What do European and American countries think of the leftover men and women?

<> most young men and women in Europe and the United States pursue higher and better education for a better future, and have good educational opportunities, because they have a good education, they have the opportunity to find good high-paying jobs and pursue high positions. More and more young men and women are pursuing master's and doctoral degrees after finishing college, and by the end of their studies, they will be almost 30.

In addition, work in the West is fast-paced, and young men and women spend most of their time in the workplace. Work becomes busy, and there is less time to deal with personal problems; With a good job and a high salary, the requirements for life and life partners are also high, and it is generally difficult to look at. Many young men and women think that they have no worries about their lives anyway, and their personal problems will be left to them

Second, people in Europe and the United States are becoming more and more open, and many young men and women are reluctant to get married, feeling that they will lose their freedom after marriage. It's good to keep a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it's more free, and you can break up if you can't talk about it.

It is more likely that because of cultural relations, many people in China are more conservative and traditional, or content to stay in familiar circles. Even if you meet someone on the street, you don't dare to talk to it. I finally came to a hodgepodge of friends, and I saw the right one, but I may also miss the opportunity because I didn't take any further action.

I have a sister of the same sex in my family who came back from studying in Italy. Her family immigrated to Italy when she was 16 years old, and then returned to China last year because of some things, hoping to develop in the country in the future. One day, when the two of us went out shopping and ate out at noon, we happened to be on a blind date at the next table.

It is obvious that outsiders look at the posture of a blind date, and the two richly dressed mothers sitting face to face are talking about the good of their children, and the two children sit there more restrainedly and rarely speak. Speaking of which, both sides of the blind date are not very old, and they look like newcomers who have just graduated and entered the society, and they feel childish. My sister may have stayed abroad for a long time, and she didn't understand the behavior of urging marriage in this blind date family in China, so we talked about this old man and woman leftover.

She said that in foreign countries, whether people living in cities or towns, no matter how old the children at home are, there will never be such a behavior as urging marriage at home, let alone this kind of Chinese-style blind date. First of all, parents are not too nervous about their marriage problems, and children abroad will basically move out of the house when they reach the age of 18 to live on their own, and their marriage and love status are not known to the family. And foreigners don't want the Chinese to see the inheritance of the family as important.

In the concept of foreigners, their own happiness is the most important thing, and they will only think about starting a family secondly. They will marry for love, but they will not marry for the sake of getting married. Under the influence of this concept, there are many people abroad who never marry or do not marry, and they live on their own all their lives, but the people around them do not look at them with colored glasses like the aunts in China.

Finding a partner is nothing more than finding a companion for your old age, and having children is definitely an altruistic act. Now how many children support their parents, parents have indeed become slaves of their children, buying houses and land. The West encourages people to have children.

Marriage is nothing more than finding a partner for yourself, whether it is a soul mate or a material partner, it varies from person to person!

Being single is a right! It is the progress of civilization. It shows that China's social civilization has progressed!

First of all, there are many people, and the base number itself is a big argument.

Secondly, it is related to the social environment and economy. In the past, a bicycle or a watch would marry someone home. Now the cost of marriage is too high, and the garage is too stressful for young people who have just graduated, and when young people do not have a certain financial ability, they choose to work hard to make money instead of falling in love.

Third, everyone has thought deeply about how much benefit marriage can bring to themselves, and many young people feel that they can live well alone, so they are reluctant to fall in love.