What should I do if I want to express my opinion when I speak, but I am not good at expressing it?

hello!

In fact, I used to be a very unsociable girl, and when I went to Tianjin alone, my heart was very empty. Later, when I got there, I was ashamed to find some fifteen or sixteen-year-old little sisters' language skills and work skills. So, from then on, I tried to exercise my expressive skills in communicating with others.

I used to have the same experience as you, I was free to be free on paper, and when it came time to talk to others, I had nothing to say.

Don't be bothered by this, when we are exposed to a wider range of society and have more experience, we can face it calmly. It's all about our mindset and character. Although personality is not easy to change, we must be able to communicate well with people!

We are people living in society, should we always close ourselves off, that is absolutely not possible.

Sometimes it can be helpful to put a little pressure on yourself to communicate with others. Language expression skills are slowly exercised, give yourself courage and confidence, from now on, communicate with friends, classmates, and more people you know, like, and are interested in, and you will learn from the happiness of understanding others and being understood by others.

Since you can express yourself well in words, I believe that there is absolutely no problem in words, so work hard! Do you believe that things are man-made? Right?

Learn more and communicate with others.

If you realize that there is a certain problem with your logical expression ability, then you need to solve this problem. So how to improve our logical expression ability? I think we can practice from the following aspects.

The first point is to read more books, think more, and write more. In any occasion where logic is needed, you must always remind yourself, pay attention to logic, and pay attention to express what you want to express as clearly as possible. Through continuous practice, you can improve your logical thinking ability in a short period of time.

In daily work and life, such as work meetings, reports, writing, and even communicating with others, you must analyze whether what you say is in line with the logical structure.

The second point is to read more. Read aloud to understand the author's writing ideas.

Thirdly, every time you speak, you should first determine what the topic you want to talk about. And then again. After the theme is clear, explain the theme clearly at one time, and the expression must always revolve around the theme, not randomly.

If there are many things, let's talk about them separately, what is the first thing, what is the second thing, what is the third thing, and you must not mix up several things to be expressed, which will lead to the intention of the expression not being clear at all.

So how can we quickly improve our logical ability? Sherlock Holmes famously said: After everything is excluded and unreasonable, what remains is the answer.

To improve your logical skills, you can also organize your thoughts every night before going to bed, make a list of the mistakes you made today, and then stick them on the bedside to remind yourself of what you are not doing enough, and then deliberately avoid them.

In short, to improve one's logical expression ability, it is necessary to speak more, speak purposefully, and speak with a thought structure. Here, I would like to recommend a book to improve your logical skills. The name of the book is "A Little Blue Logic Book", and I hope it can help you.

To improve the situation, it is important to think carefully before speaking. According to the logic of the language, it is strictly expressed logically, and then after continuous training, you can improve the coherence of speech. You can also take a look at other people's speeches**.

You can think more and do more logic training, keep yourself organized, and read more books. Think carefully and organize your thoughts before you speak. You can communicate with people more and increase your communication skills.

You can take a disconnected approach, use fewer words, and express your meaning. In this way, we can express our opinions clearly.

To improve this kind of environment, it is necessary to think carefully before speaking. Follow the logic of the conversation, express it in strict accordance with the logic, and then improve the grade of speech through continuous drills. In addition, you can also look at other people's statements**.

Summary. What to do if you are not good at expressing your thoughts.

Fourth, write more articles, read more books, and take more notes. Fifth, communicate more with others and refine their thoughts. Sixth, self-awareness, being aware of one's own thoughts.

In real life, if you pay attention to observation, you will always find some people with average skills, but they rely on their ability to speak and get into the mix. On the contrary, there are also some people with outstanding abilities, because they are stupid and not good at expressing themselves, and often miss opportunities, and unfortunately lose in not being able to express. So, what should you do if you are stupid and not good at expressing yourself?

Learn the following five tricks to become able to speak, it is not difficult, and solve the problems that you dare not, can't, and can't express. 1. Pay attention to what you are saying and make your wishes clear and unambiguous, and avoid using words that are too vague and general, for example, when you ask your boss for a raise, don't just say "I ask for a raise", but say: "I'm doing the work of two people now, and the workload has increased greatly, and I want to .......""Be clear about yourself and try not to beat around the bush unless you have to.

