How do you develop your network?

The process of development is impossible to complete without connections, even if you need help from others, such as in the process of finding a job or finding a client. If there is no one to help, you will hit a wall everywhere. Sometimes the network is much more important than your own hard work, and sometimes because of someone else's words, it is much faster and better to get the results that you have been working hard for, and you need to make more friends and strengthen the relationship.

The network of contacts is like a spider web, if the spider web is big, it means that the relationship network is large, and the ability is greater, now the social competition is very fierce, there are some things that cannot be done without a relationship to play, and it will be abandoned, and the development of the network needs to rely on the play of communication skills, but also carefully think about not to make some brothers who fly separately when the disaster is coming, or when he needs help, he will look for it, and when he needs help, there is no one to help, The improvement of communication skills is to strengthen one's eyesight and thinking, and making real friends is the only way to organize a network, making real friends is to communicate with heart, and those who pay attention to feelings can be regarded as friends. The advantage of developing a network is that when you need help, you will have a helping hand to reach out, sometimes a detail can make real friends, so that a member of the friend network, to develop a relationship, you have to be good at understanding others, to talk to others, to help others, don't often have a straight face or put on a shelf. Networking is all about connecting with friends and not snubbing others.

There is also the need for help to send help and care in a timely manner, the development of the network is to respect everyone, sometimes the person who looks down on will also have a day of prosperity, to friends to open their hearts, not to report bias.

Developing a network of people is all about making more friends, yes. But as long as my sister teaches some friends who pay attention to feelings. It can't be the kind of trouble you face, but you have to respect everyone, after all, sometimes unexpected things happen.

In the current social development, the network relationship is the most valuable, so in the ordinary daily life, we must pay attention to the accumulation of contacts. This is very helpful for our work, or entrepreneurship. If you have connections at work, you can do less wrongful things, you can also find a better job when looking for a job, and in the entrepreneurial period, if your network is very extensive, it can also bring you a lot of ways.

Therefore, networking is very important for us in today's society, no matter what you do, you can't do it, because there is nothing you can do alone, so how should we develop our network?

First of all, we must not be stingy, usually go out to dinner with friends, when singing k, we can't always let friends pay, so that after a long time, others will not be willing to call you together when they eat and sing k, maybe on the surface others will not care about your behavior that you always don't pay, but they must have ideas in their hearts. Therefore, a person who is good at accumulating contacts will definitely not be stingy, and if he is stingy, others will not be willing to make friends with you. But not being stingy doesn't mean you have to be a big boss, and you can't be stupid and wait for others to slaughter you, so others will look down on you.

When a few friends get along well, if a friend's friend happens to come to the city where you live, you can offer to treat them, so that the friend's friend will become your friend. Step by step, you'll build up a lot of connections that will help you. If you're always a lone ranger, it's hard to network.

Personally, I really hate those so-called famous teachers who encourage everyone to expand their interpersonal network, and some of them have even reached the point of being unscrupulous. The importance of networking in this society is self-evident, but expanding your network is not the whole focus of your life, okay, when you are useless, what can you do to attract those excellent people to become your friends?

I think in today's society, the best way to expand your network is to improve yourself first. As the saying goes, the breadth of your network is determined by your own ability, and the so-called strong ability does not refer to how many people can help you when you have an accident, but how much you can help others when they are in trouble. A very realistic thing is that people who have nothing and are poor and white do not get the attention of the upper class at all, and naturally they cannot get their help, and only those who have the strength and ability to help each other with others are qualified to expand their own networks.

When you can't help others, why should you expect others to help you? <>

So here, I sincerely advise all of you who want to expand their connections, all of them have one count, don't dig out your mind to add stuff to the powerful people, your groveling and flattering face is really hard to look at.

Compared with knowing powerful people, the most important thing for each of us is to improve ourselves, improve our ability, knowledge, status and cultivation. Just like the chicken soup on the Internet: "If you are in full bloom and the breeze will come", when you have reached a considerable height, are you still worried that you will not have a wide range of connections?

No matter how good a friend is, there is a possibility of breaking up, and it is better to rely on yourself than to ask for others.

The secret to attraction: learn to empathize, maintain relationships with friends, and give gifts to each other.

First of all, whether in life or in the workplace, we are indispensable to communicate with people, and when communicating with people, we must learn to empathize, for example, when asking others for directions, don't say "Hello, how to go to so-and-so square?" Instead, he said, "Hello, I'm sorry for delaying you for a while, can you please show me the way?" ”

Comparing these two methods of asking for directions, many people will choose the second option, because it is difficult for people to refuse a request for help that is both intimate and polite. After someone has helped you, you should say thank you, usually we say "thank you" or "thank you" the most, we should say something like "thank you, so patient and help me show the way". When you hear such a thank you, the other party will definitely smile in return.

That's the attraction of honest conversation.

Second, build a deeper level of interpersonal relationships, which is networking. In life and in the workplace, we will encounter all kinds of problems, and some problems need to ask friends for help, and it just so happens that friends' friends are more familiar with this matter, so friends' friends play a key role in this matter, which is the benefit of networking. Solving problems is not the purpose of networking, but the unexpected joy gained in the process of sincere mutual assistance.

To help others is to help yourself.

Finally, maintain relationships between friends. No matter how good a friend is, if you don't keep in touch often, it will become strange over time. The best way to maintain a relationship is to occasionally get through ** contact with friends, WeChat contact, QQ contact, etc., and send a small gift, such a small detail can keep each other's friendship longer.

Networking is not about fawning affection and fawning over others, but about respecting each other, appreciating each other, sharing their gifts with each other, and being happy with each other.

The so-called network expansion in modern society is due to the same motivation, that is, "impetuousness", and the essence of "impetuousness" is the ...... of "insatiable desires".Everyone has a specific trajectory in life, and your effective network only exists within the scope of your own trajectory. What kind of person you are is what kind of network you attract or look for, and there is no such thing as an effective and valuable network that can be approached or grasped across levels. Examples of grassroots turning into ginseng, sparrows becoming phoenixes, poor people becoming bigwigs, and so on ......It is not because these people have grasped the valuable connections across borders and classes, but because these people themselves have the quality and quality of success, and then attract the so-called valuable connections with the same essence, the same beliefs, and the same realm.

So what kind of quality you are, what level of connections will you have, if you are a plane tree, you will attract phoenixes, and if you are a garbage heap, you will attract flies and ......All the so-called effective and valuable connections under the "impetuous" are vain and sad......! Do your best and do your best in this life!