I still want to work hard to maintain this relationship

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Mutual love is the happiest love.

    None of us know what's going on in the other person's mind, and some of us just guess.

    One-sided love is very happy, but there is also a hint of sweetness in the happiness, and I think you feel that way, too.

    I don't know how to say it, but I know that if there is any misunderstanding between you, it would be nice to solve it, but if you don't love a person, you don't love anymore, it doesn't matter how hard you try, and in the end, it's yourself who suffers, and you lick your wounds in the corner by yourself, and no one can see it.

    If you don't want to give up, then you can just talk to her slowly, but don't look for her too hard, otherwise it will have the opposite effect.

    Take your time and work hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It may only take a minute to fall in love with someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget someone.

    You love her so much that you can't forget her, and the scenes from the past will always appear in your mind. You don't want to give up, maybe you have your unwillingness, unwilling to be abandoned, unwilling to end the relationship for so long, unwilling that she doesn't care about you, unwilling that she doesn't love you. However, if you have tried so hard to keep it, and you still can't keep it, then don't keep it.

    Because if you try too much to keep people who have changed their minds, all you have left is humble. Even if she reluctantly agrees with you, you'll be afraid that she'll get away with it again.

    There are things you can only choose to accept, and there are things that you can only choose to be silent. Not to mention a year or two, but over time, when you think about it again, it will not be so heartbroken.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better to go with the flow, and if you really love her, give yourself and her a chance and let time prove it. If you have a relationship with her, you will be together in the future. If there is no fate, it is useless to be reluctant. Give you and her a space, let go of yourself, and talk about it later.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello bro! People have their own ideas, and they are not so comprehensive. If she really loves you, then in the current situation, there is nothing to say, and she will naturally try to see you, so miss you.

    I believe that time can dilute everything, and it will naturally fade if you haven't been together for a long time, even if you remember her. I'm the same, I can deeply understand, I don't know if she will remember me now, but it's hard for me to forget her, it's been 1 year now, and it still seems like it happened a few days ago. I believe in fate, as long as you work hard, if you still can't do it, give up!

    You can ask her about her feelings and thoughts, and it is naturally good for her to make it clear, and if she doesn't say it, it means that she also has a hard time, and maybe she doesn't want to hurt you. Slowly, over time, some of it will be forgotten, or that sentence, feelings can't be forced. I've also learned the reality, people, just like that, you will be frustrated emotionally.

    That's how you can learn to be strong.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like it, if you can't let it go, just be together, and if you think it's okay to do anything, don't be embarrassed for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    ………I'm very impressed......It's not easy for you, but I just want to say ......You're still young, even if you can't be with her, it's not like anything else, really, who doesn't have the same earth as the earth, you just can't forget that feeling, it's because you have had, but that doesn't mean anything, if she really likes you, she won't even shirk coming out with you, I think ......You better find someone else, don't delay yourself and restrain others' ......

    It's purely a personal opinion, you listen to it, as for the decision, no one can help you with ......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's better to give up, some people you really don't have to be too attached, people must look forward, why bother if there are more good girls? I believe that there is nothing irreplaceable in a word, forget her, start over, really she doesn't love you and can't ask for it, find someone who loves you, ordinary is the most true, but you didn't meet the right person, believe me to come out strongly, you will meet you one day that belongs to her, I also came from that state, I can deeply understand that brothers and men focus on their careers, and when you have a career, you should have everything. Although the words are not good, they are true.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Believe me, no one is completely independent, everyone has their own weak side.

    If you really love her, and she loves you too, don't care too much, love a person to love her all, if you can't do it, let go as soon as possible, two people come together is a lifelong responsibility, you have to live with her for a lifetime, not your parents. You can listen to your parents for everything, but you must stick to your own path in your feelings. If you give up now, when your marriage is not happy in the future, you will still wonder if it would be better if you didn't listen to your parents in the first place.

    Trust your instincts and don't complain even if the end result is unsatisfactory.

    You said that everything you have been given by your parents since you were a child, and I think you also hope to exchange your own efforts for the life and happiness you want, try to fight for it. You will find that she is especially dear to you. She will also stay for you because of the effort you make.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Stick to what you choose, stick to what you love, and believe that you can change her! The premise is that she also loves you very much!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you like it, you have to look at it yourself!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Marriage and love are indeed two different things.

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

    Balance it yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello: Love is a personal thing, I want to ask, have you ever loved, have you really loved a girl? If your description is true Then this girl is really good, people's lives are actually very short Why don't you choose your own life, your parents will support you if they really love you, if this girl will give you happiness Then why not fight for it, although the current job is not very easy to find, but the general job is still not difficult to find, and if she loves you With her character I don't think it will put too much pressure on you Not everything in a person's life can be as good as possible But try to strive for love from the bottom of your heart Not all the time you missed and probably won't be there again.

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