I can t figure out why he doesn t take the initiative, I don t take the initiative for Sasa, he does

This has to do with personality. It doesn't matter if I love you or not.

And aren't women advocating for equality between men and women now? Why do men have to take the initiative? If he doesn't take the initiative, you can take the initiative.

Hello, due to the complexity of the question you are talking about, and the fact that the question you are talking about is not very specific, we can't be more specific for you now!

If the average man does not take the initiative, 80% of them do not like each other. Whether your boyfriend loves you or not, I think only you know better than we do, but now you are in a kind of spectatorship, the authorities are fascinated by a kind of grandeur, if you can now try to put yourself in the shoes of a bystander according to your own multiple contacts, I think you will understand.

Maybe you already know the answer by now, but because you love each other too much, you can't accept it.

Finally, I wish you a speedy search for the answer you are looking for!

Oh, I'm like this too, I don't like to take the initiative... I'm male and currently single because I don't take the initiative.

He is a snake and is a cold-blooded animal.

Zhou Xingxing said: One rice raises a hundred kinds of people.

Whether your friend is introverted or more delicate, this kind of person is generally more subtle, but at least you can feel what he means to you, but there is no shame, please don't give too many tests, so as not to miss the happiness of everyone uncomfortable.

Summary. A perfunctory attitude, irresponsible behavior, may be idle and bored and treat you as a toy.

I don't take the initiative for Sa, he doesn't take the initiative.

Hello, can you elaborate on the scene?

Are you a boy or a girl?

Schoolgirl. But I asked, and people agreed, every time I chatted, I talked about him, I ignored the chat, and he didn't talk.

Boys who don't take the initiative don't have a strong sense of responsibility.

And most of the boys are interested in girls, so they will take the initiative to catch up.

In this case, it is likely to despise you.

Has this guy and you established a boyfriend and girlfriend?

Spare tire, you know.

A perfunctory attitude, irresponsible behavior, may be idle and bored and treat you as a toy.

Words that truly love you will not ignore your feelings.

Either he has a personality problem, and such a boy is not worth your dedication to him.

How much you like him.

It's just good work, nothing else.

What do you do?

Teacher, he has a high degree of education, a good job, and he is okay, and he was introduced together, saying that he is introverted, so let me contact more.

Do you like him handsome? Charismatic?

If you're not particularly excited, you don't have to be so entangled.

Life is full of encounters.

But I don't have it at the moment, thinking about getting along, mainly my friend opens, he also opens, I close him and he closes.

What does it mean to open a friend?

Circle of friends?

Summary. Good evening, dear, this is probably because he is also a shy and passive person, he should be afraid of taking the initiative and being rejected by you or afraid of making you feel offended.

I don't take the initiative for Sa, he doesn't take the initiative.

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Good evening, dear, this is probably because he is also a shy and passive person, he should be afraid of taking the initiative and being rejected by you or afraid of making you feel offended.

What is the situation?

The specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Set privacy, circle of friends, all I put visible, and the back is set to be visible for three days, my girl.

What is your current situation?

Boyfriend and girlfriend are still in the ambiguous stage.

Or is it some other relationship? Friend? Schoolmate? Colleague?

Just introduced, I took the initiative and he took the initiative, you met on a blind date, right?

What does it mean to be proactive? You send him a message and he doesn't reply, right?

Hello, are you still there? Still have questions

I met on a blind date, and he only replied when I sent a message.

There's a good chance he doesn't think it's appropriate.

We did him, and he didn't refuse.

What do you ask him? What did he say?

I said that we are suitable, even if it is not suitable, it is okay to be friends, people say that he comes and then make an appointment, I say that it means to talk? He said it was.

Have you met?

I've seen it three times.

Are you in a different place now?

Maybe it's because you don't have a lot of contact with you right now, and he doesn't know you very well, and he doesn't know you very much, so he's not enthusiastic enough.

Summary. In fact, the development of the relationship is all mutual, and if one party is active and one is passive, there is no need to continue.

He's not proactive, is it necessary to continue to contact him?

In fact, the development of the relationship is all mutual, and if one party is active and one is passive, there is no need to continue.

He didn't take the initiative or refuse, because he didn't want to bear the name of a ruthless and unrighteous person.

He was trying to get the woman to open his mouth.

So in this case, I recommend separating as soon as possible.

He never contacted me on the Internet, but he was very enthusiastic about me in reality.

Is time not allowed on the network?

Is it because you're busy with work?

He's not very busy at work.

Is that because it's inconvenient?

So how do you feel that you don't care much? Is it?

If he doesn't usually care much about you, he will treat you as a person.

Right. That's the kind of person who doesn't care about your feelings.

Teacher, I've decided, let you enlighten me.

In this case, he is because he does not know to cherish, and one day you let go, he will know what cherishing is.

He's now enjoying your kindness to him.

I don't know what to do for you.

Such people are like this now, and they will continue to be like this, and this is called machismo.

A machismo will be very egoistic and self-righteous and will never listen to other people's opinions.

1 All I used to be like this, in many ways more hypocritical, only to find out later that it is really unnecessary, boys have to be generous, can't take too much into account, like this situation is generally more difficult to change, but it is not a big difficulty, intentions + methods are still very reliable.

I'll take myself as an example, I used to be very shy in front of girls, my girlfriend is more active, generous, sometimes like a boy, after we were together, she kept changing me, pulling me out to play crazy, after half a year, I found that I had changed a lot.

Since you both want to be together, it's okay for you to take the initiative, and it is very effective to slowly change him after being together, because you can't change him if you don't approach him as a person like him. It's okay to go out often, go out to dinner, watch movies, go to parties, it's okay to go out for a long time, and you will find that he will change, you can clearly put forward his shortcomings, accompany him to change, it's definitely okay. But then you will suffer a lot of grievances, you have to endure it.

Determine the relationship first, in the change, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative at the beginning, good luck!

Anyway, it's hard to change a person's personality, maybe he's shy and introverted. But it's too much to say that I won't care about you