Love is not the more you give, the more the balance is tilted, and you can t let go

Well, how do you say this......It's not all, it depends.

Love is not only about possessing each other, but also tolerance, love, trust, and what you call giving. Everyone has their own selfishness, and if you give, you will want to be 1Kind of pay, also 1

I love you to the bone. But love is inherently unfair.

Love 1Individuals should not think that we are in a 1Whether he will be happy or not, but how I can make him happy.

The best love in the world is the love that allows your loved ones to meet them...

So what I want to say is, if you can't catch the ta, then let go and let the ta's fly out of your hands like a kite with a broken string until the ta's is another 1Individual pick-up. This is the greatest love.

The last thing I want to say is, you don't put too much burden on yourself, the sample fee is very tiring.

I hope you can find your own best love.

Just sauce purple. Touch your head ......I'm swollen and feel like I'm off topic.

Boys and girls are different when they treat love, the more women pay, the more they will never forget, and men will let go of love very thoroughly in many cases, it is recommended that you keep yourself even if you love no matter how much you love, do not change easily, so that even if you are not together in the future, you still have yourself. Come on

The more you pay, the more you invest, and when you don't come together in the end, that is, you don't have any return on your investment, of course, it's hard to let go, and it's not impossible to put down!

Love is like a master's trick, hehe.

The mystery is not so easy to understand.

Love, indeed, the more you give, the more you can't let go. Because I paid it, I want to get an equivalent return, and then I can't wait for the return and then I start to wonder if it's not enough to invest, continue to invest, and I can't let it go, so it seems that love also wants to gamble, and the mood of the lover is very similar to the mood of a gambler.

I paid so much, and I was unwilling to reap the rewards, so I kept waiting for the fruits of victory! I can't put it down!!

Sometimes the balance of love is not based on how much people put it, but on what people put it on. If you put money on one side and look on the other. So how much money do you want you to put in the right amount?

And because your appearance is going to fade with age, you have to keep discounting. And only when sincerity is placed on both sides of the scale, this balance is the flattest and the most innocent. And no matter how much you put it, it won't tilt.

No, love is not measured by how much you give, and there is nothing in the world that can measure something.

In fact, it varies from person to person, everyone's views on love are different, and giving does not necessarily need to be reciprocated, but to make the person you love happier. As for whether you can let go, it doesn't depend on how much you give, but how deeply you care.

Love is actually fair You love him (her) a point, he (she) should also love you a point. If you give 10 points and get very little, then there's no need to continue

True love is about how much you give, if you love someone, you will always think about him (her), just think (he) she is good, love is actually very simple, but also very complicated, really love each other to understand.

I think that's true in reality.

True love for someone is not reciprocated.

Summary. Good afternoon, beautiful love is the process of sweet interaction between two people, two people who truly love each other will not care how much they pay for each other, and are happy to pay more for each other and feel willing. You said that love is not a balance, and you can never achieve reciprocity, I don't know why you care so much about reciprocity?

Love is not a transaction, why should it be reciprocal? Is it because the person you love thinks you don't do enough for him or her? Or do you feel that you are giving too much for him or her and are mentally unbalanced?

Love is not a balance, are you willing to be the one who gives more?

Good afternoon in Zhonghong, beautiful love is the process of sweet interaction between two people, two people who really love each other will not care how much they pay for each other, and are happy to pay more for each other and feel willing. You said that love is not as flat as the sky cherry blossoms, and you can never be reciprocal, I don't know why you care so much about reciprocity? Love is not a transaction, why should it be reciprocal?

Is it because the person you love thinks you don't do enough for him or her? Or do you feel that you are giving too much for him or her and are mentally unbalanced?

I don't think if you love him or her enough, none of the questions I asked and the elders you talked about would be a problem. Because to love him (her) is to give each other more and better! If two people are concerned about each other's contributions, you will not be able to fall in love without Suichai.

Just imagine, if you have this kind of thought when you get along: today I spent 200 yuan for you, and tomorrow I hope you spend 400 yuan for me to balance the psychology, really have such a mentality, do you say that such love can go on for a long time, it is definitely impossible.

The person who really loves each other in the middle age is not more accountable than the other party, I am willing to be the one who pays more, and the person I love is also willing to pay more for me! Two people who really love each other have to be like this, true love is the first condition, if you love him (her) enough, don't care how much you have paid for each other!

Hope it helps.

Good luck and have a great day.

When there is an imbalance, the occurrence of love between men and women is the wish of both parties, the relationship between the two should be equal, and they will respect each other in all aspects.

