When I see someone I admire, but they say they are married, what do you think emotionally

Updated on psychology 2024-04-03
58 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you're married, then you still don't have any ideas, after all, it's not a good thing for you or someone's family, maybe you'll still be strangers, after all, you've already said who you admire, that's going to be good.

    It's not very likely that you'll be together, but you can become friends, this doesn't affect, you can't affect a little bit of goodwill, because of family reasons, it's impossible to get along, you can communicate and communicate, there is no problem with this, you can be a good friend.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Emotionally, it's called unrequited love; From the point of view of action, if you continue to pursue, it is called digging the foot of the wall. There is no grass at the end of the world, and it is recommended to find it again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Seeing an appreciative person, but the person himself married ......

    From an emotional point of view, it may be more regrettable, and it is not easy to see a person you admire, but someone else is already married, in addition to regret, it may be more helpless.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There will definitely be some feelings of loss emotionally, because you have met the right person, but the time is not right, a good relationship needs the right time and place, and you need to meet the right person at the right time, if this is the case, then you can only choose to put this emotion in your heart and slowly let go of the silent blessing of choice, and re-chase your happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better for married people not to date, let alone worry, because it's not good for themselves and each other, and it's destined to have no good results, and everyone will be very miserable in the end. Don't let yourself be too miserable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's it, I think you should give up emotionally, because you just appreciate this person, but you don't like this person, so you should still get along with the other person, and it's okay to get along in the name of a good friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I saw someone I admired, but they said that they were married, and since he was married, there was no need to pursue her anymore, just keep this love in my heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you must only observe her silently from a distance, and do not have any further contact with her. Because she is already married, you will cause her a lot of trouble.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He's not your guy, just a good friend!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you see an appreciative person, then you can only contact her from the perspective of appreciation, after all, everyone else is already married.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since the other person is married, don't show whatever you think.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since everyone is married, don't dwell on it too much, otherwise it won't be good for anyone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's better to break up if you don't like it, how to say it? If you are not his ideal type, at this time you are in love with him, it is all harm, he is delayed, and sometimes he is embarrassed to refuse you, but he must be dissatisfied in his heart, he wants to find a spare tire, he wants to find a better person, a better No. 1, a better home, now you know, in fact, sometimes you chase him is to hurt him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you see someone who you admire, but they say that they are married, you can only comfort yourself emotionally, and you can meet better people in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, divert attention. There are more excellent girls who are worthy of your appreciation, don't work married women.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Improve yourself, the next person to appreciate may not appear at any time, feelings go with the flow, don't bother if you're married!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, it's looking for the next one, and there's no grass at the end of the world, right?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you get married, you should keep to yourself, you also know that you meet someone you like, and you don't know how many you will meet in your life? Since he chose to get married, his current husband must have a reason why he is worth marrying, so why bother to think about the whereabouts of a person who should not be married? Your current life may make you feel very bland, but blandness is true, and only in the blandness can you experience happiness and live your current life well.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This person should keep his family and be friends with the person he likes, but not because he is married, and he has responsibilities.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he doesn't like his current wife, divorce it, and it's a disservice to both of them to be reluctantly together!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That shouldn't be, since you choose the other party, you have to think about the other party.

    You also have to think about yourself, so that you are a responsible person.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are so many people and things that I like, it's impossible to get them all back!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Remember that "a married man (woman) is the money in the wallet of the other half, and it will always belong to him or her with whom you spend your life".

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Remember that you are married.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it's a responsible person, you know what to do. Correspondingly, an empathetic person will not have this annoyance.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Love his own wife single-mindedly, don't think about it!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In this case, you must cherish your current marriage, this is the most important thing, even if you meet what you like, then at this time you must control your mentality, you can't have such thoughts, let alone such an act, this is a responsibility for your current family, this is your own responsibility and responsibility.

    Everyone may have their own other side, so we can't be greedy to expect every emotion, every one they want, but we must focus on reality, for us only if we take our own responsibility, we are responsible for ourselves.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The clothes are not as good as the new, the people are not as good as the old, what if you appreciate it, there are more excellent people in the world, do you want to see one and love one, in the end, you must have lost the watermelon and picked up the sesame seeds. So grasp the happiness of the moment, cherish what you already have, keep your distance from those who appreciate it, and don't get carried away for a while and do things that you regret.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    People must know how to be content, can not see a love one, no matter how good the bunting outside, it is not as good as the red flag at home, cherish the happiness of the moment, let yourself be a responsible person, otherwise you will have nothing in the end.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is a word called liking the new and hating the old, and after a long time, the feelings will fade, and it is normal to meet someone you like. When Cao Dewang, the glass king, also met a confidante when he was young, and he liked it very much, but his wife was very good and impeccable. For the sake of the children and the family, he chose to let go, this is wisdom.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Looking for a girlfriend is like choosing your own tree in the forest, since you have chosen it, then leave the forest, don't look at other girls with the mentality of choosing a mate. If you are unsettled, you will always come across something you like! In The Little Prince, the Little Prince still thinks that the rose on his planet is the most beautiful and loves it the most!

