I m 17 years old, I m 23, and his family is very nice to me, but my dad doesn t agree 40

Updated on educate 2024-04-13
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    According to the age difference of 6 years, it is a contradictory aspect, and if you are in opposition, there will be many contradictions after marriage. It is recommended that you find a better fortune teller and calculate whether you can combine. Generally, before getting married, the man is good to the woman.

    There is no parent in the world who is bad for their children. It's all for your sake.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's me and I don't agree with it either!!

    First of all, you are now a minor, you don't care, when you reach the age of marriage, he is already 26 If he is a rich second generation or an official second generation, it doesn't matter if he is just an ordinary person.

    I'm sorry, if your thinking changes a lot after three years, wouldn't you be delaying others.

    If you graduate from school, you're 24, but he's 30.

    Don't tell me that you love him forever, don't tell me for the rest of your life.

    Anything can change, but nothing is certain.

    I'm worried about you, not about him.

    People in their twenties must have sexual needs, whether you satisfy him or satisfy him, for the little you.

    Isn't it also a hurt?

    If you're a little sister or a non-mainstream, then I don't care.

    Hope it helps.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love him, follow him.

    A lot of things don't require too many people to agree to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Uh, 17 years old... Underage, let's talk about love for a few years first. I'll agree to it slowly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Life is an adventure, there is no perfect choice, if you are optimistic, choose bravely.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let him know more about your family situation and family, and make sure that he understands before arranging a visit. To be not only sincere, but also very pragmatic, during the conversation to talk about some topics that your dad yearns for, for example, your dad likes to watch the news, you can say something recent to guide your dad's interest, and the taboo is not to say something that your dad can't talk about. Be honest no matter what the problem, leave a good impression on your dad, a visit is an important process to sublimate the relationship, as long as you grasp it well, you will definitely be together, and wish you happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To say a classic, height is not a distance, age is not a problem, because you look a little small at the age of 17, you continue to date first, and this distance will be significantly reduced when you are 20 years old, in fact, your father is afraid that you will be deceived, time can prove everything, and you can also use this to prove his sincerity...

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's all from the past, and I'm telling the truth, and I'm telling the truth. First, you are too young, 17 years old, is it love? Or dependence.

    You can get along slowly and don't have to rush to confirm the relationship first. Wait 2 to 3 years. You're mature, it's never too late to be sure.

    And if the man loves you, he will definitely wait for you. And with your parents' consent, too, will they? Love must be blessed by both parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you mean marriage disagreement?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm also 23, why didn't I do this to me at the age of 17...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal for a boyfriend to be four years older! A little older is more sensible, and I can take care of you more, but you are still a little young at 17, does your family not allow you to find a boyfriend or is there an age gap?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's true that the age difference between men and women is four years, but that's nothing at a certain age, 17 years old and 21 years old, and my family doesn't agree with it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You first decide whether you want to be with her or your family, and then there is, this kind of problem is easy to solve, find the reason why your family doesn't like her, and then you know what to do.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The key is the position of the two of you, as long as you truly love each other, there is nothing you can't do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Time will tell, whether there is anything wrong with love, two people who truly love each other will create miracles together!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The key is whether you want to eat apples or pears. Each has its own taste.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe it's because he's still young, and you are in a long-distance relationship, her father doesn't know you, and he may not be at ease handing over his daughter to you. Every father will have the idea of being reluctant to give up his daughter, afraid that his son-in-law will snatch his daughter, you have to let him know that marrying his daughter to you will not be less of a daughter, but half a son, more of a son-in-law, and you must not let him have the feeling of spilling water from his married daughter, even if your two families are in different places, you can often come and go, go home and see. Her father may communicate too little with her, and people with violent tendencies should use benefits to impress him, say it well, and your girlfriend should communicate with her father slowly, it is best to start with her father's best or closest person to persuade and let others help, the best person is naturally your girlfriend's mother.

    Your persistence is victory, and if you give your girlfriend happiness, you can give her a new warm home, do you know what her father thinks? Go to the side knock to find out, and then find a way to solve it, knowing that her father's idea is more like a way, come on! Lovers eventually become married!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really feel sorry for her, you should make a long-term plan. She is 17 years old, which is indeed too young, but it also gives you time to convince her family that when you become a father, you would rather beat your daughter yourself than have her daughter suffer in the future and delay her life! We must understand and conquer, if we can't move it with reason, can't we know it with affection?

    I wish you luck and happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    She's not yet 18, and for her sake, it's best to give up!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't push yourself! Don't force others!

    Love and career, which is more important, it is difficult to say!

    If you are a person who attaches more importance to feelings, love comes first! It's a matter of the future, but then it will be a little tiring in the future!

    If you are a person who is more career-oriented, go out first, do a career, and then think about love, then the future life will be smoother!

    Personally, I think you should put your career first! Let go of the love of children!

    If the two of you really love each other, what are you afraid of, aren't you?

    Men should do things simply, decisively, and don't drag the mud and water!

    It's still the opening sentence: don't force yourself, then you will be very tired! Don't force others, they will be more tired!

    Wish: Success!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Tell your girlfriend's family: "It's your business".

    I'm sorry I said rudely.

    But in today's era, whose parents are in charge of these?

    Besides, do you want them to interfere with it!!

    As long as their daughter loves you.

    So go ahead with confidence.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe I can't give you any good advice.

    You're still young, only 20And your girlfriend is not qualitative.

    I don't know if she loves you very much.

    And the beauty industry is now developing.

    But you can't stay in a small place.

    That's what my cousin did.

    You go to the big city and specialize in cutting the popular.

    It's still very profitable. I suggest you go out and have a blast!

