How should we adapt to the environment in society? How do you deal with people with different person

Change what you can change, accept what you can't change, give up if you can't accept it, treat others sincerely, throw a temper in many places, and don't lose your temper.

My first impression is that people in society are much more complex than people on campus, and people in society are not easy to get along with. And life is not as simple as we imagined, when I was on campus, I always wanted to enter the society as soon as possible, and when I entered the society, I found that the school was the best place, but I couldn't go back. It is very important to get rid of student thinking as soon as possible to the society, the so-called student thinking, is to why there is a single answer to the question, strong ability should be reused, student thinking is a stumbling block to survive in the society!

In fact, you may not really learn more things in a prestigious school, but if your alumni are strong, you will be able to get more opportunities and resources.

There is also emotional intelligence that is more important than IQ. Others are essentially just like you, they are ordinary people, and if you really realize this, you not only have confidence, but you also know how to get along with others. Don't always think about doing something big, do the things in front of you well, and gradually you can achieve considerable achievements, and don't fantasize about climbing to the sky in one step.

It's okay to have no money for a while, but it's okay to have no money all the time.

When entering society, you should cultivate a hobby, such as reading and running, which can make you resist loneliness and even enjoy loneliness. Life is long and emotions are changeable, and managing the emotions of goodwill can be a lifelong lesson. Whether it's a boy or a girl, earning a job well is the first priority.

My biggest impression is that I am not suitable to go out of school and enter society, and society does not particularly need me. It's not about yourself that matters, it's the feelings of others that matter. The knowledge in school may not be useful, but it is necessary to maintain the ability to enhance learning.

If you don't have a life and career plan, you will be eliminated.

Innocent people are blessed, and generally speaking, they will not suffer too much, if you treat others sincerely.

I'm a sophomore, and I like poetry, which is normal. Moreover, competition does not depend on sophistication or anything, but on strength. In general, society is now quite transparent.

The only downside is that you won't know what people are thinking, but it's a very likable character.

Most of the introverts are like this, don't worry, for other people's plays, you have to think about it, in fact, they are just joking, you don't need to take it to heart, you can use the same method to make their jokes and try it! Afraid of associating with people,

Simply do things, nothing, do your job well, ask your parents and relatives more when you encounter something, it's nothing, you can get through anything, stick to it, slowly adapt, you can keep it, but you also have to pay more attention, simplicity is not stupid, right.

I suggest you read more books on being a human being and so on, 7 points for being a human being, 3 points for doing things, there are some things that you are not good at, but society will force you to be good at them, exercise yourself.

Just one sentence, just go to the society after graduation to know?

No, this kind of society has its own adaptation, and not all people in society are very scheming.

Take your time! You can't listen to the teacher!

(1) Look at yourself correctly and recognize your own status and role. People are self-aware, and people know themselves in the evaluation of others. The multitude of "others" forms a social mirror in which we can discover our true colors.

Only by interacting and comparing with others can we evaluate our own physical condition, our knowledge, ability, interests, hobbies, temperament, personality, etc.

2) Put others in perspective. Dissatisfaction with others and strained interpersonal relationships are important manifestations of social maladjustment. People have expectations of themselves, so they change themselves, and people have expectations of others.

However, we cannot use our own will to transform others. Stubbornly demanding what others should and shouldn't do with their own will is the main cause of interpersonal tension. If we often "put our hearts in the shoes of others" and play the role of others, we will understand the needs and feelings of others, so as to improve our attitude towards others, reduce many unnecessary misunderstandings and unpleasant conflicts, and establish and maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships.

3) Correct the relationship with society. Society gives our lives content, direction, and meaning; In turn, we are transforming society in a variety of ways. Often, we consciously abide by various social norms and happily fulfill our social roles.

For example, if you ride a bicycle to an intersection and the red light is on, if you stop, no one will interfere with you; The green light comes on and you ride away. If you keep moving at a red light, the traffic cop will stop you. This is how society demands that people conform to social norms, both visible and invisible.

Social norms are conventional, or deliberately made. Therefore, in order to survive and live happily, it is necessary to adapt to society as an individual, and not to fantasize about society to adapt to itself.

First of all, we must take the initiative to reach out to this social environment. See for yourself. If you shut yourself up on a university campus and ignore the outside society, you will never adapt to the social environment.

Walk out bravely"Ivory tower"Take a look at the world outside the campus, do not escape from reality or make unfounded fantasies, and purposefully carry out some beneficial and beneficial social practice activities, so as to recognize your actual position in this social environment.

