How do you get along with people you hate and have to associate with?

As the saying goes, when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds. Everyone has their own characteristics, and people with the same temperament are more likely to get along with each other, whether it's good or bad, it's a matter of personal preference, and of course, according to the general standard, some aspects may be what we all like or hate.

To be honest, starting from the heart, no one should like to get along with people they don't like, but there is no way, as human beings, we are advanced animals, we have our own emotions, in addition to the most instinctive reactions, we also need to face a higher level of needs, not just to try to be happy for a while, it must be painful at the beginning, which needs us to continue to hone. The first step is to start from "pretending", that is, on the face, the world is sometimes so hypocritical, and you will get used to pretending, others will be more comfortable, so that the people around you will not be too embarrassed. In life, we need to play different roles, and this is one of them.

After talking about the face-to-face kung fu, let's talk about the deeper, psychological. Looking at the essence of things on the surface, or taking the initiative to think about things in a positive direction, will also make you feel less uncomfortable, and being reprimanded is not necessarily a happy thing, but if this can help you grow, it is also acceptable. Someone complains all day long, maybe her life really needs to vent, more understanding and tolerance, think about problems from the perspective of others, we will find that there are fewer and fewer people who hate it, it is not easy for everyone, love others more, this is one of the ways we continue to cultivate ourselves.

I'm a person who doesn't hide my feelings.,I'll show all my joys, sorrows, and sorrows on my face.,And if I hate that person, I'll show it.,Although it's really offending people.,But I can't change this character.。 We just meet this kind of person, you hate him very much, but you still have to associate with him, if you meet such a person, you can do this:

1.Just treat him as air, turn a blind eye, and ignore it if you don't want to. Anyway, I don't like that person and I don't want to chat with him, but I have to meet and get along every day, in order to make my heart more comfortable, you can't change others, then change yourself, you can let yourself try not to pay attention to his every move, just as if there is no such person, since I hate him very much, then I don't need to think too much about his feelings, just don't see him.

Just like I hate one of my roommates, but I can't help but see each other, and I have to live in a dormitory, so I can't change her personality and way of doing things, so I ignore her, and I rarely talk to her when I'm in the dormitory, and I think I feel much more comfortable if I don't talk to her and don't look at the things she does. <>

2.When you are with him, you can try to discover his strengths and think less about his shortcomings. I think the reason why we hate that person is actually because we see his shortcomings too much, and we will magnify his shortcomings, so that after a long time, we will dislike him even more.

But if we can see his shortcomings, we may change the level of dislike we have for him. If you don't hate that person so much, it won't be so difficult to get along with that way.

First, they are unfamiliar, don't talk, and don't do things together. Since it's a hateful person, not being prejudiced against him is the best way, in the past when I was a freshman in high school, I had people I didn't like, and the most embarrassing was a dormitory. So in this case, I didn't make our relationship stalemate.

I usually don't talk to him when I talk, but if he talks to me, I will reply politely, in the same dormitory, I definitely can't make it like I see an enemy, and when I eat, I usually don't eat with him, but if it's a group, I still think it's better to be together.

Second, you can't be too familiar, because distance produces beauty, I don't like it in the first place, maybe a little distance will be better, so that you don't have to be too restrained when you meet. When I meet someone I hate, I usually smile and then don't say anything, just as a polite greeting.

If I don't like him, then as for his life and his friends, I won't know him, because we will always find that everyone's friends will always be very similar to themselves. It is precisely because of this that we have a common language, a common direction, a topic for discussion.

Thirdly, there is no contact except for the necessary contact. For example, when it is impossible to be in a group with him during an event or competition, we refuse to compete, or give up the event, which is unrealistic. When it comes to daily life, there is no need to contact, so that he is happy and I am happy, at least it will not disturb each other.

Sometimes we often can't avoid dealing with people we don't like in the process of socializing, and when I encounter this situation, most of the time I just talk about things about work with the other party, and never make friends with such people in private. As long as you can get by on your face, you won't tear your face, everyone is a colleague who often handles things.

Many times you can also ignore this kind of person directly, just use him as air, don't care about other people's opinions, the most important thing is to keep yourself in a happy mood. Let me tell you about the people I have met who I hated but had to date. <>

When I was in college, there were only four people in the dormitory, and there was one person I hated very, very much, let's call her Xiaowen, Xiaowen was a very small family, often bitter and mean person, I hated her very much, so I was able to spend four years of college peacefully.

Every day I talk to Xiaowen more than ten words, and we do our own things in the dormitory, she hates it very much, obviously everyone is resting and wants to sleep, but she laughs at herself and puts ** outside there, and often asks us to help her bring food, the key is that every time I pick and choose and don't give us food money, we are embarrassed to say her. It made everyone very embarrassed.

I think it's good to ignore this kind of person, after all, everyone has someone they hate, and it's normal. Just do what you want without getting in the way of others. Maybe we should learn to get along with others well, after all, no one will accompany anyone for a lifetime, since it is a friend and temporary, it is enough to endure her for a while.

You hate being alone. and do not get along with him. In fact, there is such a phenomenon.

This phenomenon can be seen in life and work when asked about you. We're going to take a good approach. To communicate with this nasty person, to communicate.

