How is the couple you used to be the most optimistic about now?

It's only a junior or a senior, and there are more than 10 couples who know each other, and there are only two couples who accompany each other and haven't separated. Most of those who were separated were disconnected. has become the kind of ordinary friend who won't even like the circle of friends.

So let's fall in love later! Let's wait until we're all mature enough. When I was young, I liked it like a flower bone that had just been revealed, although it was very beautiful but too delicate to withstand the wind and rain.

I found that there are really few high school couples together, and those who can stick to it are destined for three points, and seven points depend on hard work. Basically, don't think about it in a different place, it's better to break up after graduation.

In the past, there was a couple of special academic tyrants in our class in high school, and the teacher knew that he did not object, and then he went to college, all in Taiyuan, but he was not in the same school, but he was separated in his senior year, and it was a pity for six years.

Both of them are in Xi'an, but the school is a little far away, and they usually don't see each other a few times, but the strange thing is that they have always been very good, even if they are good like high school now, I hope they can keep going.

When they were together in high school, they were not favored by us, and although the two schools were quite close to each other after going to college, it was said that the boy was addicted to playing games, and the girl said that she was very angry and proposed to break up. Now the girl is with another of my high school classmates.

I thought I could go to the end, but I found that it just looked like a good match, and many concepts were different, and it ended in a breakup. People will always change, and this is influenced by many factors.

Those people just look like a good match, not necessarily really a good match. What you see is often only superficial and superficial, and if two people want to be able to go on for a long time, what they need most is their inner character, the run-in of quality, and the tacit understanding between each other. Only those who are compatible with both the inside and the outside can grow old hand in hand.

Two of my friends and their ex-boyfriends received identical college acceptances. There is also a friend who is almost ten points behind her boyfriend. One in Tianjin and one in Guangzhou. Fly to each other twice a month. Vigorous. Hitherto.

Let's talk about myself, I have been with his first love for nearly two years, my classmates and friends around me are very optimistic, and I am very envious, and the relationship is also very good, occasionally noisy, because I can be together every day in school, but I don't feel tired, I don't know what will happen if I am separated for a while, I think I am very sticky, he will not annoy me, haha happy, we have talked together many times, that is, after graduation, many people say that most of the couples in their student days separated after graduation, I hope we are not the majority, There are many difficulties to face in the future, we will overcome them together, I love him very much, he loves me very much, we are fine.

At first, when they were in love, the two of them were like glue, they had a good relationship, and the two of them were very happy in the world, but in the end, they intervened in family affairs, and they turned the whole day upside down, all kinds of disagreement, all kinds of dissatisfaction! In the end, the two had to give in to real life.

The couples in high school, as far as I know, all broke up, and the relationship was good at the beginning, and some even talked about marriage and met their parents, but they broke up without knowing why.

I have a colleague who is quite tall, and then found a gap of two heads younger than him, and now both of their children are 3 years old, at least from us it seems that the two of them are still quite happy.

Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting are a pair. One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, it is to save face for her in front of outsiders, it is the partner who can't fight back, the old man scolds and doesn't return the scolding, and it is the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is willing to give birth to him and is ten years younger than him, so he has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, using the word "sinner", and immediately after Song Ningfeng sat down after playing frisbee, he turned on the attack mode - disgusted that he was not qualified as an actor, because he couldn't even detect his wife's emotions; If he dislikes the belt, he doesn't know people, and he has such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is a love letter read by a waiter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.

Now that they're still together, looking at this posture, they should be rushing to get married.

Because the high school is closed, the school is very strict, and these secretly talk to the object of their own affairs has become the top priority of the school, because the school stipulates that if you catch the target, you must expel one of them, but most schools decide to expel the boy on their own. So the two couples in our class who have survived are particularly lucky.

I remember the first time I knew that the two of them were together and a little lost. Because this boy is very handsome, he is one of the few handsome guys in our class, and he is very popular, and he always has a lot of brothers. So most girls like to play with her.

When we first got into the class, we didn't know each other, but then he slowly started playing with us. That girl is a good friend of mine, but she has a cold personality and a more domineering temper, just a princess who is spoiled by the family.

Later, somehow they went home and spent Sunday, and they were together. Everyone was very surprised. I think it's incredible, but they're just together, and they're still the couple who have been walking for the longest time.

In fact, only the two of us broke up at that time, and the two couples were still together, which is sad to think about.

At that time, they were the least favored couple in the class, and when we chatted secretly, we would tease them, thinking that their tempers and personalities were not suitable, how did they stay together for so long.

I remember one time they quarreled and then began to break up, we still felt that it was good to break up, so I also went to comfort her when I said a lot of bad things, she didn't say anything, now I think about it I feel embarrassed to death, people broke up and kept saying bad things about others. Later, they were together again, and none of us could see her.

After graduating from high school, they broke up again, and at that time they didn't say much because they didn't have much contact with her, but when the news came out, there were still many people who said that they were separated and something like that. Later, when I came to university, I was in a city, so I would have a little contact from time to time. That time I saw the two of them together again, when I saw it, I felt that this was love, the kind that would not be separated no matter how noisy and annoying it was, and if it was really separated, it would still be back together.

At that time, I felt that everyone else was just a passerby, and it was best to be yourself. You don't have to show your feelings to others. The less blessed the feelings are, the longer they go.

Now that they are so old, it should be time to meet their parents, and there will not be too many opinions, after all, they are very happy.

It's just an accident, but the trouble they encounter in the future is no longer our whispering in private, but their real parents, and the love recognized by their parents will make them happier. But now they are full of envy, and when they are really married, then we feel that the relationship is more real and lasting. Be happy!