When do you want to be alone?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The most depressing thing I've had so far is having a marathon relationship. Prefer to be alone from an early age. I don't think so.

    There are always people who say that you should make more friends, but you always feel that you can't find a soulmate, and there are probably just some intersections. Finally, I met someone who likes to write letters, likes to look at flowers and plants on the side of the road, and likes to look at clouds. People who like to be cranky.

    I thought that He De could give a gift from God, it turned out that she was just looking at me. I never felt lonely, but I felt deep loneliness in this relationship. That kind of loneliness with people.

    There is no outlet for all the sensations. But like to be in company and like simplicity. I feel very humbled, contradictory.

    Fear of loneliness, but unable to bear loneliness. Balance two evils, choose to be alone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are no suitable people around, and there is no opportunity to meet new people, and I feel that I have lost the ability to love someone. I don't want to go out, I don't want to date, I don't want to give myself a chance, and I don't want to grow old like this, maybe I'm really only suitable for one person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I was single for eight years, I was sick, two months, no one took care of me, and after I got better, I decided to find someone to marry, and then I was two people, maybe because my own conditions were much better than each other, and the other party was very willing, but I felt very wronged by myself, and I didn't adapt to the other party's request to meet often, so I simply gave up, I felt that it was very comfortable to be single, but I was worried about getting old and sick. Always a problem!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For me who is single, everything is possible in the future, including the possibility of growing old alone, but I am not afraid! Work hard while you are still young, save more money, study more, cultivate more hobbies, and take care of your health. Let yourself live to the fullest, I believe that even if you are a person, you will not be too miserable when you get old.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After a relationship ends, I won't have illusions about others, it's not that I won't meet someone I like, but I won't meet someone I like so much, I won't give so much anymore, I won't be so desperate anymore, and I won't trust anyone easily.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I eat more and more lightly, treat people more and more tolerantly, don't lose my temper and learn to be tolerant, and slowly have a growing heart. I also began to be afraid to hear anything related to my illness, and my greatest wish became that the whole family was healthy. Compared to a year or two ago, I couldn't wait to see a distant place, and I would like to spend nine-tenths of the time eating a meal with my mother under the gentle light.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    is about to be thirty, and there was a short-lived boyfriend for a moment, but it can almost be said that he has never been in a relationship. I feel that I have to be sensible and strong, and I won't be cute and coquettish, and my face is capable and mature, and I am arrogant. Third- and fourth-tier small cities, with high incomes and high positions, fixed circles and urban atmosphere, lack the courage to go out.

    I still look forward to love, but I always feel that it is too difficult.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just like Zixia likes the Supreme Treasure, the Supreme Treasure likes Bai Jingjing, Bai Jingjing likes Monkey King, Monkey King likes Zixia, you think Monkey King and Supreme Treasure are the same person, but they are 500 years apart, everything is right, except for the wrong time, the order of people's appearance is really important.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    According to data from the Ministry of Civil Affairs, in 2018, China's single adult population reached 100 million, of which more than 77 million adults lived alone, and this number is expected to rise to 92 million by 2021.

    Under this trend, in recent years, there have been more and more services for singles, such as one person swimming, one person eating, one person singing, and so on.

    I think the biggest reason should be the sentence "The joy of being single, you don't understand." "Let's go. When I'm single, I can eat whatever I want, do whatever I want, and I don't have to be influenced by another person at all.

    But it is also reasonable for parents to be worried, and they can have someone around to take care of them when they are sick, but if they can't share the pain and can only worry about it, why not recover slowly by themselves?

    There are also people who may have too many hopes placed on their parents, but getting married and having children is not a necessary option for us, and there is no reason to say that not doing so is equivalent to unfilial piety. In addition, without a certain economic foundation, I am afraid that it is really difficult to get married, and it is even more difficult to have children.

    I think that if you have the ability to be single, as long as you are ready to die alone. Of course, if you meet that person, getting married and having children can also be considered.

    But this issue is brought up for discussion, but it is still a matter of majority versus minority. When the number of singles reaches a certain number, maybe it's a different situation? Could it be more convenient? Could be more lonely?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Delete a person and add it back; I felt unhappy, so I deleted it again.

    I added it back because he found out that he wasn't my friend anymore, we had mutual friends, so I knew he knew I deleted him. Think about it and decide to add it back.

    I'm unhappy because, obviously I took the initiative to delete others, but I was cheeky enough to add it back, I don't like it, and what happened, unfortunately it's useless.

    One wrong step, one wrong step.

    The roommate said, "People are very good, why do you delete them."

    My reply was that I was in a bad mood that day, so I deleted some people.

    Because I have my reasons. I prefer to be asked by others, why, is he ** not doing well?

    Instead of directly defining me, why delete people.

    Of course, I have my own reasons, in fact, I already expected this result.

    His presence affected me, and I had a crush on him, but it was impossible between us, so we had to delete him.

    Delete his friends and erase my fantasies.

    As for the impossible, it's basically impossible to be messed with like this now, and now he has no good impression of me.

    Now it's time to reflect on your own reasons.

    If this continues, I will not die alone.

    But that's my choice, the decision I made.

    I can't wait for you to coax me, it's my flaw.

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