    You're just guarding your girlfriend if it doesn't work out. Still no results!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Material is the foundation of love, and if the foundation is not strong, the superstructure will crumble.

    Money can't solve everything, but it can solve you; Money can't buy everything, but it can buy me.

    This society is such a reality, it is difficult to say anything without material.

    The young man still laid the foundation first, and it was no problem how high the building should be built in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your question: I think money is a very important thing, otherwise what would you do as a hairdresser? Why do you disagree with your family? You don't understand it yourself?

    The difference between you is not only the economic problem, but also your job, which is unstable. Now you want her not to go out to the wrong market, she will definitely give you a home in the future

    She is not under pressure to be employed now, and you feel tired of chatting with you for 2 hours. Your minds are different, because the reality of life is in front of you, and what you have to encounter is different.

    I suggest you go out and break in, many hairdressers are from other places to work in the city, and the salary is better, of course, it depends on whether you have economic acumen and how the craftsmanship is, as for you and your object, it is needless to say that you must break up if you are not in the same place, let it be. This is also a test for you. But I think you are still so young, and she is still underage, you have no career security, it is useless to think so much, when the time comes, the family dislikes you, you will be hit harder, men have to do their own business, now people are very realistic, it is estimated that if you marry a wife with very poor conditions, you can't stand it.

    Women have two paths, one relies on themselves and the other relies on men, of course, the latter must have a certain appearance; Would you like to be like that?

    Let's be a man who stands up to the sky. You're still so young, and it's good to see more.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'll tell you, lad.

    If you want your people to live vigorously, then dare to love and dare to do, you are you, and life is determined by yourself.

    Thank you! Hereby passing by.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Just 20 is like starting a family, to be honest, it's a little early, really, you're too young, and you don't have money, your girlfriend's family won't agree to you being together, although it's realistic, but it's true, you have to go out and break in, don't feel that you can't leave her, that's just your excuse, you're afraid to go out and face the unknown world, if it's a man, let's struggle.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It can't be, the Chinese are the most taboo"Poor"

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Now leave the mess aside and get your relationship with your girlfriend right.

    Then work hard in your career and rush to the hairstylist first.

    Now I can't get married if I don't have money, but after I earn money, I can get married, and I can also bring money to my family.

    In short, do a good job in your career first, and at the same time don't forget about your girlfriend, it's fine.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it were me, I would probably give up because I feel too young and immature to do something drastic, and it will not only be the two of you who will be hurt, but also your family and friends who care about you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You're both young, and it's not much good to be together too early, and it's something that should be carefully considered, both for you and her. Does her family's opposition look down on your origins or do they think she's too young? Putting aside the reasons of her family, do you think you can control your own future, after all, love (marriage) is a matter of two people.

    The above statements about money are too much, but they are really worth thinking about. Marriage really needs to be realistic. At least you should be able to live together (a female classmate said to me).

    Again, you're still young and you still have a lot to do. A man has no career. It will directly affect the marriage (maybe), to worry about what will happen if you are not together, there is only one sentence:

    True love can wait. If she really loves you, she'll wait. The same goes for you.

    You don't have to hurt once, and you don't believe in anything.

    Don't bother with it. Good luck to you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    To be realistic, this thing cannot be successful, because the first girl is too young to influence the thoughts of her parents! Second, when she is a little older, she will also consider the economic base! What we have to do now is to start from the root, good men are ambitious in all directions, according to our situation here, the monthly salary of the hairstylist is basically more than 2000, and it is good to take it and put it down!

    Come out and create!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Feelings are built on the basis of economy, if you have nothing, what to support her, why give her happiness? You may not listen, but that's the way it is.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's still early, she's still young. If you really love each other, nothing can stop you. If her parents can't stop you from falling in love, it means that you really love each other, and only with the person you love will you be truly happy, and her parents will know this.

    Since they can't change, they will learn to adapt. Money is not everything, feelings cannot be bought with money, as long as you live happily

    If it's true love, don't give up, time will tell

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Whether you can get married depends on the two of you, my girlfriend and I used to be like this, we were only 16 years old at the time, and my parents were very opposed to it. His whole family wanted to flatten me when they saw me. But my wife never left me.

    We finally got to this point, and his family had accepted me a long time ago. You mainly have no confidence in yourself, and you feel that your girlfriend's family background is better than yours. But the family background is earned by the previous generation, and it is not known how much money you can earn, as long as you love each other deeply, as long as you have the courage to take on the responsibility of taking care of him, you have to face it bravely.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    20 years old is really not young, but you are not mature enough, if I look back at 20 years old I think I was so stupid at that time, I didn't study hard, otherwise it would be better now. How young is 20 years old, you are not old enough to get married, why do you think so much? The pain of 20 years old will not be a problem until the age of 30.

    First of all, it's good that you have a dream of becoming a hairstylist, so work hard, what a good thing. People will make progress if they have goals. And then if you really love her, she really loves you, it doesn't matter what money, status, and you have two girlfriends at such a young age!

    Bad, bad! Then, money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible, the family said that you don't necessarily dislike you, maybe they want to motivate you, my parents used to say this, but when I encountered things with money, they didn't say a word, you remember, there is no one in this world who loves you more than your parents, and you will get married and have children in the future. You're so old, your stepmother is your father's choice, you don't want him to be alone.

    You have your own mind, you rely on him for everything, you are already great, but in the future you have to be better, if you get better every day, you will be terrible in a few years. There is a saying"If the two love for a long time, how can they be in the court"If I were that girl, I would be very touched if you were willing to stay by my side, but after thinking about it in the long run, I feel that this is not good for your own development, how can you take care of your family in the future. I accidentally said a lot.

    If you are yours, it is useless if you are not your demand, time will tell.

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