I used to have a very good relationship with my boyfriend, but I don t know what s going on lately,

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, think about whether you have been thoughtful and not good enough recently, and try to be nice to your husband.

    That is, endure it first...

    Set a time period for yourself, during which there is nothing wrong with you, and he is still obsessed, it is time to teach him a lesson.

    Talk to him about it once, and say that's all he can do, and if he doesn't want to change anything, then the two of them can only be separated for a while...

    Give him some time to think about it, and it will come to fruition...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's because of the problem of opening a store and being in a bad mood, maybe it's his nature like that, if it's because of a bad mood, then he can only talk about it, can't do it, if his nature is like this, then he can only divorce, saying that before he has children, because there are many problems to consider after having children, so you have to think about it yourself!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Talk to him seriously, are you opening the store smoothly, are you in a bad mood? What else can't be talked about between husband and wife, the average man must be in a bad mood and depressed in his heart when he behaves like this. I think only he knows the specific reason, you don't speculate and ask him directly, talk to him sincerely, don't ask, talk to your heart, and he will tell you the truth.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sister, you may not know his suffering!! Maybe it's because of the stress of life! You open up with him to see what's wrong, and I think it could be your fault.

    However, it's not his fault that he does it with you. I don't want you to separate and only lovers who love to a certain extent sign up, do I?

    Wishing you happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe you're not in a good mood during this time. Take it easy. It takes time for two people to get along. Don't overthink it. Just got married. Don't separate easily.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Break up (too clear, don't blame me).

    Does he love you? Is he genuine?

    You should think about it, when you fall in love, he is obedient to you, but when it comes to finalization, his attitude towards you is a 180-degree turn, is he sincere to you?

    If you love her, don't hurt her, this should be the principle of every man in us!

    Think for yourself!

    Pinch a sweat for you, don't fall into the wolf's mouth!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This shows that you don't know him very well.

    Before marriage, everyone presents the good side in front of each other, and when they get their hands on it, they don't have to hide anything.

    Therefore, before marriage, you must understand the advantages and disadvantages of the other party.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A man who starts hitting people is not a good man. Think for yourself. It's a lifetime thing. If you can't do it, you will get a divorce.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's what men look like, they will mature a little bit when they're older, and they'll probably get better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I hate the man who beats women the most, so get a divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Divorce! There are no children yet.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't want to do anything, I'm not a man. Hitting a woman is not a man. I've never hit my wife.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Boys are sometimes very shy when they first fall in love, and they don't know what to say.

    Slowly, he may become active.

    It's right to listen to your parents, and the people who love you the most and don't hurt you the most are your parents. But you also have to be a little assertive, and sometimes parents don't understand the situation and inevitably make wrong judgments.

    Your boyfriend should think about you from your point of view, and he shouldn't be angry with you and immature.

    It's okay to pull things when they are said. Long live understanding.

    Is your boyfriend rich? What does it mean to have bad conditions? Discriminating against the wealthy? This has nothing to do with introversion, and it's linked to personal quality.

    When it's time for fatigue, don't think about each other first, and think about your own efforts. Make sure he has you in his heart, and if so, don't worry too much. Don't think of feelings as something you can always rely on.

    Loving yourself starts with loving your body and keeping your emotions in good shape. Do what you like, your feelings are cold first, and it's better to talk less when you talk about it.

    Me too, can't speak, can't smile. You can smile in front of the mirror, practice smiling, and then listen carefully, understand what the other party means, think first when you speak, don't try to talk fast, read more books in your free time, improve your inner culture, and believe that you will succeed.

    What does koukou mean?

    It's normal to be lustful, but take care of it and don't lose a big deal because of a small one, such as your boyfriend.

    Love is free to give, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. Loving someone wants him (her) to be happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

    Satisfied. Let's rest, brother, we are all fallen people at the end of the world. Calm down, no one will be able to take care of you but yourself at this time.

    Specific problems are treated on a case-by-case basis! Calm down and think about whether it's so serious that getting angry won't solve the problem! First of all, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the living habits, concepts and perspectives of the family are all different.

    The addition of new family members is not to impact the original family concept and everything, but to empathize and respect his family as much as possible! More upset to go back and clean up your him, because you live with him. I don't know what to do, but I hope I can help you!

    I have also had such a time, after more and more information, I will naturally be mentally prepared, and I will not be so nervous and afraid, but the premise is that I believe that I have the ability to take on the position you want to interview, and I hope that you can overcome the psychological barrier and find your dream job as soon as possible

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Category: Annoyances >> in love.

    Problem description: It was the girl who proposed to break up, and she kept trying to reconcile afterwards, but my boyfriend didn't accept it, they have broken up twice, and each time my boyfriend went to find her, and now he doesn't want to be together anymore, before he was with me, they were still in touch, often texting, and occasionally came out to meet.

    The girl used to send some flirtatious text messages, and after we got together, I asked my boyfriend why he was in contact so often, and he said that the girl came to the city for him, and he felt sorry for him, so he contacted her. But I always wondered if it was because he still liked her at that time.

    Later, when the girl was about to leave the city, she told her boyfriend that we weren't together at the time, and he went right away, and he said he was supposed to do it.

    Now that we're together, they've never been in touch anymore, but I'm always thinking about what happened to them and feeling like they couldn't get along.

    Question addendum: My boyfriend is a person with a strong sense of responsibility.

    But having broken up, why should he be so nice to her.

    Analysis: As long as his heart is with you, now he loves you, you have already said that your boyfriend is a very responsible person! Maybe he's only keeping in touch with her former girlfriend as a friend now!

    In fact, I have a female classmate who has also encountered your situation, she is still with his boyfriend, and she is about to get married, I remember that the two of them were separated for a period of time for this matter, and both of them were very calm and serious to think about whether to be together, and the two of them were together again a few months later, and his boyfriend's previous girlfriend also once called ** to my female classmate, saying that he explained their current relationship in person, and they were friends after the breakup, but there was no possibility for two people to be together again, His heart is now you (my female classmate), and then they reconciled and got together again, their small separation for a few months let them know the importance of each other in each other's minds, and until now the relationship is very good, and they are ready to buy a house and decorate and get married.

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