helps you so much!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Relationship handling is complicated and complicated, and it is not complicated or complicated. We sometimes think, why do you say that others will do what they do?

    A lot of people don't have a good relationship with others because, you're always taking. A person is always taking, so who would like this kind of thing and be willing to come into contact with this kind of thing.

    Some people say that doing business is all about dealing with relationships. Second, if you want to ask someone for it, remember to give first

    Many times, we often need to give first, exchange with others first.

    Third, do good deeds without asking about the futureWhy do people want to deal with other people, because they want to get it?

    But who will, who will take the initiative to give it to you.

    So if you want to give, you have to give a lot to others. And then don't ask about the results, right?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    can handle all kinds of emotional relationships perfectly, and it is the most secure to fall in love with them!

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