His past is a hurdle that I will never be able to overcome in my heart

Maybe a man's true love is only once.

But since he chose you.

What does it mean? It only shows his love for you.

Far beyond what he once was.

And everybody has a past.

Don't you?

Those are all in the past.

It's the present and the future that matter.

Take it easy, little sister.

Don't get too nervous.

Why bother with the past.

Let's learn to be "hard to get confused".

If it goes on for a long time.

You won't be happy.

Limit others at the same time.

It's also limiting yourself.

Love is like sand in your hands.

If you clench it too tightly, you tend to be empty-handed.

Backfire if you open your hands.

But you can reap happiness.

Give yourself some time.

Spend a lot of time with friends and family.

Do what you love.

Distraction.

I believe that you will soon come out of the unpleasantness.

Even if you get married.

Everyone still has a place to keep in their hearts.

Besides, you're just lovers.

Everyone is rebellious.

The more you want to know.

But he hid it from you.

The key is to take control of yourself.

That's the most important weight in your hands.

Learn to believe.

Believe in him, believe in yourself.

Trust your feelings.

What do you think? Have fun.

You care about his past and prove that you love him. But you can't accept it, that is, you don't love him very much. You just think his conditions are right for you.

My boyfriend is 5 years older than me, he has dated 8 women before, and the woman he loves the most still likes him, but they are separated. I began to wonder like you about whether a man's relationship is only once. Later I found out that even if it was only once, so whatever.

Now that he is by my side, I want him to feel my love and slowly make him love me. Or to put it another way, he gives his ex-girlfriend 60% of his love and gives me maybe only 20%. But it doesn't matter, at least he is a loving and righteous person, the past has passed, and mature men will bury this love in their hearts, and then live again, fall in love again, and be good for you alone.

In fact, you don't have to worry too much about the past, everyone has a past, and a man without a past will attract you? My boyfriend's past is wonderful, and I'm still a student, and I've never even been in contact with society, it's like a blank slate, so should I find a blank slate? If you love someone, you really don't have to worry too much, as long as he is good to you now and by your side, you try to make him rely on you in life and get used to you.

Love is a habit, and if you don't love, you won't get used to it.

What is love? Have you ever asked yourself such a question?

Love is not only the present and the future, but also the past. You shouldn't look at the past with such an attitude and mentality. After all, that's in the past, and he's by your side now, isn't he?

He couldn't have thrown away the past, it was proof of his existence, something precious to him. Are your ideas too complex and selfish?

Why bother thinking about what true love is only once, all you need to know is that it is enough for him to love you now.

Why should love ask so many whys, and who can answer why?

You know, some people can't stand the hurt.

Bless you.

If you can't let it go, you don't talk to him anymore as soon as possible, what's wrong with the past, what's there to care about, just love you from the bottom of your heart.

Loving someone is simple, emotional estrangement is caused by too much care, it is good to let go of some, as long as you love him, it is enough.

Maybe you should find someone who loves yourself, it's really reluctant to love you for marriage, see if he will really love you, I don't want me, people who don't believe in feelings are very hurtful together, and long pain is better than short pain.

Who hasn't had the past? Who doesn't have a story? The wound can be smoothed out in time, leaving a maximum scar. There's no need to care too much, it's not good to get him serious that he loves you, try to believe him? Do you have to be skeptical?

If you care so much about his past, why talk to him?

Hehe! Then I'm afraid you won't be able to have a boyfriend in the future, everyone has a past.

There is no choice between loving and not loving, and loving someone is actually very happy

Look at my name and listen to this song.

Good upstairs. I also hope to find someone who loves me.

It's complicated. Let it be.

Take the points and walk away.

Which marriage and love**, I want to go too.

Life is moving forward, just like a journey, you will meet many people along the way, there are people who support you, there are those who encourage you, there are those who say you, there are those who like you, and so on, everyone you meet is here to teach you and teach you what to learn.

There are encouragement for you, giving you strength, giving you support, guiding you to move forward better, saying yours, letting you see your own shortcomings, your own problems, tidying yourself up, and starting again.

Communicating with different people, using different ways of communication, and talking about different topics will make you grow. The fastest thing that makes you grow is that when you meet someone who says you, why do others say about you? Because you really did not do well, others pointed it out for your own good.

Maybe you will be very uncomfortable listening to it at the moment, reflect on yourself, it is indeed what you did not do well, then go back and correct it. When you meet such a person, they are here to cross you, and they will make you grow faster.

