How did you get through the difficult days?

First of all, we must adjust our mentality, and we must not be too anxious and frustrated. The second is to do more things that you enjoy to divert your attention. The second is to ask friends and relatives for help to help them through the difficulties in front of them.

I basically live by reading books, only books can purify my soul, soothe my emotions, and allow me to find the meaning of continuing to live, so I am grateful for books and for bringing me spiritual comfort.

In the difficult days, I really lived like a year, and I waited for the hope to be able to end this, but the truth will catch us off guard, we can only face it, persevere, and persevere.

There was a time when I lost my job, couldn't pay my rent, couldn't afford to eat, and could barely survive, but I felt like I couldn't give up, I read a lot of inspirational books, and finally came out of the shadows.

I've had a lot of painful days, and I've been very strong through those days, because I feel like no one can help me at that time, only I can help myself.

Life always has to go on, although there are many obstacles that make me feel that I don't have the strength to continue living, but people can't live for themselves in this life, you still have a lot of constraints, so you must not give up.

Keep yourself busy, busyness can make people forget their worries. So I work very seriously, steadfast, every task given to me by the boss has been meticulously completed, the boss is also a newcomer who has just started a business, very humane to employees, see me work so hard, especially appreciated.

In difficult days, I will try my best to solve some unhappiness in my heart, and I will find many friends to help me solve problems and solve problems.

This year in 2020, almost all of them are preparing for entrepreneurship, several times of collapse, several degrees of standing up, facing the pressure of reality, can only be relieved; In the face of the relatives of the original family, all kinds of moral kidnapping, all kinds of rhetoric, several times chilling! Even a few suicidal thoughts and impulses, these really made me really feel it, and the true feelings in the world are nothing more than that.

But fortunately, I have always had a lover and confidant who silently guarded and supported and encouraged me, otherwise, it would be hard to believe that I could support it. I also believe in myself that no matter what happens in the future, I still have a love in my heart, and only when love is there can everything be possible.

Time flies, if you don't cherish it, life is easy to gray hair, and in the end it is still your own life that is wasted. Therefore, those bad people and bad things, I have to throw them all away and be the person I want to do! There is no human resource that can stop us from moving forward and succeeding.

Live for yourself, live once for the people you love, and live up to it in this life!

In the first year of our acquaintance, I had a car accident and my partner came to accompany me through this difficult time when he found out. After the car accident, I suffered a lot of physical setbacks, especially my bones were badly damaged and needed to recuperate for half a year. During that time, I faced a very huge challenge, I couldn't take care of myself, and I needed my partner to cook, bathe, and apply medicine to me every day, and she was by my side and took care of me without complaint.

She was always there for me during that unimaginable time, and I felt truly cared for and warmed. She not only took care of my life, but also injected me with drugs, massaged my muscles, and helped me do ** training, and when I was hit hard, she made me feel the value of life's great-grandchild model and heavy love. During that time, we became closer, the love between us grew stronger, and we felt the infinite preciousness of life and the importance of each other.

I am truly grateful for the warmth and love she brought to me, and she taught me how to be strong in difficult times and successfully get through these difficult days. Without a doubt, it was the most touching moment I have experienced with my partner, and our love was strengthened by it.

But when I suffer setbacks and ups and downs again and again, I am very hesitant, where is my life like a date? At this time, I have to determine my own direction, know myself, I think this time is the most difficult period for me, but in the end I recognize my shortcomings, and continue to improve myself, so that I have a good performance in work, study, love, so I think this thing is the most difficult and meaningful thing for me.

Knowing your innermost self is what becomes your core and root. Once you realize that you will be confident, you will know what kind of life is in line with your nature and what exactly do you need? What is the ultimate pursuit?

But the inner self is the most hidden, so the most difficult thing in life is to recognize yourself.

The things we are most familiar with are often the ones we are the easiest to ignore and the least to understand. People have been with themselves since the moment they were born, but they have never been quiet to listen to their hearts to truly understand yourself. On the road of growth, we are always pursuing various interests to satisfy material needs and desires, and it is difficult to re-examine our inner world.

Once we encounter confusion, sadness, pain, illness and other unexpected situations on the way to the road, we should slow down and calm our hearts, and seriously think about the true meaning of human existence.

In the event of a bug or other technical problem, I will constantly analyze and detect**, and fix the problem in a timely manner to ensure that my service can continue to run.

In short, I am constantly optimizing and improving my functions and algorithms to cope with all possible difficulties and challenges. At the same time, I also work closely with my development team to solve technical problems to ensure that my features are constantly improving and improving.

01 Don't give up, the hard days are really uncomfortable, the physical devastation If you have sports experience, friends will know that there will be a critical point in the running process, that point is really very uncomfortable, and in the psychological torment, what I want most is to give up, don't think too much about giving up, and don't have to be so uncomfortable, but we should think that we will gain more if we stick to it.

02 turn setbacks into their own driving force, it is precisely because of setbacks that we know the importance of cherishing ability, through continuous struggle, so that our experience is richer, we will become stronger, this society will never be easy to get, to see setbacks as our stepping stones, through setbacks we will become better.

03 Don't casually confide in others about your suffering, there will never be anyone in this world who can always be relied on, if you have a strong enough ability now, then quickly let yourself solve problems independently, if not, then quickly make yourself strong, and when you are really powerless in the future, the helplessness at that time is probably the most powerless.

04 Arrange your life and work well, the days of suffering will always pass, we arrange our lives well, and change little by little through continuous actions, then one day we can harvest a better life, because we firmly believe that our future self will be better, and all of this is our own slow growth, and we will eventually thank our past self.

05 Hurry up and take action to make yourself stronger, the world ultimately relies on yourself, your own strength is the real ability, if you want to rely on anything in the future, it will always be just yourself, how tormented you are now, it is caused by our past self, hurry up and make yourself stronger, in order to better meet the future.

The hardest time of my life.

I haven't experienced much yet, but some time ago, due to the loss of love and the lack of work, I did spend a time of confusion and no direction. But fortunately, after that period of time, I calmed down with myself and thought about it carefully. Figured out what I wanted and what I didn't want.

It will be clear what the next road should be. During that time, I kept running every day. Stick to reading in the evening.

Basically, I have enough time and don't let myself be too idle. Slowly develop a habit, read a book before, seven days can develop a good habit, so after a period of time I have developed a good habit. If you keep doing it, it may be of great help later in life.

**It depicts the story of Ma Jianqiang, a poor child in the countryside in the 60s, who struggled with Chongxiao and hunger when he was studying in the city. "A Thrilling Scene" was published in 1980 and won the first National Outstanding Zhongfan Judgment Award.