    So love is not a bargain, nor a transaction, but because of love itself!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everyone will never love only one person in their life, and if they meet it late, they will have no fate. It is certainly a brave act to dare to pursue the love in your heart, but a man who dares to let go and has the courage to be responsible is even more worthy of admiration! Life is very long, you will meet a lot of people, no one knows which one they like the most or not, you can't see one love one and throw one another, and so on!

    I think that many times, choosing the responsibility you should bear is more important than choosing the so-called love!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There will be many people to admire in a person's life, but there is only one lover. People should know to be grateful, and I have met people I admire in the two years since I got married. But that feeling has been limited to admiring his talent, and there is no idea of going out of the ordinary.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think, follow your heart. If you have a pillow person in your heart, then you will brush away the person in front of you like a cloud of smoke; If you think that the person in front of you is the right person, then make it clear to the people around you, although you will still be hurt, you will also be understood.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I have been with my husband for more than fifteen years, and in these fifteen years, I have seen many men who are taller, humorous, handsome, handsome, and more intelligent than my husband. I would like to see more eye-catching and knowledgeable guys in the circle, and I will also hope that I can perform so "well". But that's all there is to it, just like watching a TV show, I have no interest in learning about their joys and sorrows, nor do I care about their lives, and I can't even remember their names and faces when I look back.

    My husband and I are different, I love him, and this love allows us to share each other's joys and sorrows, and stand firmly together in the face of the luck and disaster of life. Therefore, appreciation is appreciation, since there is a lover, it is good to love him, it is not easy to win a person's heart, don't hurt him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    After going through the process of getting to know each other, understanding each other, and trusting each other, I feel that it is really too difficult to give up an old relationship. I can't help but feel horrified at the thought that losing someone and it takes me a lot of time and energy to reconnect with another person. This is equivalent to taking an annual salary of 300,000 yuan, ranking in the management position, and the future is bright, as a result, a broken start-up company, the registered capital does not exceed 1 million, and I am promised an annual salary of 1 million, and I will resign immediately.

    How can there be so much true love in the world, and even if there is, it depends on the joint efforts of two people, so don't dream.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then it's good to appreciate it, don't fall in love with him, and cherish your current lover.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    People must have self-discipline and already have a lover, so they must take into account their own identity, and it is not a good thing to fall in love.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There is a difference between a lover and an appreciative person, a lover is a person who wants to live a lifetime, and an appreciative person just worships him in his heart.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If a man meets someone he appreciates more, I think he should also be with his lover, and he should not like the new and hate the old like this.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You still have to recognize the reality, since you have a lover, you have to concentrate on her, maybe there are many people who are better than her, but she is unique, and she only loves you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't be delusional! Who in life wouldn't meet someone they admire? If you appreciate one, will you divide one? Wandering?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Feelings are in no particular order, but marriage is in equal order. The heart is your own, and you can't be clearer about who you have feelings for. But marriage is first-come, first-served, and it is even clearer in black and white.

    But you can't like someone else as easily, because marriage is not child's play. In my opinion, whether it is love or marriage, as long as there is still a little affection between the two, don't say separation easily. Otherwise, leaving the new relationship that started over with affection will also stumble inside.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Like is not necessarily owned, and if you are more possessive, it is an insult to like the word. Even if you get it, you'll still change it to the next one, sober up.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Deal with your emotional problems rationally, since you are married, you should take on the responsibility of the family, you can't deal with the problem emotionally, like that person, I hope he (she) is doing well. If you really do something out of the ordinary and hurt your family, you will also hurt her, I think, this is not what you want to see.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Isn't there a relationship between you and your original partner? Didn't you love each other to be together? Forgot the original love?? Think about it ...

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    If you like another person, it means that you don't like your wife. Gone.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Hide it in your heart, you're already married, so don't express it, just like it silently.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Quickly forget about this person, cut off from her and don't contact her again, if you hesitate, you'll be in trouble, and when you keep interrupting, you will suffer from it.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Like is not the same as love, let's love your wife well.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Then you pretend to quarrel with your wife and divorce him.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    As long as your wife loves you, cares about you, and cares about your family, then you don't have to be sorry for her and the children.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Didn't you like your wife so much before you got married? It's just fresh!! You're still not mature enough.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Let's think more about your family.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Don't want your own family?

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    I don't think you listened to lectures when you were in school.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Eating from the bowl and looking at the pot.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    How can you be like this, irresponsible, think about it yourself,

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