The confusion of new high school students, the problems faced by high school students

It's obviously a lot of thinking, but it's a good thing, it's better than not wanting anything at all, but when the ability is not enough to answer your own questions, these annoying questions will bring a lot of unnecessary trouble, and children with poor psychological quality may drill the horns of the bull and lead to serious consequences, so I recommend diverting attention and thinking about the future. For example, what kind of work will you do, what kind of people you want to make friends with, what kind of life will you have in college, what roommates you will meet, whether you want to have a girlfriend in college, and what kind of ...... your girlfriend will look forThere are many more things to think about and pay attention to. Don't put too much pressure on you because of family reasons, because high grades and intellectual curiosity have nothing in common.

If you want to get a high score, you will have to lose more reading time to review, and if you want to satisfy your intellectual curiosity, you will have to sacrifice a lot of revision time, don't you think? I think if you want to be idle, it is more practical to make a life plan, three years, five years, ten years, twenty years, what goals you want to achieve after these years, these things will be more useful for your future life.

Hehe, I think that if you do anything with the mentality of losing, you will die and be reborn.

When I was in junior high school, I didn't think about high grades, but I was among the top few in school because of my own interests, and I never cared what I was studying for. It's you who think about the score too much. Just do your best and bring up your interests.

Don't care about your score, look at your ranking, it's good to improve, don't compare with others, know that you're just yourself, and your path is different. If you have a thirst for knowledge, you will be interested, and you will feel that learning is a happy thing!

Believe in yourself.

It's normal to encounter this kind of problem, I am also a student, sometimes I will be confused, sometimes there is no need to take the score too seriously, to integrate yourself into the study, you will always find something interesting, and work towards your interests and goals. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't keep thinking about getting a high score in your head, which will put a lot of pressure on yourself. A high score does not necessarily contradict happiness, happiness is a state of mind, not something that can be determined by some objective material, adjust yourself well, you will understand and do better!

1.Too much homework to finish.

High school has a lot of homework and homework, and students will inevitably have some difficulty completing it, and they will be more or less irritable emotionally, so what you need to do at this time is not to bury your head in hard work or give up on yourself, but to calm down and take out 5-10 minutes before recess or self-study. Organize your desk first to make your thoughts clearer, and then clean up your bad mood. You have to understand that it is more important to learn thoroughly than to simply complete the task; When you focus on learning and thinking, you are already the best version of yourself, there is no need to compare with others, understand this truth, in order not to be disturbed by all kinds of ideas.

After that, write the task, and then think about the order and degree of the task, for the order of the task, you should consider the harvest of the task, but also consider the teacher's reaction if you do not complete the task. In this way, will your emotions be eased a lot?

2.I didn't do well in the exam, and I was anxious.

Students' test anxiety is reflected in the excessive emphasis on test scores, and in the final analysis, it is anxiety about their future prospects. Only by reducing the psychological burden and learning burden can we reduce the pressure on learning and spirit, and can we grow up healthily and happily.

There are several strategies you can try to ease and eliminate anxiety:

Choose a target motivation level that suits you, too strong or too weak motivation level can easily cause yourself to experience failure and lead to psychological stress.

Before the exam, prepare for the knowledge and countermeasures and psychological preparation to deal with the unexpected events of the exam.

You may wish to adopt it"Extreme thinking"Imagine the worst possible outcome of the event you're anxious about. You will find that the status quo is still worth optimism.

The most common problem for high school students is emotional breakdown, because the learning atmosphere in high school is very tense, and some students may not be able to keep up with this tense learning atmosphere, so there will be a phenomenon of mental breakdown. At this time, parents and teachers should also do more ideological work for their children, so that children know how to get out of this nervous emotion. Parents usually don't always ask about their children's grades, and don't always take their children, and blame their children's positioning after their grades are poor, which may make children feel very uncomfortable and make children particularly nervous.

The road is deep, and the problems faced tell the grandchildren about the problems they face, such as writing homework. And when I was in high school, I had a lot of courses, and I was very nervous, and I faced it every day. There are a lot of homework in each subject, so some questions are very difficult to catch up with when writing homework, you have to think carefully, and it is very stressful for high school students to do a good job in each subject.

Because. The homework in each lesson must be completed according to the requirements, because the time is tight, so high school students face many problems, but we must popularize the difficulties of each subject to complete the homework of each subject.

The problem faced by high school students is that the pressure of studying is very high, and if you want to get into a good university, you must be very well prepared.

High school is very hard, I understand your confusion and confusion, but because we have all experienced the high school years, and we also know the importance of that era, when you are a high school student, to be honest, what you need most is to stabilize your academic performance, your grades determine your confidence, the college entrance examination is a good smooth road to the future, at least it will not make you experience more difficult times than the college entrance examination after work, it is normal to study and not remember, calm yourself down, repeat more, practice more, choose a college, set a goal You'll be thankful for your high school efforts in the future.

The problems that high school students face are, uh, heavy homework and courses, and the pressure to get into college.

That's a lot of it, in fact, high school is very contradictory, there are expectations for college and the pressure of high school learning, such as a question that is wrong again and again, it will slowly reach a breaking point, and watching others make a question that you can't do for half a day is also another person's failure.

I've personally had this experience many times.

The first is the improvement of learning methods.

The second is a change in memory and way of thinking.

There is also the regularity of work and rest time, and how to adjust the biological clock.

Finally, of course, perseverance and a belief in one's beliefs.

In fact, many parents and teachers have a misconception that you should study hard in high school and be admitted to the ideal university. Children of this age, who are often overlooked, are an important stage in the formation of a worldview. Think about it, if a child only learns well and ignores other aspects, is this a complete person?