This is the premise and foundation of the fall of love between men and women, and it is also the most basic condition, and it is also the core of the love relationship. When it is dispensable, once a man and a woman love each other, they will always pretend to each other in their hearts, always care about and pay attention to each other, and carefully guard each other.

On weekdays, the two always like to accompany each other, when they are not together, they will worry about each other, think about each other day and night, especially miss each other, **, the information is constant, it can be said that "early instructions, late report", no matter how big or small things will spare no effort, when you have emotional behavior, it will involve each other's hearts.

Always think about each other's needs and desires and each other's feelings, do their best to satisfy and please each other, and see each other as very important. "Spare tire" when the word "spare tire" was originally a car noun, and it is buried to prepare a spare tire for the car, once a wheel has a problem, the spare tire will be replaced in a convenient and timely manner to maintain the normal driving of the car.

Now people also jokingly introduce the concept of "spare tire" in terms of feelings, that is, the other party already has love, but does not refuse the love of others, accepts it all, and then chooses and compares it to choose a better one, or after breaking up with oneself, there is still a choice, so that there will be no lack of lovers.

These couples are like substitutes on the sports field, when everyone can become each other's spare tire and tired, the experience of loving people together is sweet, happy, and relaxed.

This is the state of love, but although some men and women are in love with each other on the surface, the two are always two contradictions that cannot be run-in. The relationship between the two is like a car dragging square wheels, and they can't operate normally after all kinds of effort, and there are always endless conflicts between them, quarrels and quarrels at every turn, and even fights, or cold wars.

This contradiction is solved, that problem comes out again, the two sides always need their own efforts and maintenance in order to make the relationship go on normally, the relationship between the two will be impacted if they are not careful, and even feel that there is a wind and grass at every turn, which will directly lead to the feelings of the two parties can not be harmonious, and the two people work hard to maintain, but they always change and have little effect.

The balance of love will be unbalanced, and the general Zen preparation is because the feelings of the two parties have a certain imbalance, for example, the love of one party may be much greater than the love of the other party, and the balance group causes the balance to be unbalanced.

In my heart, I don't want to give a lot more.

There is a saying that if love is not long, wisdom will hurt. In my opinion, it is better to be reciprocal in adult love, and I am not willing to give more and I am not willing to be hurt. may not be a little girl in her early twenties, at that time she could pay a lot for love, she didn't account for the gains and losses at all, and she also had the courage not to hit the south wall and not look back, but the more she grew up, the more she felt that it was better to love yourself than to love others too much.

Of course, if you just give a little more in your relationship, I think it's okay. After all, emotional matters cannot be measured, it is impossible for two people to pay completely equally, if you just pay a little more, I think it's okay. For example, when the other party is busy, I will try to be considerate of him, and I will take care of him more when I have time and energy.

But if I had to pay a lot, a lot, and the scales had completely tilted, it would have been impossible.

After all, if a person loves others more, he will love himself less. I used to think that loving someone was about being unreserved, but now I don't think so. It's not that I'm completely afraid that I'll get hurt after giving everything I have, but I just feel that lovers also need some sense of distance between each other, and in these distances, we have to keep some time and energy for ourselves.

Love yourself well and make yourself a better person, so that your relationship can last a long time. And if a person doesn't even love himself, the other party will take all your efforts for granted, he won't respect you and love you, and gradually, you will become more and more humble in this relationship. I have one such friend, she has been in love for seven years, and she has lived from a very confident girl to a sloppy woman with low self-esteem and like an old mother.

In short, love is indeed not a balance, but it should not be too unbalanced. It may be nice to maintain a dynamic balance, but it must not be too heavy at one end and too light at the other.

I think it makes sense to go both ways, I am willing to be the one who pays more, but you have to see my pay, and at the same time pay a little to me, so that it is meaningful, if you can do this, I am also willing to pay.

I don't want to be the one who gives too much because I think it's too unfair and I can't get what I deserve.

I won't do that more in love, because the more I give, the worse it may hurt.

If you like to win people very much, you won't care about how much you give, because you will feel that no matter how much you give, you will feel that you are less.

I do. Because to love him is to show him your love and action, not to calculate who gives more and who gives less, and I can be willing to do this to him because he deserves it.

I am willing to do it, because I love her, and I am willing to give everything for her, even my life.

I do, but only if I have someone around me who is worth my giving.

In love, in fact, I am willing to be the one who gives more, because I think that if I give more, he can also make him love me more.

I do, because loving someone makes you unconsciously want to give for him, not want to reciprocate.