My girlfriend wanted to advance 80,000 dowry to save her father, but she was blocked by her boyfrien

My girlfriend wanted to advance 80,000 bride price to save her father, but she was blocked by her boyfriend, and her 5-year relationship must be more than 80,000 yuan. There are two reasons why her boyfriend is unwilling to pay money, the first is that her boyfriend has a poor character, and he sees that his girlfriend's family has a heavy burden, so he blocks his girlfriend, and secondly, there are other reasons why his boyfriend is unwilling to pay anymore.

A five-year relationship is definitely worth 80,000 yuan. But this approach of the boyfriend is really incomprehensible. And I feel that my boyfriend's approach is particularly selfish.

It's worth it, but before you get married, you want to ask for money, which is unreasonable.

I think it's worth it, but the man may really not be able to afford this money, so he can only use the method of blackmailing, if there is money, it must be more important than money.

Yes. For some people, feelings are not as important as money, and mentioning money will hurt feelings.

If the relationship is really deep, it can't be measured by money, his boyfriend feels that the relationship with her is estimated to be not deep, in order to save his father to borrow money from her boyfriend, in fact, if there is one, it should also be given to her, and it should not be said that it is an advance of bride price, you can directly ask your boyfriend to borrow some money.

I think this situation still depends on people, not everyone is like this boyfriend, I think money is more important than life, there are still many boyfriends who are willing to pay this money, but it's a good thing not to see a person clearly before getting married.

It's not that it's not worth 80,000, because the boyfriend may feel that he took 80,000 bride price without any certificate, if the two don't get together in the end, what will happen to this money.

I think five years of emotion is worth 80,000, but the girlfriend's way is wrong, and it may be that the man is not sincere enough.

took 80,000 yuan and got married and carried hundreds of thousands of foreign debts, if the roles were reversed, would you spray? A bunch of double standard deaths