Have a very good friend, after a long time, his temper is getting worse and worse, and he often gets

Does the best refer to friends of the same sex or the opposite sex?

If you're of the same sex, he may think of you as a brother.

Generally, there is no defense against you, so he will lose his temper with you, but if this is always the case, you should find a suitable opportunity to communicate with him and clearly tell him that too much negative energy will affect your relationship.

If it's the opposite sex, it means that you also have a certain position in his mind, and you may get along well at ordinary times, but once you encounter something that doesn't go your way, you are easy to be impulsive, and you will lose your temper regardless of your feelings, which may be related to his character...

How to get along in the relationship, you can also feel his attitude towards you from the usual, if you give up being friends with him just because of a bad temper, it's a little unfair, after all, you said that you are good friends... Because there is no such thing as a perfect person!

It is not right if you measure it by how much he is better than how good he is to you, because there is no absolutely fair reciprocity in the world. Best wishes!

Your friend has a bad temper. He often gets angry with you because you are too familiar with him and the relationship is too good, so he will be angry with you, but his behavior is not good, you can't get used to him, he is angry with you, you ignore him. Let him feel that he has done something wrong, otherwise he will take it for granted.

When two people are together to deal with a good relationship, she may just be willful. Saying, you said, it's a very good friend, he must be in trouble. Find you to complain, or get angry at you.

You'll be his punching bag, bear with it, if your friends are iron enough. If it's not sweet enough, you do it with him, even if it's a friend, you work with him. If you tell your truth, he will be convinced.

If he treats you as a friend, he won't blame you.

This situation should be looked at separately, first of all, you must find out whether he is unhappy and stressed at his house, and then you have to make sure that he is sincere in his relationship with you, maybe because you are very good friends, so he is completely relaxed, and everything is vented.

Your best friend is so familiar with you that he sometimes can't control his emotions. He doesn't treat you as an outsider, so he plays without scruples.

Generally, if a person dares to be angry with the person closest to him, it means that he cares about you very much. You can find a suitable opportunity to talk to her, and the two of you can tolerate each other.

Then ignore him, keep your distance from him, and don't associate with him. This kind of person doesn't treat you as a friend.

Your friend shouldn't think of you as a particularly good friend, so if he is a little bit convinced of you, then you'd better keep a certain distance from him!

This best friend is that you have a good relationship, and I don't see you outside, and I sprinkle all my temper on you!

If you feel that your character is not good, you can not socialize, and you can stay away from this kind of person if you are angry, and it is good if you don't contact him and don't have any contact?

Then you don't put up with him. Scold back. Otherwise he thinks you're a fake. Let him feel your emotions.

Because she treats you as a real friend, he will occasionally get angry, but he doesn't mean to. If you feel sad, say a few words to him.

If you are a friend for many years, you can directly tell him how you feel, maybe you have been stressed recently, and you should care about her. If she keeps doing this to you, and she gets angry or doesn't change after you communicate, then she probably doesn't treat you as her best friend.

It shows that you don't have a good impression in his mind. Can't be with her at all. There is no grass at the end of the world. Don't worry about the road ahead, there is no one to know. Don't go any further. Leave him! Go and find the right man for you. I wish you happiness.

You can slowly alienate his friends, get along with each other, and say goodbye if you can't say goodbye, and it's not a scarce commodity.

That's because you're too good to him. She relies on you to be good to her, and she can do whatever she wants.

Then ignore him, you're not his punching bag.

It's better for this kind of person to stay away. Do you say that you can't live without him?

Hehe, it's not menopause!

It's a bit like scum development?

Personally, I think there are three situations: 1. Those friends of yours may have that kind of personality, but in fact, they don't mean to be angry with you. 2 You think that those so-called friends of you, they (she) do not have that you to do, it is just your wishful thinking.

3. Some things you do, they feel that your approach, or the result of things, is very inconsistent with them or the public.

In fact, as long as a person has one or 2 to 4 close friends in his life, it is fine. Others can ignore (a bit heavy!). You don't have to add annoyance to yourself.

A few sincere friends that you are worth paying for are enough.

This situation needs to be treated with caution and handled properly:

1.Don't always be accommodating, and don't default to your own problems. Your friend's mood changes are not your fault, and you don't have to feel guilty or over-reflect about it.

2.Communicate in a timely manner and express your doubts and feelings. Tell a friend that you find him and she has been losing her temper with you lately for no apparent reason, which makes you very confused and uncomfortable.

Communicate directly and calmly with a rational and peaceful attitude, which can reduce misunderstandings and make friends aware of their irrationality.

3.Give your friends the right amount of space to laugh, but also express your bottom line. Tell a friend that you understand the ups and downs of people's emotions, but frequent and unprovoked emotional venting is something you can't accept for a long time.

What you need is a stable and rational environment for friendship. This avoids being passively despised and bullied.

4.Analyze the reasons and give understanding and support. In communication, you can try to ask your friend if they have encountered any troubles or troubles recently, and provide listening and support.

But it is also important to tell friends that no matter what the difficulty, it should not be a reason to hurt a friend. You want to be honest and rational with each other.

5.If the situation doesn't change, it doesn't hurt to choose distancing. If your friend is still repeatedly vexatious, proving that the person is not a true friend as you think, there is no need to be too upset to distance yourself or disconnect.

Protecting yourself and choosing rational and positive relationships is also your survival instinct.

