Husband s problem, help me, does my husband s family need help to help?

I think it should be the second one.

The first one is just a hazy good feeling of adolescence, a very pure feeling. It's a precious experience, but it's not love.

In the third case, it is not at all obvious that he loves her, and it does not mean anything that a man is very good to a woman, because it may be natural for a man to take care of a woman.

Intuition is the second reliable, because we have shared hardships, and we may not be able to be together for various reasons, but there is always each other in our hearts. He was reluctant to mention her because he didn't want to look back on this history, and it would hurt his heart when he did, because there were no longer those days. He would hide her in the depths of his heart.

This is my humble opinion, don't take it to heart if you say it wrong.

This opinion is purely my personal opinion:

Favorite? I said it wasn't born yet.

At this stage, I am still very young and I don't know how to love.

Number C will probably be his favorite.

Because what people did before was limited.

It's all immutable and it's fixed.

But there's still so much time left in the future that there's so much to do.

Time changes many, many things.

How C can live with him must be C.

And if you really love someone, how can you be separated?

Separation proves that the fate has ended, so can it still be called a favorite?

It was just a few unforgettable memories.

Memories only represent the past, and that's it.

The next thing is the most important thing.

The future is made by man, and who knows what will happen.

It's a matter of seeing what people do.

Don't think about it so much, it's useless to think about it.

Happy Mid-Autumn Festival to you!

Intuitively, I'm going to pick B

A: I can only say that I left him with good memories.

B: How to say it, we have struggled together, maybe for some reason we separated, but I still buried it deep in my heart, and I didn't want to mention it because it was a pain in his heart.

C: It's good to her, and it's a little silent, which means that he still thinks about B, but he doesn't want to hurt C, so he can only be silent, and he is a good man!!

What do I think it has to do with him? Are you suspicious of your husband? I'll just ask you one question:

Do you still love your husband? If you give me this answer, I think you have the answer yourself, and I think you are doubting which one you think your husband likes, but since you are feeling, since you are doubting, what is the value? He mentions it just to remember his past or to give you a hint that there are many people who love him, and you should love him very much!

He'll give you so much romance too, I think that's what men think, and with some time I do psychological research, I don't think it's going to be too much of a problem!

Option B, option A and option B are somewhat similar to my experience, I dare say that my second girlfriend has long been engraved in my heart, the best years, encourage each other and work together. I'll always remember it, but I never told about her, and many of my friends now don't know about her.

I think choosing B might be more realistic for me.

At least that's how I choose.

I wish you all joy and happiness.

I choose B. The deeper you love, the more you hurt!

This is clear!

Never forget the first one!

I'll be honest, I want all three. Men like to do more.

a.First love is the most unforgettable!

Men spend their whole lives forgetting!

For the time being, it is A, and maybe it will be C in the future

b Cutscenes only.

a!My gut tells me it's a!

However, it is not impossible to c.

This one can. But you need to be able to do it yourself.

Then do what you can.

Otherwise, I think too much.

Summary. Actually, let's put it this way, you are an innocent person in this matter.

Then the main thing is to say that her husband is a more macho person.

It's more willful, and I want to do everything according to my own will.

But when something doesn't come up to one of its own ideas.

will transfer these dissatisfaction in his heart to others.

And this other person is you, allowing you to realize something that the other person does not realize an idea.

My husband used to take money to help his friend, but now because of a lot of things between the two of them, my husband is not satisfied, and my husband is now asking me to come forward to this friend to reason, through me to vent this anger on him, let me suppress him and urge him to do something for himself, when the time comes, what the friend says, he will directly say Oh, why do you bother with a woman, but he told the other party his dissatisfaction through my mouth, and then he said that this kind of everyone has a way out, if he comes forward, he will tear it directly, there is no way out, I had a little idea of my own at that time, and I was worried that if I did this, it would affect him and what he was going to do, and then my husband said that I was not doing what he wanted to do, and I was slapping him in the face, and he said that I was not of the same heart with him, and scolded me all night, denying that I was not of the same mind with him, and was completely like a traitor, saying that there was no point in being with me.

Actually, let's put it this way, you are an innocent person in this matter. Then the main thing is to say that her husband is a more macho person. It's more willful, and I want to do everything according to my own will.

But when something doesn't come up to one of its own ideas. will transfer these dissatisfaction in his heart to others. And this other person is you, allowing you to realize something that the other person does not realize an idea.

Another point is that two people can't do things together, so forget it, just disperse. There is no need to dwell on too many things, recognizing a talent is the most important thing. It's not about bringing some of your dissatisfaction, some of your anger, to your own home.

In itself, my husband is not a particularly rational person.

<> news that a wife took her baby and worked hard to find her husband for help, but her husband ignored it attracted everyone's attention and caused related discussions. ......When he needs his husband's help, he ignores him, and when he encounters such a situation, he can respond by clearly setting his demands, clarifying the division of tasks between them, and taking steps to make his husband take on his responsibilities.

1. When you need your husband's help and he ignores it, you can make a clear request to him.

When you need your husband's help and he ignores him, you can ask him to do things by making clear requests. ......There is no doubt that both husband and wife share responsibilities and obligations in family life, so when the husband ignores his demands, he can make clear requests to them, and the husband must respond, and he is duty-bound.

2. The husband and wife clearly divide the tasks between each other, and each takes on its own tasks.

If you need help from your husband and you ignore it, you can solve this problem by clarifying the division of tasks between the husband and wife. ......Specifically, couples can clearly divide the tasks of family life and then take on their own responsibilities, so that they can avoid the problem ......of asking their husband for help and ignoring himWhat is up to him to do, he must do.

