What is the folk custom that disgusts you the most?

Fortune telling or something, there are some things you can't explain clearly, so it's nothing for the old man to have peace of mind or anything like that, but those magic sticks who pretend to be swaggering and deceiving should stay away.

When I was a child, celebrating the Qingming Festival was a labor activity at all. Mountaineering to worship ancestors, not to mention the physical consumption, finally climbed the mountain, and had to continue to carry the turf from a distant place (a kind of Dongdong used to worship ancestors), how a tired word.

Today, the 100th day of my grandfather's death A bunch of relatives are here, but they are talking and laughing, happy no, not at all like they are coming to participate in the 100th day of his death, I don't know the meaning of this kind of thing, although I can't say how sad it is.

Joy and mourning means that someone in the family has passed away, and someone is specially invited to come over to play and sing, which is full of festive flavor. I think it's a sad thing in itself, but everyone is talking and laughing, which is really unacceptable to me.

Some people don't even know what the name of the deceased is, but they come to the funeral. That line of relatives had always laughed before, but they were able to cry at the funeral. When it's over, we also discuss who cries well.

One of the folk customs that I dislike the most seems to be a folk custom that exists in all parts of the world, that is, it is not good enough not to get you drunk (fourth tone). That's why at home I say I don't drink.

I don't know why I've been disgusted with kowtowing since I was a child As soon as I think of kowtowing on the morning of the first day of the New Year, my head is big, but it's a traditional custom, and I'm powerless to resist, so I don't go to others to say that you are ignorant.

It should be a sky-high dowry price. I know that in the coastal areas, many people do not want to marry their daughters, but sell them.

Visiting relatives during the Chinese New Year, eating this house and eating that family, this is the time of the year when I feel most like a star, and it is completely a notice.

What is the custom of raising the head of the dragon on the second day of February.

Shave the faucet. Refers to the second day of the second month of February, children's haircuts, called shaving "happy heads", borrowing the auspicious time of the dragon to raise its head, bless the healthy growth of children, and get ahead when they grow up; Adults get a haircut, say goodbye to the old and welcome the new, hoping to bring good luck and a smooth new year.

Eat dragon food. The name of eating spring cakes is "eating dragon scales", eating noodles is called "Fulongxu", eating rice is "eating dragons", eating wontons is "eating dragon's eyes", and eating dumplings is called "eating dragon ears", all of which are related to dragons and symbols. These are all entrusted with people's strong desire to pray for the blessing of the dragon.

Put the dragon lantern. In the river delta and some areas along the river, there is also the custom of "putting dragon lanterns". Many people make small boats out of reeds or straw, put candles or small oil bowls dug out of radishes, and put them in the river or bay in the evening to light the way for the dragon.

It is used to entertain and at the same time convey a kind of good wishes.

Knock on the faucet. In some areas of the northeast, on the morning of February 2, a long pole was used to hit the beams of the house, which was called "knocking on the dragon's head". Wake up the dragon and bless the party.

Sacrificial stove. In the south, the "second day of February" still follows the custom of sacrificial shrines, such as in Zhejiang, Fujian, Guangdong, Guangxi and other regions; In addition, a new "February 2" custom has been formed, which is similar to the custom of the dragon raising its head and mainly based on the custom of the sacrificial shrine, such as in the Hakka area of Guidong. The god of the land was called "She" and "Sheshen" in ancient times, and legend has it that he was the god who managed the land.

Because "the earth carries all things" and "wealth gathers on the earth", human beings have developed a worship of the land. After entering the agrarian society, he linked his belief in the land with the abundance of crops. In the south of our country, the land god is generally worshipped, also known as the "earth god" and "good fortune god", and the Hakka people are called "land boy".

On February 2nd, the customs of the "community day are rich in content, and the main activities are to worship the land and gather the society to drink, and to entertain people by worshiping and entertaining the gods.

Golden beans bloom. According to the old people, jelly beans are fried on this day, and there are no insects all year round; It is also said that fried soybeans means "golden beans bloom".

The customs of the countryside should be looked at separately, and the essence should be taken and the dross should be removed. We should resolutely resist some unhealthy trends and customs that are out of step with the times, and vigorously support and encourage development of some things that are conducive to the healthy development of society. So what about those that are vulgar?

What are the ones that are worth preaching? Here is a brief talk about some of my own views, only representing personal views, don't spray if you don't like it.

I remember when I was a child, whenever I celebrated the New Year. Housewife.

The boiled bacon is offered to the god of the stove.

Former. He didn't let the child speak, and he knelt in front of the stove god reverently, and whispered the expectations in his heart. The little ones think it's mysterious. Folklore has it that on the day of the 30th day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the god Vesta would fly up to the sky to meet the Jade Emperor, the so-called heavenly words are good, and return to the palace to be auspicious.

After 12 o'clock in the evening of the 30th day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, no needlework and thread can be used. You can't say bad things on the first day of junior high school. A little girl in my neighbor who is the same age as us heard from adults that you should not talk nonsense during the New Year, but that you should say auspicious things.

When I came together on the morning of the first day of the new year, I said, "My family is so rich!" It's funny to think about it now.

Regarding the auspicious words of the New Year, the adults also talked about what they thought was true. said that Uncle Zhang from the neighboring village, on the morning of the first day of the Lunar New Year, his rooster pulled chicken manure on the table of the Eight Immortals, and Uncle Zhang was lazy. He called him wife, old woman!

Come and wipe the off the table. Because of this sentence, his family raised one chicken and died one that year. Why is that?

The adults said that there was a word for, which was the same as death. So all his chickens died.

