Exhausted from years of long distance relationship, how to say a breakup?

If you want to break up in a long-distance relationship, it's easy to say it, it's hard to say it, how to say it, because the feelings of a long-distance relationship can only rely on **contact or WeChat, QQ chat tools, etc. to tell the pain of missing, and also borrow ** to understand each other's life, as long as this link is stuck, or reduce the number of contacts, slowly the other party will feel different, and smart people will look for the next way out.

Believe me, all men and women in love, all of them will not hang themselves on a tree, whose world has left whom, it is also business as usual, what the sea is rotten, the sea is sworn by the mountains, and it is as solid as a rock, they are all illusory feelings in TV dramas, and they rarely exist in reality.

Maybe when you start a relationship, both parties swear and are full of expectations for the future, but the reality is not like this, long-distance relationships are more harmful than good after all, you think about it, your home is not together, your work is not together, and the usual communication is limited to the fantasy network and **, so there is no way to understand each other's real life status. Two parallel lines will never intersect, just as you would in two cities.

You can insist on it for a year or two, you can insist on it for three years or four years, but you can't insist on it for a lifetime, and a person at work will also encounter a lot of unhappiness, at this time the person is the most vulnerable, what he misses must be home, but you are not together, in the end, no one will have enough time and energy to coax you or rely on you, or go to the local area to find you, so, slowly, you will feel more and more tired, real physical and mental exhaustion, until the heart of the line of defense of love is broken, However, if you are reluctant to break up, you may start to feel heartache, but, to be honest, if you meet a few good friends at this time, whether they are of the opposite sex or not, they can help you get through this hurdle, and at this time, you no longer need the other half of the other half. So, slowly, it will disperse.

After years of long-distance relationship, how do you say a breakup? Well, I don't know what to say, I've been tired of a long-distance relationship for many years, and how to say the breakup. Some people say that after many years of being away from home, you are already so tired, so let's break up early!

Maybe you should go to his city, find a café, order a cup of coffee, and talk about your problems together. Talking about the pain of being away from home over the years, maybe it should have been said earlier. Maybe for two people in a different place, breaking up early is good for both of them.

Some people may say that although they have been away from home for many years, although they are all tired, they don't necessarily have to break up to solve the problem! You have been together for so many years, and you must have a lot of emotional accumulation. Maybe you can find other ways to save your relationship, and you don't have to break up to solve the problem!

Maybe you can go to his city, maybe he can come to your city, maybe the two of you have to communicate more and talk more about your thoughts. Sometimes, a matter doesn't have to be solved in such an extreme way, and the relationship between two people is not something that can be dissolved, not to mention that there must have been many years between you. Besides, why have you all been in a long-distance relationship for a long time, why do you still want to say that you broke up?

To be honest, my boyfriend and I are also in a different place, but maybe it's because we're just starting out! There are still not too many problems between us, there are not so many mutual suspicions and distrusts, maybe we won't be able to stand it for too long! After graduating this year, he was admitted to the civil service and was going to Zhejiang, while I had to stay in the city where the university is located for half a year for various reasons.

But it's only half a year, and I'm sure that after half a year, I'll go to his city to find him. Now we have been away for more than four months, although he and I are in different cities, but fortunately our relationship has not faded because of this, fortunately, our hearts are still closely connected.

So, how to say it! If you are really tired from being in a different place for many years, you don't necessarily have to break up, there are so many choices in life, why do you have to say break up? Since so many years have passed, and so many years of affection have persevered, why give up?

Maybe, you can go to him, maybe he can come to you too.

Career is important, but feelings are also very important, in fact, sometimes you shouldn't give up your favorite person and give up your love for the sake of your career.

All in all, I'm not in favor of a breakup. After all, I am a person who values feelings very much, let alone love, and I think it is really not easy to find someone who loves me in this life. So, after years of exhaustion in a different place, you can also choose not to break up!

A long-distance relationship is a relationship between two places, and nowadays, because of study or work, more and more people may have to face a long-distance relationship for a period of time or a long time. In fact, long-distance relationships are indeed more difficult, eating alone, going to school alone, or going to work alone. When you're at your most tired, hardest, and most vulnerable, that person may only be on the other side of the computer or on the other side of the computer.

A long-distance relationship may be that one party has a third party, or a colleague or friend or neighbor, etc., is always surrounded by people who can give warmth, especially girls in long-distance relationships, who are more likely to be moved by the warmth of the boys around them, and boys in long-distance relationships probably can't stand their physical desires and choose people around them. If there is a third party, then say that you should break up directly, which is better for each other.

If you break up simply because it is a long distance, I think it's a pity, if your relationship is okay, then stick to it for a while, see if there is a chance to live in the same city in the future, if you will go to a city after a year or two, then stick to a long-distance relationship for a year or two, you will find that your relationship will be more precious. If the chances of the same city in the future are very slim, and you are not the kind of person who is very independent, then it is actually okay to break up, my suggestion is to say directly, talk to each other openly, communicate your heart and the other party's inner thoughts well, if you are sure to break up, it is good to get together and disperse. After all, two people have gone from acquaintance to love, and along the way, the bitterness and bitterness are still the best for themselves.

Long-distance relationship breakup farewell words 1) On the way home, I cried, and my tears broke down again, and I couldn't do anything about it, and I didn't dare to be proud and extravagant anymore. What else can I say, what else can I do? I wish you had heard, I let you go ...... because I love you2) Don't say love easily, a promise is a debt!

3) When you are finally willing to admit that he is just a passerby in your life, you can continue to walk your cherry blossom path and no longer linger. A lot of things, just because we don't want to admit it. I don't want to admit the cruel and unacceptable truth of Shiyuyuan!

4) Actually, it's not that you don't know how to love, it's not that you don't dare to love, it's just that you're afraid of getting hurt, you're afraid of hurting yourself, and you're afraid of hurting others, so you don't love. It's not that I don't want to love. I love too hard.

Love is too helpless. It's not that you don't love. Fear of love is also a kind of harm.

If the temperature of the relationship between the two people cools down quickly after being apart, it means that your original love is just an illusion caused by staying together every day, and it is not really the emotion of "if the two love for a long time, how can they be in the morning and twilight". If that's the case, I think the relationship is over, and it doesn't hurt the two of them too much.

Two people should enjoy a period of time alone, deepen their thoughts about each other, and dig deep into each other's strengths, such an experience is actually very beneficial to the two of them to get along better in the future. If the two can still get along happily after the test of a long-distance relationship, I think the relationship will be more long-lasting and strong.

It is necessary to do a good job in the exchange and communication of feelings. Nowadays, communication tools are very developed, we can communicate through WeChat, ** and voice every day, and we can give flowers to each other, which are better ways to maintain feelings. In addition, we must meet often, we must get together for a month or two at most, and the time of meeting can be long or short, and the face-to-face contact between two people is particularly important for the two to maintain their relationship.

Now that the means of transportation are also well developed, I think that in principle, the fact that the two of them meet often in the country should not be a problem.

Both must maintain a common and continuous improvement mentality. If one party is working hard, learning and enterprising outside, while the other party is leisurely and chic, not learning and enterprising, just waiting for the two parties to meet and reunite, the consequences of this situation are often more serious.

As time goes by, one of them will have a significantly higher vision than the other, and when the two get together, it is easy to have a situation where they cannot communicate. Therefore, I suggest that couples must keep in sync and continue to make progress, and have more spiritual communication.