Not long after getting married, the salary has to be handed over to the mother or the wife

Keep it for yourself.

One-third for one, one-third for yourself.

One and a half. Then slowly over-give the daughter-in-law, and the alimony of the old man must be set aside and handed over to the wife!

This is your own small family.,Of course, it should be handed over to your wife.,And then discuss with your wife at the right opportunity to hand over part of your small family's name to your parents.,That's the last word.。。。

And according to the current marriage law, your property (including salary income) after marriage should belong to the joint property of your husband and wife, even if you earn your own money, so it is more appropriate to hand it over to your wife!

What is given to your wife is half of the whole, and your mother is half of the whole half, and the rest is your own.

Give one-third to the mother, one-fourth to the wife, and keep the rest for yourself, such a benefit:

1. Honor your mother, after all, your mother gave birth to you.

Second, let your wife know that you are a good husband.

3. Leave yourself a way out, if your wife divorces ......Although this is a bit nonsense, after all, the big man still earns his own money, and it is necessary to keep a little for himself.

You tell me?

Of course, it's for your wife, and you can also give your mother a small part. Of course, those who have a family should keep some private money.

One and a half. Then slowly over-give the daughter-in-law, and the alimony of the old man must be set aside.

One-third for one, one-third for yourself.

China's law does not clearly stipulate who will manage the salary after marriage, and it needs to be negotiated by both parties, and the income after marriage will be managed by whom. The right to dispose of the property on an equal footing means that the nature of the joint property of the husband and wife is that of the husband and wife in common, not in shares, so the husband and wife should enjoy the same rights and bear the same obligations in respect of all the joint property without any share, and the amount of ownership of the joint property shall not be determined according to the economic income of the husband and wife.

So, to a certain extent, there is a basis for your wife to ask you to pay your salary, because you have her share in your salary. Of course, you can be very domineering and choose not to turn it in. But I want to remind you that if you pay or not, your wife's share is there, and it will not increase or decrease.

Husband and wife may agree that property acquired during the marriage and property acquired before marriage shall be separately or jointly owned or partly separately and partly jointly owned. The agreement shall be in writing. The legal property system of husband and wife implemented in China is the joint income system after marriage, that is, during the existence of the marital relationship, all the income and property acquired by the husband and wife, except for the personal property of the husband and wife and other agreements, are jointly owned by the husband and wife.

The property peculiar to the husband and wife refers to the property owned by one of the husband or wife alone, that is, the property that is inseparable from the personal status and the property that is not suitable for both parties to be jointly owned for personal occupation or daily needs.

What are the requirements for marriage.

1. Both men and women are completely voluntary.

2. Reach the legal age of marriage.

3. Conform to the principle of monogamy.

Legal basisCivil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1062.

The following property acquired by the husband and wife during the marriage relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

2) Income from production, operation and investment;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

Article 1063.

The following property is the personal property of one of the spouses:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Compensation or compensation received by one party for personal injury;

3) Property that is determined in a will or gift contract to belong to only one party;

4) Dedicated daily necessities for one side;

5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

Legal analysis: The specific situation needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and China's law does not clearly stipulate who will manage the post-marital salary, and it is necessary for both parties to negotiate and who will manage the post-marital income.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1062 The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of their marital relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

2) Income from production, operation and investment;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

Article 1063 The following property shall be the personal property of one of the husband and wife:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Compensation or compensation received by one party for personal injury;

3) Property that is determined in a will or gift contract to belong to only one party;

4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

Article 1065:A man and a woman may agree that property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship and property acquired before marriage shall be owned separately or jointly, or partly separately or partly jointly. The agreement shall be in writing. Where there is no agreement or the agreement is not clear, the provisions of Article 1062 and Article 1063 of this Law apply.

The agreement between the husband and wife on the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage is legally binding on both parties.

If the husband and wife agree that the property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall belong to each other, and the debts owed by the husband or wife to the outside world are known to the counterpart, the personal property of the husband or wife shall be repaid.

Legal analysis: There is no question of whether you should or should not pay your parents before marriage, it depends on your personal wishes.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

If you are unmarried, you are a person who spends money indiscriminately, loves to spend money, and spends money very generously, it is very appropriate for your salary to be kept by your parents, so as to eliminate unnecessary spending of money, and you can also save money for urgent needs.

Pay money to your parents, they won't spend it, most of it is saved for their children. We young people are used to spending lavishly, and giving some to our parents can prevent us from spending money indiscriminately. And this can also cultivate our sense of responsibility well, understand that it is not easy to earn money, and understand the responsibility of the family.

Parents have paid all their lives, and their children have finally grown up and can work and earn money, so they can relax. Parents don't ask for money from their children. It is the traditional practice of the Chinese nation to hand over money to parents for escrow.

It is also the embodiment of family rules. lest thou spend lavishly, and save up thy food for the night. When you get married, buy a house, and get married, your parents will return to Zhao, why don't you do it?!

If I am married, I will set up my own account, in addition to the monthly living expenses, the rest of the money saved, because once I get married, there will be more and more places where I need to use money in the future, I must first put my heart on my own small suspicions, and then my parents, not to say that I want to be an unfilial person, it is the tradition of the Chinese nation and even the people of the world, once people become adults and become families, they must leave the original family, to build their own small family, and pass it on from generation to generation.

In short, you should have a plan and be assertive, especially after getting married and starting a family, you should manage your own finances for the small family, rather than having your parents manage your income instead. Whether or not to give it to parents depends on the actual situation and your own situation. After all, each of our families grew up in a different environment.

No, after getting married, it means that you have a new family and your own responsibilities, and you shouldn't.