In Dream of Red Mansions , is Tanchun s feelings for his biological mother Aunt Zhao very distorted

Tanchun is usually majestic and self-disciplined, but Aunt Zhao makes mistakes, but she says that her ears are soft and she has no calculations in her heart, so it seems that she secretly maintains her biological mother, so she can hide it in exchange for Ping'er, so Tanchun's feelings for Aunt Zhao are not very distorted.

In the dream of Red Mansions, Aunt Zhao is a concubine, and she has a bad character, often makes a fool of herself, Tanchun has a strong personality, and wants to dilute the background of the concubine, but because of family affection, she loves and hates Aunt Zhao.

Of course, it is very distorted, in that feudal Jiafu, although Tanchun is the young lady of Jiafu, but her biological mother is just an aunt, she will want to be close, but she is afraid of getting too close.

Tanchun was sold into Jiafu as a girl when she was young, although it was quite easy to work in a big family like Jiafu. But the fact that he was sold by his biological mother directly affected Tanchun's feelings for Aunt Zhao.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", why didn't Wang Xifeng look at Tanchun's face when he bullied Aunt Zhao?

In the process of housekeeping, Wang Xifeng treated Aunt Zhao according to the rules and did not treat her badly.

Aunt Zhao is Jia Zheng's concubine in "Dream of Red Mansions", and the biological mother of Jia Huan and Jia Tanchun. Although Jia Zheng is the other supreme power in Jia Mansion in addition to Jia Mu, he doesn't care about the housekeeping and miscellaneous affairs in the house. Although Jia Huan is a small master, he is still young, and he is studying.

Only Jia Tanchun was born to Aunt Zhao. But it is very good, and his talent is second only to Daiyu and Baochai: his talent is not inferior to Wang Xifeng.

Therefore, for the face of Aunt Zhao, the biological mother of Tanchun, Sister Feng, the general manager of Jiafu, should be quite important.

However, Wang Xifeng didn't take Aunt Zhao seriously.

Why? Don't you give Jia Tanchun face? No, objectively, Aunt Zhao is a concubine, and under the feudal patriarchal system, the distinction between wife and concubine is the division between master and slave. In Wang Xifeng's eyes, Aunt Zhao can only be a half-master and half-slave.

For example, when Aunt Zhao scolded her son Jia Huan, she was heard by Sister Feng, saying that Aunt Zhao didn't understand the rules, and Jia Huan was a young master and master. Aunt Zhao is half the master, and she only has the obligation to take care of Jia Huan.

Jia Huan only did the master, and the wife scolded the master. Another example, her biological daughter Tanchun, she is "shrewd and self-ambitious", a talented, knowledgeable, and ambitious girl. Then her self-esteem is in contradiction with her daughter's status.

Sometimes, she also tries to clear up her relationship with the Zhao family.

For example, he publicly declared, "I only know the lord and the wife, and I don't care about the others." He opened the distance with his biological mother, Aunt Zhao, and expressed his love for Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Wang.

For example, when his uncle Zhao Guoji died, he only gave twenty taels of silver according to the rules, even if Sister Feng promised to give more, Tanchun still insisted. What's more, Aunt Zhao is not treated well and is looked down upon by others, which also has her own reasons.

Aunt Zhao also knows clearly: she is a concubine. Low self-esteem, selfishness, nothing to do, sometimes self-deprecation is boring.

always wants to change the status of his son Jia Huan, hoping that his son will inherit the family business. framed Jia Baoyu and put Baoyu to death all the time.

For example, Aunt Zhao and Ma Daopo teamed up to plot the "Nightmare Ghost Method" and wanted to kill Baoyu and Wang Xifeng together. Another example:

Aunt Zhao has low emotional intelligence, is confused and ignorant, does not know how to advance or retreat, and is used by others, such as: "Riley powder replaces the rose nitrate" incident. lost her identity as an aunt and scolded each other with the little girl, rolled together, and did something that couldn't be put on the table.

Therefore, Tanchun is sometimes quite embarrassed, and he also scoffs at Aunt Zhao's behavior.

Therefore, sometimes the face is earned by oneself and given to oneself. For example, the same is an aunt, and Aunt Zhou is much stronger than her. Sometimes Aunt Zhao is too indiscriminate, which also makes the people of Jiafu disdain her.

If Wang Xifeng is taking care of Tanchun's face and protecting Aunt Zhao, then I don't know what happened to her. On the contrary, Sister Feng will also be blinded by Tanchun.

Because Wang Xifeng was originally such a character, he was very arrogant and didn't care about other people's feelings at all, so when he bullied Aunt Zhao, he didn't look at anyone's face.

Because of Tanchun, I don't want to recognize this aunt at all. She had always felt that it was a shame for her to be born in her aunt's belly. So she didn't care at all.

