I want to give up my girlfriend, and my girlfriend who has been talking for 7 years wants to abandon

Updated on society 2024-04-18
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Oh, and this has happened to many people. There's always a reason why your family doesn't like your girlfriend! Marriage is not just a matter for the two of you, it will involve both families.

    Imagine a marriage without the blessing of your family, would you be happy? It's still a little lacking! But just because of this, giving up your own happiness, if you really like each other, it will be a lifetime of regret!

    Actually, if I were in your situation, I would definitely be helpless, on the one hand, I raised my parents, and on the other hand, my dear girlfriend, neither of whom I wanted to throw away, and I thought it would be better not to give up. After all, she is with you for the rest of your life! If you can't get the understanding of your parents, you might as well avoid it, and treat it as a trip, of course, you can't go too far!

    It's a bit of a runaway, and parents will eventually accept it because they feel sorry for their children. However, be cautious! Pay attention to moderation, and it shouldn't be a big problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think I should listen to my parents.

    I've been doing it all the time, and I've found that they can see things that we can't see clearly, and there must be a reason for them to object, and if it's really vexatious, you won't be so difficult to do.

    The idea of parents is very important, after all, marriage is not only a matter of the two of you, it is a matter of two families, even if you get together now, there will be a knot in the future, you don't want to be a sandwich biscuit, you are in a dilemma.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Family Condition Issues?? Then it's up to you, if it's the economic conditions... It's very easy to do.,,Don't you have to work hard to make money.,,What do you care about if you have money.,It's impossible for parents to really commit suicide when they're tough.,How can there be such boring parents.,Just angry.。。。 You'll understand later... It's hard to say about women.,The women who are in love are all crazy...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Come on, buddy, if you don't have the mental and physical preparation for a protracted war with your family for eight years or even longer, then give up on her. Long pain is not as good as short pain, and there are many regrets in life, and this one is not bad.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What's the use of being sad.

    Are you going to marry her or marry someone in your family.

    Is she with you for a lifetime or your parents with you for a lifetime.

    Think for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Listen to your mother! Just take this as a beautiful regret! After many years, when you talk about it, it will be forever beautiful, this is your wealth, it belongs to you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why, is there any reason why the family does not agree?

    Threats are very irrational and naïve, what death can solve, I don't understand what you are thinking

    Communicate with the family, tell her good family, and slowly integrate into it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, I think it's funny what you said. Really, do you think someone can control you? Unless you don't want to do something, because in this world, no one can control what you do except yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You separate from your girlfriend for a while, and when you persuade your family, you are saying, you can't do without your mother!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as you love each other.

    No obstacle can stop it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Clean up your mood, take care of your body, and then do a job within your ability, in this world, we are not looking for love, but love is coming to us, fate comes and you can't escape, and you can't keep it when fate is exhausted. Let it be, since she has chosen, it means that she is well thought out, respecting her choice is the only thing you can do, if you try to keep it, it will become begging, even the last bit of beauty is gone, at least now you still have a lot of good memories, those once happy fragments, worthy of your lifetime collection.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's best to choose to forget her, because after so many years of affection, let go of it, that means she is ruthless.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find your fault first, and then go to her to sincerely apologize and redeem it, if she doesn't accept it, it means that you don't recognize your mistakes, since it's been a 7-year relationship, don't give up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's actually very simple, you can prepare a romantic proposal, maybe your girlfriend will leave you because you can't give her a future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Tell your girlfriend what you think, saying that you can't rest assured of the other party at all, and if the other party insists on breaking up with you, then you should let go.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    She is destined not to be your other half, and why would you have been in a relationship with a woman for seven years and have not yet married, which is one of the reasons why she wants to leave you, you should let go of the past and start a new life, and don't bother with this woman abandoning you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No matter how unwilling you are, you have to accept the facts, constantly cheer yourself up in your heart, and tell yourself that you will always go away if you don't belong to yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then work hard to make yourself a better person, and then go back to your girlfriend, after all, the 7-year relationship is indeed very deep.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you have to find out the crux of the problem, it's been 7 years, you should propose to your girlfriend, she can't see hope, and she will naturally leave you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since he is unwilling, he has to chase his girlfriend back. The relationship between you is relatively deep, and it must be recoverable.

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