Can love with a big gap in reality last long???

It can be long-lasting, but there is a prerequisite, one of them must be able to tolerate the other party, if they can get married and have children as soon as possible, the long-term possibility will be greater and longer-term, and at the same time, one party must also make changes for the other party, for example, if the woman is a college student, and the man is not, you can temporarily take a college degree, in fact, in the relationship between the two, the woman will first make this request, and other aspects are not a problem for men and women who love each other.

It won't necessarily last long、The current society is too realistic、

Although everyone is saying that I hate people in reality, but when I look back, I don't think I'm like that, I think the gap is so big, even if they love each other very much now, maybe a small problem will break them apart in the future.

From the analysis of the current social relationship, the gap is too big and there are almost zero people who can still be together. There are many things that you can slowly experience after experiencing them yourself. If you are together, it can only be called freshness at the beginning, it is not love.

After a long time, you will slowly find that two people are not suitable.

Generally speaking, it doesn't last long, at least I haven't seen a successful case around me.

No, although love is higher than reality, its notes originate from reality!

The right match is the foundation of a stable marriage relationship!

Must have similar values, worldviews... so that you can have a common language, so that there will not be too many differences!

The different living environments of rich and poor people create different personalities, perspectives on things, and so on!

So I think TV dramas are TV dramas after all, and why people love to watch them is because it's just people's beautiful yearning!

It doesn't matter if it's a girl, Cinderella's story is often staged! If it's a boy, if I don't want to find someone much better than me.

It's more likely that a boy is higher than a girl, but if a girl is higher than a boy, it's much less likely, you know?

The TV series is all fake and fictional, and even if it is true, it is also adapted.

In real society, the prince will not fall in love with Cinderella.

Love··· In fact, many times it is lost to distance! This distance includes the gap in reality...

If you do it well, it will always last!

In my opinion. It depends on whether it can be agreed by both parents.

In a marriage, the approval of parents is often the key to the happiness of a marriage!

You have to understand that there has been a saying since ancient times, the door is right.

Money is garbage in the eyes of rich people.

Distance can sometimes produce a kind of beauty.

Definitely not, maybe at first the affection and sweetness can't feel the difference, but soon all kinds of problems in life habits will knock the two people back to their original shape. Life is very realistic, and love can't withstand so many tests.

In the past few days, I happened to watch a love story with a relatively large economic gap, the protagonist boy belongs to the kind of family conditions that are very average, and his girlfriend's family conditions are much better than him.

According to the male protagonist's narrative, he and his girlfriend are both college students, and his own living expenses of 2,000 yuan each are neither too much nor too little among his classmates. However, since he was with his girlfriend, he felt a sense of frustration like never before.

The girlfriend's family conditions are very good, so the consumption level of a meal may cost the male protagonist half a month's living expenses. Although his girlfriend is more considerate of him, the two have always been aa, but even the aa male protagonist can't hold on.

Half a month's living expenses for a meal are gone, and other expenses are not counted. My girlfriend has long been accustomed to high-end restaurants, **will, and all kinds of private villas, and the two money of the male protagonist are enough to see, and he can't afford AA.

Then someone suggested that the male owner should simply be a little white face.,Eat your girlfriend directly.,This male owner said that he was also a man no matter what he said.,It's already very guilty that you can't give your girlfriend good material conditions.,**Can you still do such a thing.。

The self-esteem of this male protagonist was hit in the process of getting along with his girlfriend, and the pressure was so great that he didn't even dare to take the initiative to mention dating with his girlfriend, and even his girlfriend took the initiative to find him, and he couldn't wait to shirk it.

From the beginning of the official relationship between the two people, the male protagonist who found the economic gap thought about breaking up. But because his girlfriend really loves him, he can't say anything. After struggling like this for a long time, he did a long time of psychological construction, and finally mustered up the courage to break up with his girlfriend.

In fact, my girlfriend has long found out the gap between the two people, so although it is a pity, I didn't particularly keep it. The girlfriend left a sentence and thought that it might not last long with the male protagonist, and then happily agreed to break up.

Although the male protagonist was sad after the breakup, he was also relieved. The invisible pressure of being with his girlfriend had almost crushed him, and now he was finally relieved.

I was particularly touched by this articleIf the financial gap between the two parties in a relationship is large, it will be a kind of torture for both parties. You can't ask the other party to have the same consumption concept as you, but you are unwilling to go along with the other party's consumption concept (and for the party with poor economic conditions, and can't go along with it), the contradictions between the two people will accumulate more and more, and finally there will always be one person who can't persevere.

Love with a large economic gap will of course last a long time. Whether the love will last for a long time is related to the feelings of both parties, and the relationship with their economic gap is not large. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts.

When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine. Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy. People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection.

There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment. In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that?

