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It depends on whether I will meet it, in fact, love things can be met but not sought. Will this love last? Will you be happy when you get married?
No one is closer to the answer than yourself. When a person decides to do something, no one's opinion is listened to. There are many people who ask others what they do right or wrong.
In fact, many things are decided by yourself, maybe you already have the answer in your heart, but you just want to give yourself an excuse. There is no one universal answer to some questions, and life matters the process, not just the outcome. Many people encounter emotional troubles, and it is true that sometimes a single step can determine a person's happiness in a lifetime.
If you are really still confused about this question, it is recommended that you ask an expert (at least know a lot about this), such as a radio host, a psychological counselor, I used to like to listen to Hu Xiaomei's program when I was in Shenzhen, the night sky is not lonely, it is good (friends who have stayed in Shenzhen may have heard it), and some radio hosts are good.
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If I had loved him, I would have said yes, but you have to know that there is a generation gap at the age of three, and if you think about how many generations there are at the age of 20, what if there are so many differences in the rest of your married life.
But you think that if love can outweigh everything, everything can be.
Finally, I wish you happiness.
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Whether or not it is good to marry a man who is 20 years older than you depends on many factors, including your personal values, life goals, and emotional drifts. The age difference can be challenging in a relationship, but it doesn't mean it can't be successful.
Here are some factors to consider:
1.Life stage: You and the man may be in different stages of life, such as career development, family planning, etc. Make sure your expectations and goals for the future are aligned so that you have a common pursuit.
2.Maturity and experience: The age gap can mean different perspectives and experiences about life and relationships. Make sure you can respect and understand each other's growth process, and build a healthy communication based on mutual support and listening.
3.Social pressure and approval: There may be prejudices and perceptions in society about age-difference marriages. With these pressures in mind and being prepared to deal with them, make sure you are strong in your feelings for each other.
4.Personal complementarity: Age differences can also bring some advantages, such as more experience, more mature thinking, etc. Make sure you complement each other, grow together, and be able to build a rewarding and balanced relationship.
The bottom line is that the age difference is only one factor in the relationship, considered along with other factors. The best decisions are made based on your own values and feelings, listening to your inner voice and having an open conversation with your partner.
The dream is very full, and the reality is very skinny, which you have to slowly experience.
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Is it good to marry a man who is 20 years older than you? Only the person herself knows best, because her feelings are the most real, and she also has the most right to speak!
Just imagine, there are two main reasons why a young girl can marry a man who is 20 years older than herself, the first is that the man is very good and talented, and at the same time he is very handsome, and there are many shining points on his body.
Another point is that a girl is a person who particularly pursues material enjoyment, because a man has a successful career, is particularly rich, and can give the girl the life she wants, so in his eyes, age is not a problem, she values money, so she will feel very good, because she can enjoy a beautiful and happy life!
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Let the love heat dizzy or covet his material.
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