In addition, you should also understand that the more emotional you are, the more people will focus on your emotions and ignore your opinions and opinions, and the easier it will be for you to weaken your ability to express yourself. For example, when you blame your boss for not giving you a raise, your boss will inevitably become uneasy, and there will be many excuses and prevarications. 2. Pay attention to your attitude when you speakA person with strong expressive ability, Zi'an always maintains a calm attitude when speaking, is accustomed to using a smooth and affirmative tone, is not likely to be bitter, will not hesitate, and can explain his views to others at a moderate volume (not loud, high-minded, and not as thin as silk).

If you are not good at expressing and dare not express, how to express it, what psychological needs are hidden behind you, you need to sort out and analyze it first, so that you can see it. What it means to you if you express your true feelings or thoughts (or what you fear of dire consequences that you don't want to see). Choosing to do this, although uncomfortable, certainly satisfies some of your important psychological needs.

Start small and say no a little bit. Be kind to yourself and start with the simplest things. For example, if you don't eat anything, you refuse.

Start small, start small, and make up your mind.

It's up to you to grasp it, if you really don't feel well, then you can explain something similar and find someone else to do it for you. Or, you can euphemistically explain your current situation to gain understanding. The problem can be solved naturally.

You are the same as me, I will share with you my changes, others always trouble me to bring things, I have something to refuse is not good, but there are always people around you who teach you how to reject others, you just listen to more suggestions, change again and again, don't be embarrassed, you don't take everything for granted.

Your consideration and kindness to others is lovely and precious to this worldButIt only makes sense for you to do this when you face the same people as you, and others will cherish it, otherwise you will only suffer yourself, and some people will not care.

I always feel embarrassed to say what I think in my heart, for fear of conflicts, this is not good, after a long time, others will not care about you, everything should be done, and it should be explained when it should be said.

According to your description, you should think more about yourself in such a situation, and you must learn to refuse.

It's not like you can't express it. In fact, it's because you're too kind. That's why you feel like you're having a hard time expressing these things. Here are a few tips on how you can change this situation on your own.

1.The first is that you should consider your actual state. As you said, you are pregnant, and you are already very uncomfortable, although it is very important to accompany your family to the hospital, but you are also more important.

So this kind of thing should be brave to say it. Otherwise, if you hurt yourself, not only will you suffer, but your family will also be unacceptable.

2.And I think you're just being too kind sometimes. It's still very good to be kind to a person.

But sometimes when it comes to your own interests or your body, you have to speak out bravely. If you speak up when you are really in trouble, your family will understand you. My friend is such a person, as long as he feels uncomfortable, no matter how close to him, he will refuse anything.

So in this way, I can live more freely.

3.And you should also judge whether you should choose to say no according to different people or things. You and your parents or relatives, this kind of person, we should treat in a particularly good state, in fact, it is understandable that you will not refuse.

But if we are dealing with some other people who are more distant, we should be brave enough to say no. Otherwise all the people will push more things on us. In the end, the rest will only be very tired.

Summary. Hello, happy for you with this question.

1.First of all, you can read more and think more, which will help you express yourself.

2.Why do the words not make sense? In fact, it is a speech that does not mean anything, for example, you want to express "I saw so-and-so today", but you say a lot of useless things, such as I went somewhere after eating in the morning, and then I was stepped on by someone on the bus, and finally said that I met so-and-so.

Why don't you just say clearly, where and where I saw someone today, so that the other person can hear clearly and understand what you want to say.

3.If you have poor expression skills, you can exercise more, such as eloquence training, such as watching more cross talk, practicing lip sync, this is actually very useful, and I use this way to improve my expression ability. It's fun and not boring, but it also solves our own flaws.

Finally, I want to say that no matter what you want to express or listen, you must be focused, so that you can grasp the central idea and express the core content to the point.

I often don't have the meaning of words, and my expression skills are poor, so what can I do to change it.

Hello, happy for you with this question. 1.First of all, you can read more and think more, which will help you express yourself.

2.Why do the words not make sense? In fact, it is a speech that does not mean anything, for example, you want to express "I saw so-and-so today", but you say a lot of useless things, such as I went somewhere after eating in the morning, and then I was stepped on by someone on the bus, and finally said that I met so-and-so.

Why don't you just say clearly, where and where I saw someone today, so that the other person can hear clearly and understand what you want to say. 3.If you have poor expression skills, you can exercise more, such as eloquence training, such as watching more cross talk, practicing lip sync, this is actually very useful, and I use this way to improve my expression ability.

It's fun and not boring, but it also solves our own flaws. Finally, I want to say that no matter what you want to express or listen, you must be focused, so that you can grasp the central idea and express the core content to the point.

I wish you a happy life, and I wish you a thumbs up to the teacher, and here, I wish you a happy new year.