It s been more than two years since we broke up, but he suddenly appeared to contact me!

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The question is whether you have feelings or not!

    If there are feelings, the problem becomes simple. Of course, you have to pay attention to one thing, first love is unforgettable, and it is always difficult to let go. But if you don't dare to conclude that you must have feelings, or rather, dare not conclude that he really has feelings for you, or; (You are also his first love).

    Sometimes, boys are just making trouble. You have to think it through. Many lovers at the time of their first love finally failed to find a suitable time to break up, or did not break up with a knife, resulting in endless troubles.

    Think about it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I guess he wants to be in a relationship with you.

    Then it's up to you, if you still want to have a relationship with him, you give him a **, if you don't want to pay it, then don't give it, I think he will understand what it means if you do this.

    Think about it for yourself.

    Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you like to contact him, you can contact him, and if you don't like it, you won't contact him. It's good to be casual, it's actually very simple, there's no need to be yourself, otherwise wouldn't you be tired like that?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First make sure you are still celibate, otherwise there may be a lot of trouble when you start again. The advice of a comer.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ask him what his purpose is. Ask yourself if you still want to be in a relationship with him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Half a year after the breakup, the man suddenly contacts you, and you can't escape these two reasons

    After a breakup, it is usually the woman who suffers the most, because she has given her sincerity and love, and wants to go a long way with the other person, but she can't match the changes in the world. She was easily caught and refused to come out. Constantly snooping on the current situation of his ex, waiting for the other party to find him back together.

    And as soon as she wants to start a new life after a certain amount of time, she will go decisively.

    After the couple broke up, men and women reacted differently. Men enjoy the hard-won ** single period, feel that they are finally free, dancing in nightclubs, surfing at the beach, and living happily. When breaking up with a woman is the lowest point, you will always miss it, and when this stubborn energy passes, you will see it very openly.

    When a woman wants to start a new life, it is convenient for the man to become decadent and begin to miss the previous relationship. A man's period of falling out of love is always an afterthought.

    Half a year after the breakup, the man suddenly contacted you, but he couldn't escape these two reasons.

    I can't let you go, and I want to wait for an opportunity to reconcile

    After the breakup, I met a lot of different people and had new feelings. It was only because of the comparison that I realized that I was missing out on some of the most precious things in life. He feels like he's done something wrong, so he comes back to you.

    Half a year after the breakup, the woman has a new life of her own and decides to let go of the past. If you contact her half a year later, you will be surprised, because both of you have come so far, it was you who left without hesitation, and now you are disturbing your life.

    Do you want to get back together? I don't think it's necessary. Since two people have chosen to separate, there must be unsolvable contradictions between them, and these frictions will not be washed away with the passage of time.

    I have a good life now to show off to you

    Sometimes people just breathe a sigh of life. Maybe you say he's naïve, but now he's mature. There's a good saying:

    I'll be better because of you, but not for you. As a result, when he has achieved something, or changed his shortcomings as you said at the beginning, he will simply show you off. Xiaoyu and her ex broke up for almost a year, and one day the other party suddenly said to her:

    Someone loves me now. Xiao Yu understands that he just wants to prove that if you don't love me, others will love me.

    Emotional Message:

    No one can predict the future, so while two people love each other now, they should also cherish it. Even if they are separated in the future, there will be no guilt. We are always nostalgic for looking at the past, but we don't understand that the present will be the past.

    —end—

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After breaking up for a long time, I also feel that there is no hope of getting back together. You've tried a lot of ways to gradually forget. When you are about to let go, the other party suddenly takes the initiative to contact you, probably for the following reasons.

    The other person wants to get back together with you. Although I haven't been in touch for a long time, the other party found out that I couldn't let go of you, and I couldn't get out anyway. Every day is painful and painful.

    After all, the other party is just looking for Cong Leak to seep you to be soft, and you don't want to leave regrets or suffer any more. The other party tried to redeem himself, hoping to be reunited again.

    The other party is in trouble, and the friends around him can't help. When there is no way out, the other party will think of you. Although they broke up, the other party still wants your help.

    When people encounter difficulties that can be solved incomparably, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, they will be willing to ask for help from their predecessors. People are also the most vulnerable in the face of difficult searches, and face is no longer the most important thing.

    The other party does a good job of seeping ridges. The other party comes to you and takes the initiative to contact you, just to show off. The other party just wants to tell you that the other party is doing well and is happier without you. The other party still cares about what you thought before. The other party appeared this time to take revenge on you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while We have been broken up for a long time, but this man contacts me every once in a while, what does he mean.

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while Hello After the breakup, I still contact you occasionally It means that he still can't let you go Occasionally I think of you So why don't you just say it, why contact it every once in a while.

    How slow. He can be patient with his emotions After all, you have broken up, occasionally contact to explain that occasionally he can't help but want to contact you.

    If you also have the intention of reconciliation, you can directly explain it to the other party, if he really forgets you, he will not contact you occasionally, don't miss a good relationship.

    I'm only talking to him as a friend now, and I'm going to reply to his messages.

    If you don't have the intention of reconciling, you can keep the relationship for the time being until the other party makes a clear request for reconciliation, and it's okay to be friends after a breakup.

    Ok thanks!

    You're welcome to look forward to your praise.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. After breaking up for more than a year, intermittent contact, he said several times that he missed me, in a different place, I came back and said that I wanted to meet and eat together, but he never mentioned getting back together, and after the breakup, I didn't hear him say that he had a girlfriend, dear, this situation is obvious that he still has you in his heart. After all, you have feelings together.

    And in a case where he doesn't mention getting back together with you, it may be that you won't be with him anymore. I'm afraid you don't agree.

    After breaking up for more than a year, intermittent contact, he said several times that he missed me, in a different place, I came back and said that I wanted to meet and have dinner together, but he never mentioned getting back together, and after the breakup, he didn't hear him say that he had a girlfriend.

    After breaking up for more than a year, intermittent contact, he said several times that he missed me, in a different place, I came back and said that I wanted to meet and eat together, but he never mentioned getting back together, and after the breakup, I didn't hear him say that he had a girlfriend, dear, this situation is obvious that he still has you in his heart. After all, you have feelings together. And in a case where he doesn't mention getting back together with you, it may be that you won't be with him anymore.

    I'm afraid you don't agree.

    Because I usually have time to go back on vacation, and I think he will definitely find a way to come if he really wants to see me.

    It should be the one I analyzed, he wants to get back together with you, but I'm afraid that you don't like him now, and I'm worried that you already have a new relationship. I don't want to add to your troubles.

    But I also said that I miss him, and I also said to see if he is sincere.

    I'm saying it obviously.

    I really don't know what he thinks in his heart? Since you've responded to him, why is he still squirming like this?

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