In fact, the relationship and emotion between people depend on communication and exchange. You can't hate a person and ignore him and not associate with him. You have to put the person you care about the most, in fact, we hate a person, but also have understanding and tolerance.

I want to get along peacefully with him and talk to him about Fuxin. This person has the potential to turn into someone you like. You can also be good friends.

As long as you see me communicate and communicate. This kind of thing will soon feel like it will be good. Get along and communicate.

Try to communicate with him as little as possible, talk to him less, minimize communication with him, the more you hate him, the more polite you should treat him, and try to be calm when you see him.

When getting along, don't take his attitude too seriously, let yourself treat him as a person you like, try to think about his advantages, be tolerant of others, and be at peace with yourself, even if you hate it, you should get along with him peacefully, be tolerant and happy.

If you hate someone a lot, but you have to get along with them. Of course, try to find the good in this person. Slowly learn and become harmonious with him, so that you can live better.

If you hate a person very much, then you try to talk to him as little as possible, in fact, sometimes it is also your own psychological problem, everyone has its advantages and disadvantages, you must learn to be tolerant and tolerant, as the so-called take a step back and open the sky.

Here are a few tips for you: keep your distance, reduce communication, avoid arguments, and be calm.

I think that in such a situation, we should find a way to communicate, and then the two people come to an agreement, and only then can it. Only when two people agree on the same point of view can they get along peacefully.

In this case, it's best to be more understanding and tolerant of each other, don't say it if you don't like it, it's probably okay, just be able to work and study together normally, and you don't need to pay too much.

You should try to avoid contact with him, try to avoid his edge, don't be with him, don't communicate with him more, try to avoid him.

That means you have to continue to cultivate yourself. I am not strong enough in my heart to accommodate it, and I can't drive the people I hate out of my life, in the final analysis, I can't do it.

Then you can take a look at his strengths and don't just think about his shortcomings, so that you won't be awkward with him and you won't hate him anymore. Because everyone has their own merits.

This is indeed the case. I hate a person very much, but I have to get along with him, I have to think more about his benefits, strengths, and then think about it, if he is his own parents, brother, will he still hate him.

The two sides understand and tolerate each other, we Chinese tradition is good, how many couples have come over for half a lifetime, ups and downs are not easy, the two sides have a little contradiction can be solved through communication and exchanges, people are not easy to live, can live or live, peace and security is a blessing.

In this way, the two are very comfortable and harmonious when they get along, and the other party feels annoying, so they can only stay away from each other and take care of themselves. If it really doesn't work, then change yourself first, and then infect the other party.

If you hate someone and you have to get along with her, it is recommended that you try to keep a silence and not communicate more with him, so that he has no way to influence you.

The best way is to stay away from him, talk to him less, and avoid disputes over interests.

Stay away, try to talk less and communicate less, so as not to say too much and cause unnecessary trouble.

The feeling of being extremely disgusting, once it breaks out, it will be big, scolding when it should be scolded, arguing when it should be noisy, and it will not care about his feelings anyway, and it will be better to express his grievances by himself.

Then you don't have to behave particularly well, just treat yourself as a normal colleague. Don't put your hateful on your face.

If you hate someone very much and have to get along with him, there are many such situations in real life, so you can only talk to him less.

I think in this case I will communicate with him well, and I will exchange my personal opinion on him with him to see if the two can be divided in another way.

If you have to get along with her in this case, then you have to talk less. If you work together, then focus on work and do your own work.

It's good to stay away from the person you hate, is there any reason to have to? If you hate someone together, you will target him everywhere, and you will not be happy!

Even if you have a flat mind, don't be prejudiced, otherwise it will be a bad thing, just don't communicate with each other, and communicate normally.

Talk less, interact less, and don't have any interests.

Put a good attitude, see it and don't see it, try to ** words, and stay away.

I've had the experience of hating a person and having to get along with them. can only say it on the surface, but in the heart he still rejects him.

If you hate someone, don't turn your face! It is enough to do these 3 points well.

First of all, people with high emotional intelligence will not deliberately shut up the person they hate, because they know how to deal with interpersonal skills and the art of communication, and can avoid conflicts with others. But if there are certain situations where you need to shut up someone you hate, here are some suggestions:

1.Hold your horses. The negative emotions brought to you by the annoying person may cause you to be angry and impulsive, but you need to stay calm, not be swayed by the other person's emotions, and face the other person with a peaceful attitude.

2.Hearken. Before you shut up someone you hate, you need to listen to what they have to say. It's not just about respecting each other, it's about understanding their problems and needs, so that we can better solve them.

4.Give a positive year lead face response. If the person you hate has said something constructive or criticized, you can give affirmation and thanks, and show that you are open to the suggestion or criticism, which can help ease the other person's emotions.

5.Jump out of character. Sometimes you need to step out of your role, put yourself in the other person's shoes, and develop better solutions by understanding the other person's motivations and needs.

6.Funny solution. In some cases, the words spoken by the other person may be unconscious or reckless, and you can use humor to break the ice and lighten the mood.

In short, people with high emotional intelligence are able to accurately analyze and grasp the emotions and needs of others, as well as their own emotions, when dealing with interpersonal relationships, and avoid conflict and excessive aggressiveness through effective communication and dealing with scumbags.