Haven't you often seen reports like this, some college students have personality problems, but in fact, they are all problems that need everyone's attention.

1. College entrance examination. 2. There are many assignments.

3. Initial experience of interpersonal relationships.

4. Preliminary understanding of social pressure.

High school freshmen are faced with the following questions: 1. How to deal with the relationship between new classmates in the new environment. 2. How to do a good job of teaching interaction with new teachers. 3. How to do a good job in the learning connection between junior high school and high school. 3. Some new students who leave home for the first time still have to face the ability to live independently.

I think I'm in a similar situation to you, but I've graduated ......

Actually, your mother is right, the biggest enemy of people should be ourselves, we really shouldn't be too hard on ourselves, as long as we do our best, there should be no regrets.

Don't be jealous of those people, some people may be better than you now, but who knows when they reach their third year of high school? In the third year of high school, everything is possible, and there was one in our class who was not very good, and he was in the top 50 of the whole grade in the college entrance examination

At the beginning of the second year of high school, you should give yourself a goal, the goal is the kind that is not difficult but requires a certain amount of effort to obtain, which will be better. If you have questions, you must take the initiative to ask, don't be afraid, like me, I almost don't dare to ask questions in my first year of high school, so my math and physics are not good. I also dragged my feet in the college entrance examination.

I can understand your feelings, because I am also very anxious at this time of your time, and I am worried about all kinds of things as a whole. I feel that I am inferior to others, and I am really useless. Sometimes there are even some very extreme ideas, such as wanting to transfer schools.

But then I think people will slowly look away, and when you make progress again and again, I think it's a very proud thing.

Maybe you're still far from those great gods, but what does it matter? Everyone's goal in life is different, so we must do what we can!!

Originally, I also wanted to be admitted to the university, and I felt that if I didn't get the book, it would mean that I didn't get into the university. But now because of the unsatisfactory performance in the college entrance examination, I didn't get to the main line, and then I cried all day on the day I knew the results. But the next day, I also wanted to open it, and I thought that there would be many good schools in the second A.

In this journey of life and future, university is like a means of transportation, some people take planes, some people take trains, and some people walk, but the way to go is different! So, I decided to work hard in college and be a Jedi to fight back.

Hope I can help you This is my personal opinion, share it with you!

If you can't make a big tree, make a small grass. Children, as long as you do your best, when you grow up, you will understand that life is not only about academic performance, nor is it only about the college entrance examination. Many people with good grades or even good universities still end up doing nothing, on the contrary, some people who may not have good grades in normal times end up being very promising.

If you don't believe me, ask your mother, and ask them if there was such a situation among their classmates? I am born to be useful, don't be arrogant, be a dignified, responsible, positive and optimistic good teenager!

You can have these confusions, which means that you have grown up a lot. In the good youth, you can only catch up, and the road of life is very long, going to college is just one of them, you just keep moving forward. Don't leave regrets in the years of youth, and give full play.

In fact, it is normal not to know what to do, because this is what we need to think about in every moment.

What you are facing now is only an academic problem, in fact, you can ask a lot of people who have worked for two or three years, or those who are more qualified, no matter how good the diploma is, it is just a stepping stone, the important thing is what you have learned.

As for your academic problems, I think there is an example that can encourage you very well, I know a friend, he is from Jiangsu, in 2006, he scored 397 points, you can check the total score and the score of each subject at that time, you will understand that this score is simply unsightly, he did not go to high school later, after several twists and turns, he has dropped out of school twice, that is, there is no school to ask him, and then I want to tell you that he is now studying in a double degree in the world's top 20 universities, and he is about to graduate.

I didn't tell you about the process in between, it doesn't matter to you, because everyone's circumstances and encounters are different, and the things to change are different, and no one can tell you, so no one can tell you what you should and should not do, and if one day you know what you should and should not do, then you have changed.

Secondly, I also want to tell you one thing through this story, life is not a big deal except for life and death, as long as you want to, you really want to, many things have many roads, and there will always be the end you want. You might as well think about it, my friend, he was in a much worse situation than you was at that time, he couldn't even go to high school, but now he's where he wants to go. And you, far better than him, think about it, life is constant thinking, come on!

You will make it!

As long as you have a dream in your heart, everyone makes way for you.

Don't be confused, when you are confused, look at Yilin or something, cheer yourself up, or go out to climb the mountain or something.

Don't always blame the school, as long as you're willing to learn, it's not a big deal.

Don't be discouraged in yourself, we still have a long, long way to go.

If you're not mistaken, it's supposed to be a girl, don't be like this, be a sunny woman.

Love yourself, love life.

It is recommended that you go and check out the dragon cherry blossom and you will find that you can.

I hope that the landlord will do well and meet every opportunity and challenge without regrets.

Hello, I think a little experience of mine may be able to help you, you have just entered the second year of high school, whether it is the difficulty or breadth of the knowledge you have learned, there is no reason for you to be out of reach, the college entrance examination, in fact, is not as accessible as you imagined, it is an end point to some extent, you need to accumulate bit by bit, step by step to complete each process, don't always think about the ultimate goal, sometimes, this invisible pressure will have you ***, relax your mind, focus on the present!

In high school, it is normal for me to ask questions to the teacher, which is a shortcut, after all, the teacher has processed the knowledge he has learned by himself, which is more understandable, so in the face of more boring knowledge, why not always humbly ask for advice? It's just that you have to be responsible for yourself, humble attitude, and this is about your future, don't care if your school is ordinary, care about other people's eyes, as long as you seriously follow your own path, everything will be fine, and when you succeed, you will feel that these efforts are worth it!