What do you most alike about your family s interference with you?

I went around in my own memories, and most of the experiences that disgusted me the most happened in my original family, when I hadn't grown up and didn't have my own independent thinking, so most of the decisions were made by my parents, and there were many things I didn't want to do, but under the authority of my parents, I had no choice but to do something I didn't like to do.

I'm a boy, so have you ever wondered what a guy doesn't want to do? I remember when I was in my teens, I started to do laundry, cooking and sweeping at home, and I was asked to do all these chores, and I had a question at that time, why do you want me to do what you don't want to do, I even quarreled with my parents because of this problem, but their reason was that you are so old that you eat and drink and what is wrong with us doing some work? Can't you be considerate and considerate of your parents?

I really didn't have anything to say at the time, but I was extremely disgusted with doing the housework that only these girls do.

My family is rural, there is a piece of land in front of the house, and other people's children go out to play after school, but I can't, I have to do all these farm work at home with my father in the garden, watering and weeding, I am also a child, I also want to go out to play like other people's children, why can't it? Then I learned the saying "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", and I felt that they were putting on my head what they were supposed to do, and I was going to share it with them, and of course it seemed that there was nothing wrong with doing it now, because I was their child and deserved to be under their jurisdiction. But at the time, it seemed like a kind of interference with my freedom, and I had the right to do what I wanted, and at that time, doing farm work and washing dishes was like a punishment, and my heart was very sad.

Here some people may want to complain that I am not a filial child, I can only say that if you don't suffer from others, don't persuade people to be generous, you haven't experienced the reality of others, don't blame other people's behavior.

It's your own emotional aspect. Because I feel that my feelings should be chosen by myself. There should be no interference from the family.

What I hate the most is that I make decisions about my future life plan and ask me to follow their plans, but I don't like that.

What I resented the most was that the family interfered in my career and pointed fingers at my career because they didn't know me and didn't know my intentions.

What I am most disgusted with is the lack of support and opposition from my family, I think I can disagree, but I can't hurt my ideals.

I am most disgusted by my parents and relatives, who keep urging me to get married quickly, they are more anxious than me, and there is no other topic at all when we are together, I am particularly disgusted by this.

Probably their words. Especially when arguing, I especially hate that they will say nasty things to deny my existence.

In fact, what I am most disgusted with is the family's interference in my feelings, because it will make me feel very uncomfortable.