I asked myself with a smile. For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

Love with a large economic gap will not last long, it can only be a flash in the pan, leaving a sad story.

One. Cinderella doesn't fantasize about marrying a prince, and ordinary boys don't fantasize about marrying a princess and going home.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, even if you marry a prince or a princess, life will not be smooth sailing, there will be many contradictions and problems, and many problems will not be solved, and it will be difficult to last long.

The economic gap is huge, and the ideological and cognitive gap will be particularly large. Other people's casual actions and words can sometimes hurt you. Your actions and thoughts are strange to others.

The lifestyle and the level of needs are different, due to the impact of the economic gap, everyone's demands are also different, two people may be able to be aggrieved and compromise with each other at the beginning, but after a long time, they are not willing to pretend anymore, and they are not willing to be together.

After all, there is too little joy together, too much pain and hurt.

Two. A young and beautiful girl married a boy from a rich family, and gained the envy and jealousy of many people around her.

At first, the girl also felt very happy and happy, but this happiness and joy lasted for less than three months, and finally ended in a breakup.

The girl has just married into a rich family, enjoys a superior material life, and feels surprises everywhere. As time goes by, the more inseparable I am from this life, and I don't want to go back to my past, I'm afraid that boys will abandon me, and I don't feel safe in my heart.

At this time, the girl's best friend and some anchors told the girl that you can't grasp a man's heart, and only by grabbing the money will he not leave you.

So the girl tried every possible means to control the boy, the house was added to the name and the car was transferred, the bank card and salary card were confiscated, and the company transferred it to her own name ......The boys complied one by one, but the girls themselves became more and more frightened.

Finally, what is even more excessive is to ask the boy's parents to give their property completely to themselves and control it themselves.

The girl's selfishness, greed and paranoia finally angered the boy's family, and in less than three months, the two ended in a breakup. The original romantic and touching love story and vows were empty in a blink of an eye.

Three. The economic gap is huge, but two people can be together for a long time. It's all the result of mutual compromise and mutual effort. The weak side is constantly growing, and the strong side is constantly considerate and caring for the other party, helping the other party, and catching up with their own economic status.

Only when two people are evenly matched can they live together for a longer time.

Will the love with a large financial gap between couples last long? This varies from person to person, from gender to gender. If the boy's income is higher than that of the girl, not only will it not affect the relationship, but on the contrary, it will enhance the relationship. If a girl's income is higher than that of a boy, it will generally affect the relationship, and most boys will care that they are not as good as girls, even if girls don't care, but boys will still secretly rub and think that they are useless.

And if the man's family economy is the same as the woman's family economy, and then the relationship between the man and the woman is very good, and then the man's income or the woman's income is relatively high, I don't think it will affect the relationship, as long as either of the two parties does not have too strong self-esteem, it is the type of "death to save face and suffer from sin". In terms of income, as long as both parties do their best, after all, not all together because of income.

If there is a gap between the economic conditions of the two families, the man is better or the woman is better, and then the two people are together, not by themselves, but through introduction, the relationship is average, and then the party with less income has stronger self-esteem, and the party with higher income is more self-righteous, and always feels that he has a high income, and he feels great at home. And then there are usually small contradictions, always one sentence, you are so powerful, why is your income so low. Then in such a situation, it will affect the feelings.

But if one of the two parties' family economic conditions is particularly good, and then the two people are together and they know each other, the two parties go through the process from strange to particularly understanding, from not loving to especially loving, and then they don't pay so much attention to the income of one party, because the family conditions are not bad, and they think that as long as the two people love each other, it is good. Then the party with a low income will not have too much self-esteem in this regard because of his own low income and poor family economic conditions. Then in such a situation, it will not affect the feelings.

It is difficult to last a long time in love with a large economic disparity. Because the final result of love is to enter marriage, marriage needs to be supported by an economic foundation, if the economic conditions of two people are too different, there will be a lot of contradictions in life. Whether it is living habits or consumption views, there will be great differences.

At the beginning, it may be because of love, and they can accommodate each other, but this is bound to be a big hidden danger, and there will inevitably be an outbreak in the long run. Therefore, long pain is better than short pain, if you can't change the excessive economic gap between two people, this kind of love should still be carefully considered.

Love must be sweet at the beginning, two people together are more concerned about whether the three views are the same, and most people will not pay attention to the economic gap, but in fact, this problem directly affects the durability of love.

After the love of two people matures into the palace of marriage, the party with good economic conditions must have more right to speak, and the party with weak economic conditions will definitely accommodate each other at the beginning, but in this unequal relationship, the mood of the two people will slowly change, the party with better economic conditions feels that he has borne more living expenses, and he should be taken care of, and the party with weak economic conditions feels that their feelings are equal, and the status of the two people should also be equal. Because of this psychological imbalance, separation is the final outcome.

So two people in love are still quite better financially.