How can we be more open minded? How can people be open minded???

Change the environment and wash your mind.

Gain calmly, lose indifferently, strive for its inevitability, and go with the flow. This sentence comes from Buddhism.

Interpretation: 1. Gain the frank (Tai) Ran: To obtain things, you must be righteous and bright, take them in a proper way, do not harm others and benefit yourself, and have a clear conscience.

2. Indifferent loss: There must be gains and losses, we must look down on gains and losses, don't be complacent for gains, and don't be angry about losses.

The above two can also be called "do not have to suffer from gains and losses", to treat gains and losses with a normal heart, to reduce the desire and pursuit of external objects too persistent, to improve their own realm.

3. Fight for its inevitability: It means that I can only adhere to the inevitable reason, that is to say, the only thing that can make the scattered potato judgment change my argument and insistence is the truth, not strong argument, not unreasonable argument, and should be upright, reasonable and upright, and unreasonable to admit, and listen to the truth with an open mind.

4. Go with the flow: It means that all things have their own laws of development, and things in the world cannot be forced. In many cases, it is up to people to do things, and it is up to heaven to do things. For the experience and results of life, we must face it with a clear mood and always have a normal heart.

In fact, these four sentences are all about how people should have inner cultivation and how to better adjust themselves in the face of the complex external world.

There is no road that cannot be taken, only people who can't figure it out. Flowers will fall, and clouds will disperse. After the pain, increase a calmness, stupidity, increase the wisdom of the fight, cry, add a quiet, laugh, increase open-mindedness.

There are no distracting thoughts in the heart, compassion is in the heart, and it is over. If you look far, your heart will be wider. — Foreword

1. Divert attention

When we fall into an obsession, we often fall into it and can't extricate ourselves. At this time, what we need to do is to divert our attention and keep ourselves busy so that we have no time for anything else. To a certain extent, this can alleviate the obsession with something.

2. Expand your social circle

has been in his fixed range of social circles, it is easy to let himself fall into it, his vision is limited, he can't let go of this obsession, and he is even more reluctant to let go. However. Expanding one's social scope can make oneself realize the narrowness of one's current vision, help oneself to recognize more and better friends, arouse one's expectations for life, unconsciously force oneself to cheer up, and let one's obsession gradually reduce.

3. Let nature ** itself

Sometimes you can go out and see the outside nature. Green plants will make your mood happy and make you unconsciously relax. In such an environment, you can allow yourself to reflect on your obsession and measure yourself.

This will not only open my mind, but also make me understand that I have been stuck in this obsession, and in the end I still have nothing. However, looking at everything beautiful around you, do you really want to stay in this obsession all the time? Obviously, nature is unwilling.

It is not so much to use the power of nature to relieve or even save the sakura itself, but to give yourself a new and beautiful environment and self-reflection. After all, the most important thing to overcome obsession is to depend on yourself.

Life is a journey forward, who has seen a few more scenery on the way forward, who has taken a few more steps on the bumpy road, these are the values of living in the world. — Ending

1. Learn to respect people.

We must truly realize that human beings are the most precious in the world, and that every human life is equal, priceless, and there is no distinction between high and low. Only based on this understanding can we fundamentally understand the meaning of fairness, and can we respect, understand, and help people.

You must know that a person who cannot even correctly understand the meaning of human beings, and who self-righteously divides people into three, six, nine, and so on, cannot be open-minded and open-minded.

2. Adhere to lofty life goals.

Everyone has their own goals in life, but some people just talk about it, or even think about it, and don't really implement it in action, so they are still obscene and trivial, and the little family is full of anger. Only with a big goal in mind can we strive to go high and compete with different trivial things. The so-called people who do big things are not confined to small sections, this is the truth.

The way to adhere to the lofty goal of life is: "I am three times a day and my body", in fact, it is enough to wake up.

3. Improve the sense of responsibility.

When a person comes into this world, he has a certain responsibility in himself. Only by living with a serious and responsible attitude can we get the rewards that life gives. Doing a good job with a responsible attitude is not only a manifestation of one's own ability, but also a way to win the respect of others, achieve career success, and achieve higher life goals.

If we treat our family responsibly, we will be able to do our best and improve the quality of life of our family. The way to improve the sense of responsibility is to do things well, count one thing well, and do not give up if you don't do it well; If you can't do it for the time being, you can do it later, but you must not do it.

4. Don't care about immediate gains and losses.

The ancients had a saying that "if you lose your horse, you will not know that it is not a blessing", you must know that the loss in the present may be the reward in the future. What's more, the situation of any individual is always less than the above, and more than the bottom. The ratio is not enough to forge ahead, and the ratio is more than enough to help others.

Therefore, when encountering problems, we should not always start from personal interests, but should consider more from the standpoint of others. I figured it out, I am relaxed, everyone is relaxed. Therefore, there is a sense of gratitude and a sense of helping others.

5. Learn materialist dialectics well and improve your ability to understand things.

Only by truly understanding the grandeur of the universe, the importance of others, the insignificance of individuals, and the meager face. In order to truly have the elegance of accommodating people.

6. Learn logic well and improve your ability to induct, analyze and reason about things. There are many trivial things that are inevitable in human life, and no one can avoid them. But the key lies in whether we can distinguish right from wrong, distinguish priorities, grasp the main points, and not get entangled in complicated and trivial matters.

Exercise or reading, there is always one on the way for body and soul. It's okay to go out for a walk.

It would be nice to do more now.