Among the many women, why did Jia s mother finally decide to let Baochai marry Baoyu?

First, Baoyu's condition at that time could only be alleviated by marrying Baochai; Second, the situation of the Jia family can only be temporarily alleviated with the help of the Xue family's status；Third, Lin Daiyu.

's own conditions do not meet to be Jia Jiabao's second grandmother.

1. Jin Yu Liang Yuan Jia Mu.

The situation at that time wasJia BaoyuThe "jade" was lost for no reason, no matter how you look for it, you can't find it, Jia Fu.

I searched all over the inside and outside of Jiafu, but there was no trace of jade. <>

The loss of the jade is secondary, the important thing is that Jia Baoyu is also unconscious, talking nonsense all day long, crazy, and a few days later, his breath is weak, and he is about to die.

Jia Baoyu's state is to kill Jia's mother and Mrs. Wang, Jia Baoyu has been held in the palm of Jia's mother since she was a child, she is afraid of melting in her mouth, and she is afraid of falling off in her hand, and now this way makes them crazy. In this moment of panic,They thought of the "golden and jade relationship", and if there is "gold", then the "jade" will naturally come out. <>

That's it, Mrs. Wang, Wang Xifeng.

Discuss with Jia Mu and others to let Xue Baochai.

Married to Jia Baoyu. knew that Jia Baoyu had Lin Daiyu in his heart, so he used the strategy of adjusting the bag to coax Jia Baoyu to marry Xue Baochai.

Second, the financial situation of the Jia family The Jia family is already in a downhill state at this time, and it belongs to an empty shelfNow there is an urgent need to find someone who can bring Jia Fu to marry. The Xue family is a good choice, the Xue family is an imperial businessman, although their social status is low, but they are super rich. <>

What the Jia family lacks is not social status, but moneyThey need a rich man to be a partner, and they need a rich person to support them to prop up a façade. And the Xue family also needs the Jia family to improve their social status, and Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu are more of a political marriage.

Third, Lin Daiyu's own conditions are relatively weak, and many women have a good impression of Baoyu, such as Miaoyu.

Lin Daiyu, Shi Xiangyun.

and so on, and the rest are all some rings.

It is impossible to become Baoyu's wife. There are only Miaoyu, Lin Daiyu, Shi Xiangyun, and Xue Baochai, Miaoyu is a monk, it is naturally impossible, and it is impossible for Shi Xiangyun's family to be poor, only Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are left. <>

Xue Baochai is generous and sleek, with his brother and mother in the family, and the identity of the imperial businessman adds points to himself.

What about Lin Daiyu? Lin Daiyu had nothing to do with Jia Baoyu and was emotional, twisting and pinching, stingy and willfulThere is no father, no mother, no brothers and sisters, and no capital, so he has to rely on Jiafu to survive, it seems that there is no benefit for the Jia family to marry such a woman.

and Lin Daiyu can't do without decoction all day long, and her body is relatively weakAs the second grandmother of the Jia family, she needs to take on the responsibility of passing on the ancestry, and Lin Daiyu is not in good health, so it is difficult to bear this responsibility.

Because Jia's mother already knows that Baoyu's temperament can't control Nuoda's Jiafu, and Baochai is shrewd, capable, and calculating, and can become Baoyu's good wife, the housewife of Jiafu.

Jia's mother must consider all aspects of Baoyu's family affairs, and instinctively only looks at Baoyu's preferences, so on the whole, Baochai is the most suitable for her requirements, whether it is family background or clever work, she is suitable to be Baoyu's wife.

First of all, it is because Baochai and Baoyumen are right, secondly, Baochai has the ability to be the housewife, and finally Jia's mother knows Baochai more well, and she is very relieved.

Because of the big one in the frustration, only Baochai's family has money, Daiyu was originally the best choice, but unfortunately her father of the second grade died and the family property was also used by the Jia family, and it was naturally not suitable to be alone.

On the one hand, it is more suitable for the family, and Baochai's ability is outstanding, on the other hand, Daiyu is not in good health.

The general trend has gone down the river to push the boat, begging for a pension in old age.

Lin Daiyu. It must be known to everyone that he likes each other with Jia Baoyu, although he said "Dream of Red Mansions".

The original book has no ending, only the content of the first eighty chapters, but many sequels and readers guess that it is Xue Baochai in the end based on the inferences of the foreshadowing above.

married to Jia Baoyu, Jia Baoyu doesn't like Xue Baochai, does Xue Baochai have friendship for Jia Baoyu? <>

In my opinion, there will be a little bit at the beginning, the Xue family came to the Jia family to borrow, one of the purposes is so that the two families can marry, so Xue Baochai, who consciously matched Jia Baoyu, also said "Jinyu good fate."