3. Take steps to make the husband take responsibility for him.

As a husband, he bears the corresponding responsibilities in the family, and this responsibility cannot be shirked and cannot be escaped. ......Therefore, when you need your husband's help and he ignores him, she can take measures to urge him to take responsibility for it, so that the difficulties he faces can be properly resolved, and the husband will no longer ignore him, but will take the initiative to do what he should do, and the family life will be more harmonious.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a more difficult relationship, and it is also more difficult for your husband to be sandwiched between you and his mother.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, this is an eternal problem, the most difficult thing to do here is the husband, one is the mother, the other is the husband, which is also distressed, but the second half of your life is with your own wife, on this issue, if the husband can not love his wife very well, then such a man really can't be regarded as a good man, can not blindly let his wife be wronged, if such a situation really occurs, such a marriage can not be endured, really can't.

It depends on what kind of thing it is, if it's a small thing, it's okay to make it clear, but if it's a big thing, your husband knows that you are wronged but doesn't help you speak, then it's a bit too much to say. There are a lot of things that have a second time, and after a long time, the heart is cold, and there is a saying that freezing three feet is not a day's cold. A lot of things are because a lot of small things add up to big things.

If this matter hurts you a lot, you have to say it, otherwise you will endure it like this, and sooner or later something will happen.

A smart man, who is only a peacemaker, if under this premise, he will still talk about your merits in front of his mother, and in front of you, tell you the reason why his mother did that, so that you can understand. Then he's right.

There are many people who don't get along well with their daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, but you have to consider two points, on the one hand, do you want to leave your husband from the bottom of your heart? On the other hand, your mother-in-law is already that old, can you let her do some?

If you still want to live with your husband, you should know your husband's good intentions, one is a mother and the other is a wife, he is very difficult, if you press step by step at this time, it will not bring any benefits to your relationship, on the contrary, even if your husband does not say it, he will thank you in his heart, and he will treat you better because of guilt, depending on what you think, and your mother-in-law, even if she knows that she is wrong, you can't let the old man apologize to you???

Think about it, the older ones have to give way, let it go and maybe you will find that all of you will get better ...

There is not so much right or wrong in housework. On this matter, your mother-in-law did something wrong and wronged you, so what do you want him to do to discipline his own mother? If the mother-in-law is sensible, if the mother-in-law is a more feudal character, then this matter can be big in minutes, and you can be as big as you want.

Actually, in my opinion, this matter is very easy to solve. On your side, as a junior, don't confront your elders on the spot if you are wronged, bear with it first. Your mother-in-law, let your husband say it, just make things clear to her, as for whether your mother-in-law wants to apologize or not, don't force it, after all, elders love face.

Then, your husband has to compensate you, such as a piece of jewelry, a big meal, a new dress. It's over.

If you can't stand in your position, you will be sad in the future, and for a long time in the future, you need to go together, and you need to be like-minded.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult for people caught in the middle to settle, and if the matter passes, don't mention it, because it is difficult to change the perspective of adults.

The husband was chosen by you, you should have known these things when you started a family with him, but now you are asking people if you want this husband, you are really funny.

It is difficult for a clean official to judge family matters, so it is better to make your own decisions.

It depends on how big it is. Big things should be taken care of, not helped. If it's a small thing, you can ask your husband and his mother to explain it separately. If your husband listens to everything and doesn't have an opinion, then give up as soon as possible, and if you have your own opinion, you can be reasonable!

It may be that your mother-in-law is very strong, your husband has not dared to talk back to her since he was a child, and it may be that he does not care for you as much as before.

To be honest, this situation is now common in the world, so sometimes Hou is wronged by his mother-in-law, and her husband not only pretends that he doesn't know anything, but there are still a lot of people.

Go back to your mother's house for a few days, or a few days of cold war, and see if he cares about you.

Mother-lover, everything Mom says on her lips, just bear with it if you want it!

After marriage, of course, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law understand each other and tolerate each other.

Your husband has a problem.

Usually, you can bring your mother-in-law with you when you go out to eat, but when you want to be alone with two people like your wedding anniversary, your mother-in-law shouldn't appear together, your husband can tell your mother-in-law directly, and your mother-in-law must understand this (unless she is a very unreasonable person).

If there is anything that should be said between the two in-laws, it should not be kept in the heart, otherwise it is easy to have problems if it accumulates too much, and the two people should communicate and discuss more.

I didn't see the details of my question and couldn't give a reply.

Personal opinion! I don't think it's because of the pressure that I ran, he helped the woman repay a lot of loans, which shows that she still has a certain financial ability. In addition, you also said that the woman has three children, and you only have two, so he and the woman should be more stressed.

And you said that he told you that he felt that the woman understood him, that is, he had to make you unable to understand him in some things, so that he felt that it was more difficult and annoying to communicate with you, and even felt a little pressured to face you, so that it was perfunctory.

In addition, you just mentioned that the two of them have been together for more than a month, so this period is the period of passionate love, think back to when you fell in love with him, was this the case. At this time, people tend to be more emotional than rational and more emotional.

When you encounter such a thing, it hurts, but don't want to live. Being strong is the only way out, although it's hard to do. If you feel like you can't hold on, look at your child, that's your hope, your focus.

When the pain has been held back for a long time, find a suitable place to cry! After the tears flow, it cannot be said that there is no pain, but it will be reduced a lot!

Of course, I wish you more heartily to get through this difficult time. For your seven-month-old child ... Take care!