Hearing this real "case", it scared our group of children, and they didn't dare to talk nonsense during the Chinese New Year. But when the adults are not there, we are still very casual, but the awe of the "year" has always been buried in the bottom of our hearts.

At that time, supplies were scarce. Productivity is low and science and technology are underdeveloped. People feel that there is a god in the underworld, who controls people's fate. It also reflects from the side that people have a better life.

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There are good and bad customs in the countryside, and we cannot generalize, we should continue to pass on the good customs and habits, and we should abandon some bad habits.

I think it's very necessary. Because now that young people are going out to work, they are becoming more and more indifferent to the customs of the countryside, so it is necessary to pass them on.

I think a lot of rural customs need to be changed, because these are superstitious ideas, and now we should be more science-oriented.

Traditional customs refer to the social customs that people gradually form in social life, are consolidated from historical inheritance, have stable social customs and behavioral customs, and have been closely integrated with national emotions and social psychology, and have become people's conscious or unconscious code of conduct. The content of traditional customs is complex, and the traditional customs that exist in a society are roughly divided into two parts: one is left over from history, which has a long history and a long time, and has the characteristics of social, collective, and national characteristics.

Different regions, different collectives, and different ethnic groups all have different traditional customs, such as the folk customs of different ethnic groups. Second, it is produced by adapting to the actual social and historical conditions, such as the new life customs advocated after the founding of New China. In a socialist society.

Traditional customs have a dual nature, there are new and old, progressive and backward, positive and negative habits. On the one hand, there are new socialist customs and habits, which are adapted to the socialist system.

The new customs and habits are adapted to the needs of social life in Marxism.

Under the guidance and vigorous advocacy of the party and the state, it has gradually emerged and developed. It plays an important and positive role in evaluating people's moral behavior. On the other hand, there are old customs.

In the old customs, there is the essence and the dross. In this regard, we must make a concrete analysis and distinguish between the essence and the dross, so as to discard the dross and absorb the essence for the purpose of consolidating and developing socialism. (Encyclopedia).

1) Throw the missing tooth on the roof or under the bed.

When we were children, we must have experienced a period of tooth replacement, where teeth fell out automatically in order to grow new teeth. The elders in the family will ask if it is the upper or lower teeth. If it is in the upper row, the child will be taken to the side of the bed and thrown under the bed; If it's in the lower row, you'll throw the lost teeth on the roof!

It is said that if you do this, your teeth will grow out neatly. The elders will say this, in fact, the intention of comfort is greater, and I hope that the child will not be sad because of this. In fact, after the tooth is lost, remember to check for other unusual conditions first

For example, bleeding does not stop, there is a foreign body in the tooth, and so on. The second is to brush your teeth in the morning and evening to make sure that there is no food residue between your teeth. In this way, the teeth will definitely remain in a "beautiful" state!

2) Nibble on the fish bones and draw a fish pattern in the cup.

When I was a child, I would be extra careful if I ate fish. If a fish bone is accidentally bitten, the elder will pick up the cup and fill it with water, then hold the bottom of the cup with three fingers, draw a fish pattern in the filled cup with chopsticks, and then slowly let the child drink the whole cup of water. Strangely, if the situation is not very serious, you will gradually stop feeling the presence of fish bones in your mouth.

When I grew up, I found that these are actually psychological effects. It is recommended that if you bite the fish bones, do not blindly believe in the soil method, if the situation is too serious or has not improved for a long time, do not hesitate to consult a professional doctor immediately!

3) Do not eat eggs before the test.

I believe most people have heard it when they were young: "Before the exam, you can't eat eggs, otherwise you will get zero eggs in the exam!" The elders would say this because chickens envy eggs and zero eggs are related to the word "egg".

In fact, they also wish the children a smooth exam! Eggs can not only provide the protein that the body needs, but also refresh the mind and enhance memory. The most important thing is not to eat greasy food before the exam, and try to eat as light as possible to avoid stomach pain affecting the exam.

When you take the exam, relax and prepare for your homework, so you don't have to prepare for the exam too badly!

4) After eating, do not leave the rice grains and rolling dates on the plate.

When many people are young, if the elders of the family see that the child has finished eating, but there are some uneaten grains left on the plate, they will start to say: "When you grow up, your wife and husband will have such a grain on their faces!" It means that when the child grows up, the other half of the child will have something similar to pimples on his face.

In fact, the elders will say this, and the biggest intention is to hope that the children will not waste food. As the saying goes: "Who knows that Chinese food on the plate, every grain is fortunate."

From an early age, we must know how to cherish food and cultivate the virtue of not wasting food.

1.Some traditional cultures and customs may gradually disappear because young people have a lower sense of identity and acceptance of these traditional cultures, and no longer value these traditional cultures and customs as they did in previous generations;

2.Some traditional family concepts and values may change, such as the concept of marriage, family responsibilities, etc.;

3.Changes in social relationships, such as young people's greater focus on personal independence and autonomy, may have an impact on social relationships, such as kinship, friendship, etc.

These effects are not entirely negative, and there may be some positive changes in the Leung. For example, young people are more focused on personal independence and autonomy, which can also contribute to the development and progress of society. However, we also need to remain vigilant against the disappearance of some traditional cultures and customs, and preserve and pass on these traditional cultures and customs as much as possible, so that future generations can better understand and recognize our cultural traditions.

With the changes in the lifestyles and values of young people, many traditional cultures and customs are gradually disappearing. For example, the severance of relatives is a unique traditional Chinese cultural phenomenon, and more and more young people are choosing to sever their relationship with their parents. The reluctance to share money is part of the wedding custom and is beginning to be taken away in some places.

These changes show that young people are less receptive to traditional culture and customs.