In short, in any relationship, it is necessary to insist on rationality, self-esteem, and compromise in moderation. In the face of good friends' abnormal emotional venting, first communicate and express themselves, and give appropriate understanding and support; But you must also dare to express your bottom line and avoid passively tolerating bullying; If the other person is unrepentant, you should also make up your mind to let go and distance yourself. Sincere friendship is always rational and not extreme.

Humans are social animals, and it is obviously impossible not to communicate with others, so you need to make friends so that you are not alone. But when you make friends, you will encounter a variety of personalities, because everyone is an independent individual, their personalities, temperaments are different, everyone likes people with good tempers, but it is impossible for everyone to have a good temper, if your friends have a bad temper, then there will definitely be no less friction between you. And there is a person with a very eccentric personality, her temper itself is not good, but he has a very good temper to the outside, and only loses his temper with the people around him and the people he is familiar with, why do you say this?

One. You should learn to control your temper.

It doesn't matter if you only lose your temper with someone you know or you lose your temper with someone outside, it's not right, because people are in a state of equality, everyone is the same, why would you want to lose your temper with others? You must learn to control your temper or your friends will run away from you.

Two. Just because you are familiar, do you want to lose your temper and hurt your friends?

I especially don't understand those who lose their temper with people who are only familiar to themselves, who are on our side of the nest and are lying outside, cowering and not daring to speak loudly, and being domineering at home, just because of good relations, can you do whatever you want? Did you know that tantrums can hurt others? Don't just lose your temper just because others are nice to you.

Three. You have a bad temper, but no one else is obligated to let you.

When I was in college, I met a classmate, he was always very tall, and he always liked to lose his temper when he spoke to others, but his explanation was that I didn't have a bad temper because I did Madara, but my temper has always been bad, and I replied to him after hearing this sentence at the time, I don't care what your temper is bad for, but your temper is bad, it's your own business, and others have no obligation to let you.

It's not right at all, because I don't want to be friends with such a person, and I feel that I will suffer a lot of unfair treatment when I am with him, and I don't like this feeling.

In fact, if a person has a bad temper, he doesn't want to just lose his temper with people he knows. He's going to lose his temper with anyone.

This shows that your friend is still more likely to look at the object, because the familiar person will understand him. People who are not familiar with him will definitely affect him.

This phenomenon is normal, but you should not lose your temper in the face of familiar people. You should go and persuade the other person.

I think of course it's right, because this kind of person is actually a nest, and they don't dare to lose their temper in front of outsiders.

This is human nature, and it is much more patient in front of strangers, but it can't help it in front of acquaintances.

Therefore, this is not intentional by people, it is really the emotional need of people!

When a good friend loses his temper with you for no apparent reason, you should first consider that they may be going through some kind of emotional or difficult situation, which is causing their mood swings.

Or maybe something happened between you that you didn't know or didn't understand, causing them to have mood swings. In this case, we should try to understand them and take the initiative to communicate.

When they lose their temper, we need to calm down first, don't get angry, and then try to ask them what happened and if there is anything they need help with. If they don't want to talk about it, we should respect their ideas, but also let them know that we are supporting them.

At this time, we can provide some help or advice, such as inviting them to do something relaxing, or sharing similar experiences of their own, or sharing their own opinions, so as to help them get out of their emotional trough. In any case, we want them to know that we care about them and that we are willing to support and help them in their time of need.

Of course, if this situation persists, we can also consider asking other friends or professionals for advice to see if there are other solutions.

In this process, we need to be patient and understanding, and not to feel angry or irritated by the other person's mood swings. Ultimately, our goal is to build a healthy, positive friendship relationship with mutual support and understanding.

This type of person is the best type to get along with. There will be a lot less intrigue content. This type of person has a very clear boundary between friends, trust and distrust are very clear, there is no middle ground, they are not good at facing distrustful relationships, and naturally they are not good at expressing themselves.

As for the short-tempered person, from another point of view, it is another manifestation of oversensitivity, even kindness, and there must be an extremely fragile side in the heart, perhaps a lack of love and security. When you meet a grumpy person, you have to tolerate him, know that his grumpy point is in **, and then solve it! Don't go head-to-head and lose both.

Basically, short-tempered people basically don't have any heart. If you go straight, tell them directly if you have something, don't make any mistakes, admit them directly, and don't hide them. Treat her sincerely, and after a long time, she will be sincere.

This kind of friend has a strong sense of self-protection. In fact, this kind of person is very fragile in his heart, and at the same time he is very kind.

Do not hide things, be loyal to friends. Do things and speak more bluntly. When you meet such a person, you should be easy and harmonious, and explain what you want to do slowly and carefully.

Tell her what you want to say sincerely. Treat with sincerity, get along with sincerity, and after a long time, she will treat you as a good friend and say nothing!

Talk to her happily, at least benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith still understand, if communication is the key to open the door to each other's hearts, then one party must take the initiative first, and resolving the contradiction is to face the contradiction bravely, there must be one party to stretch out an olive branch first, there is a word called tolerance is big, you don't have to be with her general knowledge, take the initiative, I think she will not be the old, the mode of getting along is too bad.

As a friend, if you only lose your temper once in a while, it's forgivable, because everyone will encounter things that don't go your way, if he always loses his temper with you alone, and he has a good temper with others, then I don't think this friend is worth making friends, because he completely sees you as a tool to release his temper.

I don't think you can make friends with him, a person with a bad temper is destined to not be able to do great things. There is no point in associating with him.