How should I deal with the alienation of friends of the opposite sex?

I think that in the face of the estrangement of friends of the opposite sex, first correct your own attitude, grasp the balance between men and women, and then communicate and explain positively, if the result is still irreversible, then just follow the fate, don't suffer too much from gains and losses.

Your positive face of the estrangement of friends, don't have ideological baggage, friends of the opposite sex, you treat him as a good friend, not necessarily the same as him, so you may have other small factors hidden in you, and secondly, he takes the initiative to distance himself may be because he can't see something he wants to expect in you or because of other factors. Finally, I hope you don't worry too much, after all, everyone has their own life circle. Wouldn't it be better to face life positively?

The moon is cloudy and sunny, people have joys and sorrows, and people gather and disperse. There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side. There are many reasons for the estrangement of friends of the opposite sex:

Sometimes the relationship is alienated due to misunderstanding between the two parties, sometimes the other party has a bad opinion of themselves and stays away from themselves, sometimes they are getting along with each other, they are not used to the words and deeds of the other party, and unconsciously conflict with the other party's words, causing the other party to alienate themselves, but it doesn't matter, if there is a fate, we will see each other, if there is no fate, there is no need to miss, put the mentality flat, the past has become forever, and the future and hope are looking forward!

Unilaterally or with each other's other half, friends of the opposite sex choose to be distant and cold in order to avoid suspicion and reduce trouble. At this time, if you feel that the other party is still a friend worth dating, or has common hobbies or interests, then the most important premise is to first get the understanding of your other half, explain clearly and explain the true relationship with friends of the opposite sex, and then communicate with the other party.

It's normal for friends of the opposite sex to be estranged. Because there are many passers-by in life. Some of them are just for a while in your life. So there's no need to worry too much. As long as you're good enough. There will be no shortage of friends.

Most of them will actively or passively want to abandon and be abandoned because of this or that, and for unexplained reasons, the so-called betrayal or betrayal, and there is nothing to figure it out: this is life. Learn to face it calmly and accept it silently.

Don't regret it, and don't give up on yourself! Because sometimes it's not who is right or wrong, but you can learn from it and help you meet the right person at the right time and place next time.

The first is that because of unilateral or mutual partners, in order to avoid suspicion and reduce trouble, they choose to be alienated and cold. The second is that some of the overtures may be misunderstood. If you are sometimes too frivolous and rude, first clear yourself, and then understand the other party's mind, then there is still the possibility of breaking the ice and warming up.

In the face of the estrangement of friends of the opposite sex, first correct your attitude, grasp the balance between men and women, and then communicate and explain positively, if the result is still irreparable, then just let it be! Don't get too caught up in the gains and losses.

There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, and there is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, and there are no people who cannot be separated. Time can often dilute everything, no matter how unforgettable the feelings, things have changed, people are no longer the same, and the past is like smoke after all. Between people, from acquaintance, acquaintance to sympathy, is a beautiful process, whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex friendship can last forever is fortunate, broken, faded, even if it is too entangled, in the end it is always uncomfortable for yourself, and even affect other originally intact relationships, it is even more worthless.

First of all, you need to let your friends of the opposite sex understand that the purpose of your relationship is only pure friendship, and don't let the other party misunderstand the purpose of your relationship.

Then he probably has the other half, and he is deliberately avoiding suspicion. In fact, it is normal for friends of the opposite sex to be estranged, and you think, if your other friend usually maintains a very close relationship with his friends of the opposite sex, you will definitely be unhappy, right, so just relax.

Friends are like that, there will always be people who are estranged from you, and there will be people who will continue to come and make friends with you.

Love seems to have always been defined as possessive and irreplaceable, so most of the attitudes in front of love are absolutely private, and they will always unconsciously put love at a high level, imagining it as the only pure place in a long life.

It is precisely because of these thoughts that they decide to keep their distance from their friends of the opposite sex, which is called "avoiding suspicion". But they ignore one point, friendship is also the only one in a long life, in ancient times, "death and life are broad, and Zicheng said; Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son" is meant to praise the love of friendship, not the love of men and women.

For my part, I would choose to keep in touch with my friend of the opposite sex, because he has been present in my life for too long.

Our two families live very close to each other, we have known each other since childhood, and it was he who has been with me throughout my youth and youth. He never disliked me when I was full of pimples, patiently helped me answer my questions when I didn't do well in exams, accompanied me to skip class, accompanied me to chase boys, passed notes and laughed, and even accompanied me through the first relationship ...... my life

I'm glad I met him before I met true love, and for me, his company is as warm as family. In fact, the feelings that real friends of the opposite sex and their partners bring to you are completely different, in love, you will quarrel because of the disagreement with each other, and the disagreement between friends just gives you an extra angle to look at the problem; Love will make you get carried away and want to do something crazy for each other, while friends will always be dull, and cherish it; Love is sweet first and then bitter, while friendship is bitter and then sweet; There will be a lot of demanding requirements in love, and friendship is about mutual tolerance.

Therefore, the existence of a true friend of the opposite sex will only make your world more complete.

Love him well, and then, also live well, and what keeps a person is never humble, but living well and independently. "So, you don't have to give up your friends of the opposite sex because you love him, you just have to be yourself.

And the person who really loves you and knows how to appreciate you will not mind you because of the existence of your friends of the opposite sex.

As long as you maintain an innocent friendship, since you are good friends, there is no need to be estranged, many boys or girls have their own friends of the opposite sex.

Best friends of the opposite sex? It's a good friend of a different gender...

It is impossible for people to live, except for Hongze, to be a wife, only to have friends who are staring at him.

It is said that there is pure friendship between men and women....Too little.

The vast majority of them are either obscuring or already beginning.

It depends on the person...

Is it worth believing....

Good luck!