What are others? You are the real one!

In fact, you shouldn't ask others this question, the answer is in your own heart, what others say is good, it can only be opinions, and the final determination of things is up to you. Whether it is emotionally, in life, or at work, everyone will often encounter such problems, and everyone will ask themselves this question when they encounter a certain thing and cannot pay attention to it. However, often the more others say, the less you will listen, you still believe in your own thoughts, but you yourself are a little unconfident, or you dare not face the real thoughts in your heart, so you will be very confused.

But often in the end, it's up to you to make your own decisions, so you can only ask yourself questions like yours. To give you an example, why the so-called great Buddhist monks have become masters who understand everything, is because they meditate every day, chant sutras, think about problems, and ask themselves many sides of everything repeatedly, so that they can realize many aspects of everything, so they often use one sentence to include everything in the world.

Facing your true self with real ideas is your truest side!

Hope that helps.

Everyone has a unique perspective on this issue.

Let's take an example.

For example, when an old woman fell on the road, I wanted to help her, but there was no one to help her, and my heart was shaken. But after thinking about it, I still went, the old lady's hands were dirty, smelly, her legs were still limping, she begged me to take her home, at this time, a voice rippled in my head: "Why is she so dirty, I really want to refuse her" But my reason and social norms tell me:

It's not right for you to think that way. But in the end, I said yes.

I think this kind of thing has been experienced by everyone to a greater or lesser extent. In fact, those voices that are rejected by your reason are the real your voice, but it can't compare to your reason, when your reason is strong enough, those voices will be ignored by you and form a new you, which is called growth.

It's not that we can't afford to face our true selves, but our intellect tells me that these childish and stupid thoughts are not what I should think.

Rational, stupid, whatever is yours, it's your choice.

So, don't let yourself get caught up in endless contradictions in your heart.

There are many kinds of people in this world. Some people live very hypocritically, left and right, they live a good life; Some people, they live very kindly, simple, that is a kind of truth, but they often do not live as well as the former. As a result, many people wondered, no, we also have to live unreal.

Actually, no, what is the truth. Truth is a responsible attitude towards oneself, heaven and earth. By doing this, I think I have reached the truth.

Don't care what others say, as long as you think it's right, you should do it, always blindly let others agree with you, that's difficult, why not be yourself! As long as most people are on your side, what is there to worry about, what is there to hide, hypocrisy is purely to make others agree with you, why bother?!

My daughter sometimes says, I'm not happy today, he bullied me, I'm so happy today. Express your emotions and speak your mind. This is who you really are.

A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, and he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble.

What is a true friend? Do you know? You'll understand after reading it.

True friends are mutual trust, mutual respect, and friends.

Friends are frank and selfless, sincere to each other, friends are the courage to criticize and point, tolerance.

When you have shortcomings, good words and persuasion when you take a fork in the road, timely reminder, friends are happy for you when you succeed, when you have difficulties for you to share, there is joy to share, friends are when you are arrested when you are difficult, is when you suffer a blow, is the person who walks with you hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder to trek life! Maybe your lifelong friends are right next to you! Once you lose it, you know who your friends are.

There are very few such friends in fact!

Only those born to their own parents are considered brothers.

A true friend looks like this: 1The one who brings you out of the trough when you're sad.

2.Someone who laughs with you when you're happy. 3.

Remind you of people who are not proud when you are successful. 4.Someone who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks.

5.Someone who helps you in time when you need it. 6.

and those who forsake thee neither when thou hast been rich nor rich. Remember: a true friend is generous, and the person who accompanies you all your life is your lifelong wealth.

You can play together, make trouble together, bear together, share together, don't account for too many gains and losses True friends are people who can share pleasures with you, think about what you think, and people you reach.

A true friend is not only the icing on the cake, but also a blessing in times of crisis. I think friendship is very important, because friends are the treasure of life! Friends are for life, forever!

Love is sometimes short-lived! Friendship is just a lack of blood ties, but he is everywhere and can be met anytime, anywhere. Maybe the appearance of friendship is sometimes short-lived, maybe it's not thrilling, unforgettable, maybe it doesn't bring you the feeling of life and death, it's all indispensable on the road of life, as long as you know how to understand and pay.

Friendships can last a long time. In this life, maybe the person you like is gone, you can find it again, but there is only one friend and confidant, friendship is that there are many people with you, whether you are poor or rich, you will accompany you, but love is different. Angry, quarrelsome...

It's friendship, and as long as you find a close friend, you have to pay sincerity to find a true friend, at least one. But if you are a true bosom friend, you will have endless wealth. Wealth is not a lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth!

The first person you think of when you are sad, the person you don't have to pretend to be in front of him Sharing weal and woe, treating each other with all sincerity, sharing happiness and hardship, and making friends who can talk to each other without reservation. You have such friends in your life, you know enough. Be patient and understand the feelings of others, be considerate of others, and don't get bored if your friends have any shortcomings.

In addition, it is important to remember that do not do unto others what you do not want to be done to others. Be nice to others first, and then you will find that you will also have true friends around you. There is also a metaphor, family affection is like a cup, love is the water in the cup, friendship is sugar or salt in the water The cup will restrict the freedom of water, and sugar or salt will change the taste of water, but in any case, water is still water, and sometimes it can best meet a certain need......Don't be distressed by emotions, be happy People live in this world just to make themselves happier and happier.

That's what I've always thought. To live your day seriously, you must feel the bits and pieces of life with your heart, seek small happiness from every little thing, and your life will be more fulfilling. To quote the words of "Soldier Assault" Xu Sanduo is:

Do not abandon. If you don't give up, people are inherently lonely, and nothing in the world lasts forever. Society is always so realistic.

First of all, be a person who is not selfish and can think about others, the second is to be responsible, if you mean a man, then he needs to be able to support a family, and finally, someone who can make your heart flutter.

That person doesn't have to be sweet-talking, but he must have a good temper; That person doesn't have to be handsome and golden, but he must have a smart mind and self-motivation; That person will definitely take you by the hand when crossing the street and say to you, baby, come with me; That person will definitely stretch out his arms when you are tired, and say baby hug in distress; That person, on a sunny day, will smile and say to you, baby, we should have a home. 】

People who not only like their own strengths, but also tolerate their own shortcomings are the ones who are suitable for themselves.

A person who can still feel comfortable when he is not talking.

has eyes, knows to care about people, cares about people.

It's okay to look comfortable! If you like it from the bottom of your heart, you can pull it!

Meet the right person in the right place at the right time.

See your strengths and embrace your weaknesses!