Because Tanchun's status in Jiafu is not high, many maids look down on her, let alone Wang Xifeng, the big housekeeper of Jiafu.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", Tanchun is an important character second only to Baochai and Daiyu. She is also a very good woman, although her poetry is slightly inferior to Baochai Daiyu, but her housekeeping ability and her personality have also attracted the love of some people. So for Tanchun, the only thing that makes it difficult to be the same as her is her attitude towards her biological mother, Aunt Zhao.

Why does Tanchun hate his biological mother so much?

1. Aunt Zhao is very ignorant, which makes Tanchun very embarrassed Tanchun In order not to be burdened by her background, Tanchun defends Mrs. Wang everywhere, but Aunt Zhao always does a lot of despicable things, often making Tanchun lose face.

When Aunt Zhao's brother Zhao Guoji died, Tanchun only rewarded 20 taels according to the old rules in the hands of the ancestors, but this matter was finally learned by Aunt Zhao, and she ran directly to Tanchun's housekeeper's place in anger and made a big fuss, saying that Tanchun was "stepping on her head", and forced Tanchun to appoint Zhao Guoji as his uncle, making Tanchun so angry that he cried on the spot.

The most disrespectful thing for Aunt Zhao is that she fought with Fang Guan, although Fang Guan was too frivolous, but she herself was also an aunt, so noisy naturally made everyone look down on her, and it almost affected Tanchun.

Second, Tanchun called Mrs. Wang "mother", which is exactly what is stipulated by feudal society, on the surface, Tanchun only recognizes Mrs. Wang as her mother, which is very unfilial to Aunt Zhao. In fact, in feudal society, the children of the concubine do want to recognize Mrs. Zhengwu as their mother, and the aunt can only be half a master at most, although Aunt Zhao gave birth to a son and a daughter for the second master Jia Zheng, but for Jia Fu, there is no essential difference with the slave maid, for example, every time Baoyu goes to see Jia Zheng, Aunt Zhao has to open the curtain for him. Jia Huan made a mistake, Aunt Zhao was teaching him a lesson, but Wang Xifeng scolded through the window, "He is the master, how wrong is he, free lord, his wife educates him, what does it have to do with you!"

In fact, in many details, you can see Tanchun's concern for Aunt Zhao. For example, that time Aunt Zhao and Fang Guan fought, although Tanchun said that Aunt Zhao was beaten, but after the fact, he seriously investigated who instigated Aunt Zhao; Baoyu and Daiyu were in the Xiaoxiang Pavilion, Aunt Zhao pretended to come in to say hello, and Daiyu knew that Aunt Zhao was from Tanchun, and the people on the way were ......

Therefore, Tanchun is not very unfilial to his biological mother, but it is just related to the feudal etiquette and Aunt Zhao's usual unobtrusive style.

In the Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Tanchun has a very poor relationship with his biological mother Aunt Zhao, this is because Jia Tanchun is very unaccustomed to some of his biological mother's actions, and the two are unwilling to communicate with each other, and Aunt Zhao is very patriarchal.

The level of indifference far exceeds that of Aunt Zhao and Tanchun's mother and daughter. When Mrs. Wang learned from the attacker's brother that the attacker's mother was seriously ill, she promised to allow the attacker to go home, and prepared a lot of things for the attacker to go back to his parents' house, and wanted to return to his parents' house in style. But when the attacker learned that his mother was critically ill, he laughed it off.

Later, she simply wore a nice dress, and her luggage was very simple, and her dress was very ordinary. All these details are enough to show that the attacker does not have his own mother in his heart, and he is very cold to his mother.

It was the mother and daughter who attacked the person, and the brother Hua Zifang said that the mother was seriously ill and wanted to see her daughter, and Mrs. Wang ordered Wang Xifeng to arrange a "grand guard of honor" to go out. The "half-day" attack on people dressed up for a long time. When Sister Feng said that the clothes were a little plain, the attacker laughed at Wang Xifeng, which showed the attacker's indifference to her mother, the pain that could never be made up in her heart when she was sold since she was a child, and she looked at the master's face to beg for life, so she was indifferent to her mother.

Yes, because she looks down on her mother at all, and her attitude towards her mother is also very bad, and she should not do this as a child.

It shouldn't be criticized. Jia Tanchun did not blindly pursue glory and wealth and begged Mrs. Wang to treat Aunt Zhao coldly, besides, Jia Tanchun was raised by Mrs. Wang, and it is understandable that she has a deeper affection for Mrs. Wang. Besides, living in such a complex big family, Jia Tanchun is not only beneficial to himself, but also to Aunt Zhao.

It should be criticized, because I think her behavior is very unreasonable.