However, the Jia family did not respond, after all, at that time, the Jia family was the head of Li Liang - Jia's mother.

I especially like the two jades, Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu get along with each other, there will be a little bit of affection, but I don't think much, don't forget Xue Baochai's flower sign "even if it is ruthless and moving", "Dream of Red Mansions" is a big two points are everywhere foreshadowing, and the paragraph in the book that draws the flower lot hints at the character's character. <>

Xue Baochai is reluctant from a personal emotional point of view, even if he can't see the relationship between the two on weekdays, he heard Jia Baoyu before, "What kind of gold and jade relationship, I prefer wood and stone marriage."

's dream words, I must also know how deep the relationship between Bao Dai and the two is, but Xue Baochai is a "ruthless" person, not that she has no emotion, but that she will not be emotional, Wang Xifeng.

There is a sentence to evaluate Xue Baochai: "If you don't do your own business, you don't speak, and you shake your head when you ask." "It's Xue Baochai's self-interest, there is no benefit or nothing to do with herself, she won't interfere if she knows how to deal with the problem, she will only care about what is good for herself, marrying Jia Baoyu is a thing that is good for herself, so it is not so important to her.

The marriage between the Jia family and the Xue family must be a strong alliance, the Jia family is a hereditary title, the Xue family is mainly in business, rich and powerful, no matter how you look at it, it is a profitable business, so even if Xue Baochai doesn't like Jia Baoyu, but for the interests of himself and the family, he will definitely marry Jia Baoyu if he has the opportunity.

I didn't want to marry before, because I thought Jia Baoyu was too arrogant and domineering, and later I wanted to compete with Lin Daiyu, so I married Jia Baoyu.

Because Xue Baochai knew that Jia Baoyu already had someone in her heart, in the end, she couldn't disobey her parents' orders, and she didn't dare to fight, so she still got married.

At first, he may not have a good impression of Jia Baoyu, but with the change of the family, he had to find a strong backstage, and in the end, he had a good impression of Jia Baoyu.

The family and birth environment are different from the real life state, and they were all the right people in that era.

11703 Because Xue Baochai knew that there was already a hole key in Jia Baoyu's heart, in the end, she couldn't disobey the orders of her parents, and she didn't dare to fight, so she still got married.

Because Xue Baochai was a marriage arranged for him by Jia's mother, he couldn't refuse and could only accept it, and he could only bear it silently, so he could only marry Xue Baochai.

felt that the other party's personality was very suitable for him, and it was also to complete his own life events, so he married Xue Baochai.

I feel that this person is a good fit for me. is also a very kind woman in life, so she will marry each other home.

Because Jia Baoyu was forced by someone, this situation will occur.

Jia Baoyu didn't know that he was marrying Xue Baochai at the beginning, thinking that he was marrying Lin Daiyu, but he could only say that he had been deceived.

Mother Jia wanted Daiyu to marry Baoyu, but the people in Mrs. Wang's faction disagreed, Mother Jia was too old to control Mrs. Wang, and naturally she couldn't be the master to let Daiyu marry her.

Jia's mother very much wanted Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu, he was a pity that he died early, and there were other people in the Jia family who didn't want Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu.

Although Lin Daiyu is very good, Lin Daiyu's mother has passed away and there is no backstage, and marrying Jia Baoyu will not help Jia Baoyu's future.

In the first eighty episodes, Jia Mu and Sister Feng both liked Daiyu very much, and joked about Daiyu and Baoyu together, they supported Bao Dai, and the next few times because they were not the original authors, so they felt a bit of conflict with the front.

Can't you see it, even Cao Xueqin has written very clearly before, Daiyu's character is out of place, and it is not tolerated by the society at that time, she is too young woman, too sensitive, born with a sentimental and sick body, all kinds of signs show that she is not qualified for the role of the future leader of internal affairs in Jiafu and the heir of Wang Xifeng, although Jia's mother is very loved because Daiyu is her granddaughter, but Xue Baochai, who is "quite popular in Jiafu", can please her even more. After Baochai learned that she had no hope of entering the palace, she was already planning to be Bao's second grandmother in her heart. Baochai's birthday plays, all the scenes are lively - because she knows that Jia's mother always likes to be lively, and then Jia's mother asks her what she likes to eat, and she also cleverly says that she likes sweets - because she understands that the old man likes sweet things, plus Jiafu holds the real power is Mrs. Wang, Wang Xifeng and a group of people, and their arms are always turned inward - Baochai is the daughter of Mrs. Wang's own sister, and it is even closer to them.

The influence of such a group of people on Jia Mu is very great. So-

It was Daiyu who won Baoyu's love, but it was Baochai who actually married Baoyu.