Second, it is necessary to actively adjust and choose appropriate countermeasures. In the process of contacting society, college freshmen should take a positive attitude subjectively, rather than waiting passively; When reconciling the contradictions between the social environment and oneself, it is necessary to judge the hour and size up the situation, conditionally choose the conditions for transforming the environment, and unconditionally choose the methods for transforming oneself, so that we can find the best plan without wanting to get into trouble and not giving up on ourselves.

In addition, appropriate psychological defenses can also be used in the face of possible distress. Whether it is to transform the environment or to transform oneself, there must be a process of transformation and consideration, in this process, there is often some kind of psychological distress, in order to solve this distress, appropriate psychological defense measures can be adopted to achieve the goal of liberation.

Adapting to society is all about mentality. Try to see the good side of society.

Personality is innate, and personality can determine the scope of your interpersonal interactions and environment.

The reason for this is that you are not overly good at your relationships, and you are not fully integrated into the group. Because different age groups look at things differently than their ideals. You're looking at different environments and things with the same eyes.

People and the environment are constantly changing, and you have to change with them. If you can't adapt to the environment, you will slowly feel uncomfortable, and slowly you will lose confidence and lack confidence. You have no weight in speaking not because you have no status, but because you have not played to your advantages, actively communicate with them, is to understand each other, in fact, if people want to get ahead, they must have the specialties and advantages that others cannot achieve, and you can have one of them.

You have to integrate into the collective, only by mingling with everyone can your strengths and strengths be seen and recognized, that is, you have to be able to sell yourself, I myself sell to every classmate, everyone understands you, you also know him, more than others know your strengths, learn from each other's strengths, learn from each other's strengths. Step by step, slowly accumulate, your interpersonal communication will slowly improve, if you have more strengths and advantages, your prestige will be slowly accepted by everyone.

You need some close friends in high school, not friends who won't help you. But it's not that you shouldn't make friends with classmates who don't study well (because I don't have good grades myself, but I'm not a bad student.) Not a fool either.

Maybe it's my family environment that caused me) (the family has a little money, and it's not here to show off the wealth). In this case, you can hang out with some guys that you think are on good terms with you. I used to hang out with those bad students a lot.

Now in the third year of junior high school, I have come to my senses, and I have gradually distanced myself from them, and I have been with some good students who I think I can make friends with.

2. Psychology is really limited due to my ability...

3 That's your own psychological problem, remember that you just need to feel that you don't live for others. It's about going your own way and letting others say go!! You have to think about it.

4 College means your relationships will be better, not worse. Unless your own psychology is twisted to the point that you don't want to make friends anymore.

The best I want to say is that I have something in common with you. If you don't get in the way, you can make friends with me.

1: You reject those boys from your heart, and feel that they are not a spiritual person with you, so you don't want to play with them, which is normal, and you feel that you are out of the mud and unstained.

2: From the psychology knowledge I have studied, you should be a nostalgic person, you miss the old junior high school life, but the current high school life is very fake, not as happy and natural as junior high school, so you become withdrawn.

3: You don't open your heart to make friends with others, how can you expect others to care about you? You tell me? If you think about it, you'll understand.

4: Yes, if you communicate with others with your heart, you will gain the same friendship as in junior high school, and vice versa

In fact, your problem is very common, I was like you when I first entered high school, because there was a psychological gap, and gradually became silent, before in junior high school, your words, will make many people happy, everyone is willing to play with you, but in high school, you lost this feeling of king, so, you would rather become a hedgehog, become indifferent, understand?

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Yes, I am now placing my teacher among four students with excellent grades. So it may be that they usually don't speak and don't use foul language. Classes are serious.

And so on. I also became a good student, and often the things around me made you adapt and fit in. So I want to fit in with a good society.

It is necessary to live in a good social environment. That's all I have to say. You can do it.

I like this question the most.

1.I've been like this a lot, playing different roles in different places, saying different things to different people, some people think I'm quiet and well-behaved, some people think I'm playful, very bad, and I think about why there's such a big difference, maybe it's because of the different people I interact with, and the positioning of myself is different, and the role-playing is different. So when it comes to you, the same person, why the two groups of friends are so different, I think it has a lot to do with the environment.

2 From a psychological point of view, let's say a p, that's what it is.

3. Decided by the environment, because you mentioned at the beginning, I had an unpleasant relationship with my high school classmates at the beginning, which led to a kind of resistance, and naturally I couldn't fit in with them.

As you come into contact with more and more people, as you grow older and more mature, it is impossible for you to change yourself even if you are told the mind of 30 years old, because people have to grow up in order to mature and have confidence in themselves.