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Fear of rejection, I believe that you are not good at rejecting others in life.
It may be related to some of your past experiences, and if you pay too much attention to your performance, you will become very sensitive.
In fact, everyone is the same, but they may know more about a certain field, and they must be confident in themselves.
What's the worst plan, at most, people say, why is this guy so stupid. That's how, everyone is stupid sometimes, just let yourself go.
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Let's help the people around you first!
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A little inferior! Just get over it!
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1.Analyze the time first, your feeling at the time was: everyone will definitely look at you, and then with a look of ridicule, and think to yourself, why is this person so stupid and stupid, he can't even lock his car well, and he is brain-dead (or other words you care about more)?
In fact, this is the worst outcome you can imagine, and no one will scold you harshly.
2.Analyze this psychology again, this kind of psychology has two situations, one is compulsive, for oneself to demand perfection, no matter what you do, you ask others not to find fault, especially others have to be satisfied, if others are satisfied, it doesn't matter if you are not satisfied. Second, low self-esteem, like to magnify mistakes, and then every mistake immediately thinks of the worst results, always thinking that others will viciously humiliate you at a certain time and look down on you.
3.Finally, analyze the causes and solutions, your psychology is formed for a long time, from this point you can associate your work and life are like this, indicating that this state really infiltrates your character, which originates from the fact that you have always had someone next to you in your previous life to point fingers at your behavior, and always feel that you are not doing well here or doing something wrong, it is likely that it is your parents, or other close people. If you are always affirmed, then you will not be so sensitive.
Suspicious of your own behavior, you love to ask for other people's opinions on everything, you can hardly make choices yourself, many people are like this, which requires you to contact more people who are very aggressive, they are informal, thick and detailed, so that you will learn a lot of good habits. In the future, you will make a brave decision on everything, even if it is not right, you must believe that you can bear it, the worst is like this, of course, you have to find someone to discuss big things.
4.Everyone has their own way, you don't have to imitate other people's ways, others don't have to praise your way every day, and you still have times when others don't like it, so tell yourself what you should care about and what you shouldn't care about, and you will be happier and more confident! Praise yourself if you have nothing to do, psychological hints are very important, tell yourself that those aspects of yours are very good and excellent, participate in group activities more, and after a while you will find that you can be so easy to stand out!
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Your characteristics: low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence.
Because I am not confident, I am always suspicious of what I am doing and hesitate. Your lack of self-confidence is causing you to ...... uneasyAlways do things with caution and fear of making mistakes.
What's the best way to do it? The best thing to do is to strengthen your self-confidence, force yourself to fit in, and open your heart to your friends. Gradually, you'll find out that you don't hate being around your friends that much, and you'll find the joy of being with everyone!
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If you're a woman, then what I didn't say is actually pretty good.
If you're a man, that's not going to work, at least find a society that won't allow you to do that.
Take the courage to talk more in front of others, talk more about what you don't say, go back and find something to enrich yourself, and the more times you do, the more you want.
For example, do you and your family feel this way? No, it's you and your family, and after talking for a long time, you treat the newcomer as your old friend, and you let go of it after talking more!!
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Inferiority. You have to have the courage to communicate and take the initiative yourself.
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It feels like you and I used to be like you, I don't like the feeling of being noticed by others, especially when I'm more flustered, but in fact, I still have the desire to perform, but I will always be unable to be perfect for various reasons, and I am always not very good at expressing myself with friends, which makes people mistakenly think that you are very cold. In fact, there is nothing abnormal about this, but it will affect your work life, you might as well try to make yourself cheerful, optimistic, proactive to others, slowly change yourself, and slowly change others' opinions of you, and it will get better after a long time.
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First of all, it is important to realize that the lack of love and emotional failure is not a person's fault or failure, but something that can happen in life. This is a common phenomenon that many people experience.
Here are some suggestions to help you deal with this situation:
Dealing with Inner Emotions: Consider using techniques to deal with your inner emotions, such as meditation, yoga, journaling, etc. These tips can help you reduce stress and improve your emotional awareness and self-acceptance.
Develop a sense of self-love and self-worth: Learning to love yourself means learning to respect yourself, take care of yourself, and pay attention to your own needs. Cultivating a sense of self-worth refers to learning to have a positive perception of one's own abilities, achievements, and personality traits.
Learn healthy love patterns: Learn about healthy love patterns, including establishing healthy communication styles, respecting each other, building trust, learning patience, and more.
Above all, remember that success in love and affection does not happen overnight and requires time, effort, and patience. Building good relationships with others takes learning and practice, but the ultimate reward is building stable, healthy relationships.
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The reason why you always think about those bad things is entirely because you yourself have always felt very depressed and always lived in pessimism and disappointment, so if you want to make yourself more calm, you should contact some people full of positive energy and let them slowly influence you.
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There is no need to feel bad, there is no need to deliberately suppress the instinctive needs of the body, and feel it pleasantly.
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Maybe it's a problem in your own mind, and you still have to change it.
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The whole person is not good, it is the language of the Internet.
If the original meaning is probably from the Qing Dynasty vernacular like "Dream of Red Mansions", it means that this person is in very bad condition. For example, if a person is seriously ill or suddenly becomes insane, it can be said that he is "not feeling well".
If you talk about the meaning of Internet language, it is probably a spoof extension of this, which is usually used in communication communities such as Weibo and Little Pink. It's almost equivalent to the meaning of can't stand it, generally "laughing so badly" (laughing can't stand it), and sometimes there is also "embarrassed that the whole person is not good". Table exaggerated meaning.
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There are too many people who cheat money in the whole society.
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The person has something on his mind, or is sick. It is necessary to communicate more, understand and care.
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Either I'm sick or "I feel like something is wrong."
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Hello this friend;
I'll answer your question, shall I? Your question is "the value orientation of others". The guiding ideology of doing things by oneself is not the original right and wrong of this thing, not the original merits of things, but whether others are happy or not, and whether others like it or not.
Essentially, there is no self-representation. It is a manifestation of his own lack of assertiveness. It is a sign of strong self-esteem. It is a manifestation of one's own defensive mentality.
It is recommended that you; Take a look at *** biography. Take a look at psychology books about conformity and anti-conformity. The theme of a person's life is to pursue their own happiness, success and happiness.
provided that it does not interfere with others. Life is a process of constantly fighting for one's own rights without harming the rights of others. Life is a process of constantly challenging oneself and constantly breaking through oneself.
Life is essentially a performance on the stage of life, there is no rehearsal, every day is live. Moreover, the ratings are low. How do you perform on your own life journey? How will you spend your life?
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The law of the jungle, the law of nature, the law of survival, nothing to be embarrassed about, it can only be that you are too capable to make them feel a sense of crisis, the fierce competition in the real society should be like this, it can only be that there is a problem with their understanding, it is recommended to ignore it, hehe.
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Get out and about and don't get bored. After dinner, you can take a walk and chat with your family. Life is trivial and happy.
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If you don't feel good, go out and relax, find someone to chat, exercise, listen to a light song, or do something easy to do, to use a small part of success, to comfort yourself, let yourself quickly recover your self-confidence and relaxed mood, and put yourself into society. Good luck.
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There are always some people in this world that you will never forget, and there are always some things that you will remember for a lifetime. The people you meet may not be with you for the rest of your life, but at least they will accompany you for a journey. This journey may be quiet and quiet, or unforgettable, or turbulent, or interesting, and in the end it will be the most precious treasure in the depths of memory!
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Start by asking yourself why you don't feel good.
Reflect on your recent words and actions.
Regulate yourself, be confident, and like yourself in order to like others
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