Jia's mother hopes that Daiyu will marry Baoyu, after all, Daiyu's mother is her only biological daughter.

It was Mrs. Wang who wanted Baochai to marry Baoyu, but she was afraid of Jia's mother's opposition, so she specially invited their Jia family's backer Yuanchun from the palace to order Baoyu to marry Baochai. Jia Mu is helpless!

Jia's mother's gaze is on the entire family. And Daiyu is just a talented woman who can do poetry in the end. It's not good for the family. And Baochai is a very good woman, she is quite evil, I like her a lot, and I don't like Daiyu who cries all day long.

Lin Daiyu is the daughter of Jia's mother's daughter, and her granddaughter becomes her granddaughter-in-law, so Lin Daiyu is called Jia's mother's grandmother or grandma?

It's boring to marry......

Hehe; )

Marrying Baoyu is a need for the interests of the family. The Xue family made two preparations for Xue Baochai:

1, a woman who drafted into the palace to be the emperor;

2, married to Jiafu to be Baoyu's wife.

Xue Baochai lost the draft, and marrying Baoyu was the only choice for the Xue family.

At the same time, marrying Baoyu is Baochai's own will. She likes Jia Baoyu's appearance and aura. Like Jia's mother, she always thinks that Baoyu is still young and immature, and when he is sensible, he will feel at ease in the career economy.

With his own intelligence and the power of Jiafu, he will definitely be able to be a big official, then he will fully meet her requirements. She is optimistic about Jia Baoyu's future and the future of their marriage.

Xue Baochai, one of the heroines in the classical book "Dream of Red Mansions", the cousin and wife of the male protagonist Jia Baoyu. She has a plump appearance, elegant manners, and abides by women's morality, and is a "cold beauty" who represents the model of feudal women. His father died early, and he had a mother (Aunt Xue) and a brother (Xue Pan).

Baochai entered Beijing mainly to choose the position of "talented person and praise good", but due to various reasons, it was not mentioned later. After entering Beijing, he lived in Jiafu with his mother Aunt Xue and brother Xue Pan. She hangs a gold lock engraved with "never leave and never give up, and the fragrance will continue forever", which is exactly a pair with the jade engraved on the jade carried by Jia Baoyu, "Don't forget it, Xianshou Hengchang", which means good fate of gold and jade.

Dream of Red Mansions was lost after eighty times, it is speculated that Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai got married, but because the two parties did not have common ideals and interests, Jia Baoyu could not forget his bosom friend Lin Daiyu, and became a monk one or two years after marriage and returned to Qinggeng Peak. Xue Baochai had no choice but to stay alone in the empty boudoir and hold a grudge for life.

Although Jia Baoyu likes Lin Daiyu, Jia Baoyu's family is optimistic about Xue Baochai, wasn't the marriage at that time all the orders of the parents and the words of the matchmaker? Moreover, Xue Baochai is generous and decent in everything, and the status of the province is worthy of Jiafu, and she will also persuade Jia Baoyu to take the right path (imperial examination), but Lin Daiyu is different, although she is the granddaughter of Mrs. Shi and is deeply liked by Mrs. Shi, but from an objective point of view, Xue Baochai is more suitable to be the future hostess of Jiafu. Xue Baochai's ability is also there, just look at the chapter where she assisted Wang Xifeng, and she is also generous to people, which is very popular.

Looking at the physical health again, Xue Baochai's body is simply the physique of an athlete, but Lin Daiyu's fragile little body, the so-called unfilial piety has three, and no queen is great. If you really marry Lin Daiyu, I'm afraid that you won't be able to give birth to a healthy little p, or Xue Baochai will be more secure.

Under the persuasion of the people in Jiafu and Wang Xifeng's drop, Jia Baoyu inexplicably married Xue Baochai, at that time, it is estimated that Jia Baoyu thought that he was going to marry Lin Daiyu, but when he arrived in the cave room, there was a big change, Lin Daiyu became Xue Baochai, and he had to marry if he didn't marry.

The old version is the same, because the background of the Xue family is better than Lin's, and their whole family hopes to marry Xue, but Jia Baoyu was deceived, thinking that he married Lin and got married.

Brother, haven't you read the famous book "Dream of Red Mansions", the original book was written here. This may be the helplessness of love and reality. Personally, I like Lin Daiyu very much, especially the one played by Lin Xiaoxu in the old version of Dream of Red Mansions, who is simply a living lady who came out of Chinese painting.

Lin Daiyu, the most affectionate and sexual wonder in the world. But such people, no matter what the era, are often victims of society. Helpless, sad.

At the same time, here, I pay tribute to the long-deceased Lin Xiaoxu, a beautiful and talented woman like Lin Daiyu!