No matter what happens, whether it's good or bad, remember what you've gained and learned. It is necessary to have more contact with different people, communicate, know everyone's personality and temperament, watch people speak, and improve their speaking and expression skills.

Some people say that time is the best way, and pain is only temporary, because time will make you forget the injuries you have suffered and will heal your scars.

I don't think that's the case, the things that once made me cry, the irreparable feelings, the people who once made me sad and uncomfortable, the pain that once brought me, time can't heal it.

The injuries I have suffered, even if I can't leave scars, it still hurts, I used to be so uncomfortable, so painful, can time really heal it?

With the passage of time, those people and those things have really forgotten, whose face flashed in front of them when they saw the familiar scene? Waking up in the middle of the night from a nightmare, whose company do you want most? I happened to meet that person, and I couldn't make a little waves in my heart?

Sometimes we are in too much pain, and even think that you make me so uncomfortable, then I don't want you to feel better, and I try my best to retaliate and get a momentary refreshment.

But revenge is just a vent for the quarrelsome emotions, and after the venting is over, this matter seems to have passed, but in fact, it has left a hurdle in my heart.

Have you really passed these hurdles? No, when you can't sleep at night tossing and turning, you will still think of it, it is not gone, but it is buried in your heart and unwilling to take it out.

If some things are destined to not disappear, if some memories are destined to accompany you forever, then those painful memories that have crushed you, those hurdles that have been passed in your heart that cannot be overcome, I don't want it to disappear, I only hope that it can always remind us not to make the same mistakes, not to follow the old path.

Yesterday I was told that a 100ml cup filled with 90ml of water is almost full, while 200ml of water is almost full. But if it's a 500ml glass, pour the first two glasses of water into it so that it's not too full. As we get bigger, we feel like things are getting smaller.

A lot of things are like it feels like it's falling from the sky, not so much! Like a child who doesn't finish his homework during the holidays, he is afraid of being reprimanded by the teacher. Now think about it, don't you?

Don't say it's not the same, but you'll feel the same way. When I was a child, my mother would be very angry if I didn't do well in exams, but at most I would be angry for a few days, and I would go back to the past. It's almost a death sentence to quarrel with a male ticket, but I know that either they will reconcile, or they will break up, and it will pass anyway, and everything will be fine.

My grandfather got sick and passed away in my sophomore year, and I cried to death, but I knew it was going to pass.

As for the hurdle, it can't be crossed, it just depends on how you see it, whether you see it as an experience, or an eternal pain in your heart, everything depends on the person concerned. No one is so free and easy, it's really not that easy to cross over, unless it's a heartless person I remember very clearly, when I was in the third year of junior high school, my body didn't know what was going on, maybe it was puberty, my immunity was low, I got sick every day, and then I missed a lot of classes, and my study score fell from the top ten in the grade to the bottom 4, and I still remember that physics was the last in the district.

Many times, it was like this, thinking that it was impossible to pass, and it turned out that after many attempts it finally passed. Now I have to face the feeling that I can't get through, I'm not worried at all, I know that as long as I keep trying, I'll pass.

There will always be lows in the process of life, but if you get through it, you will find that there is nothing, talk about my experience.

Before the college entrance examination, I felt that I could get 400 points. One is constantly rereading, going abroad, and thirdly, torturing himself. I felt like my life was ruined by myself.

No one was able to help me then, despair. What is the use of the last ten days? But I still somehow persuaded myself to do the questions quietly at home alone.

And finally, the best results of life.

During my university years, I worked part-time to earn money, this was the second time I was preparing for the IELTS exam, and I knew I couldn't afford to waste a third time, so this time I made extra efforts. I have already paid 200 yuan for the class, and I have also taken trial classes at various study abroad institutions and English training institutions for online learning. Every morning, afternoon, and evening I was studying English, and the teacher said that my English was very poor, and it didn't matter.

I will study especially, I take English classes, read international courses and the teacher says I am not saying the right thing at all, even though I have to write the answers to the questions. Didn't the teacher say you hadn't practiced? I secretly hid the thick composition exercises.

In Germany, the visa is only for three months, and now it's time to go home. But the relationship with the big boy seems to be right. I've been stuck in a safe for three days.

Finally, before he returned to China, he had dinner with him. I said I would go back to China and try again, but once China wanted to go again, the school wouldn't allow it. The whole person is deformed.

I think the college entrance examination is a problem that can be changed through my own efforts, but it is a systemic problem, and no effort can change it. But email and skype are also good. We played together when he came to China.

So to speak, there will always be unsatisfactory places, and everything will be fine.

Man lives. No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm! I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that are not related to the specific matters at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.