Reading question A half friend Why did Takeo say he only made one and a half friend

Philosophical Story] only made one and a half friends in his life.

Friends, philosophical stories.

I only make one and a half friends in my life.

Once upon a time, there was a righteous martial artist who made friends with the heroes of the world, and he said to his son before he died: "Don't look at the people I have been wandering in the rivers and lakes since I was a child, and the people I have made are like carp crossing the river, in fact, I have made a half-friend in my life." ”

The son wondered. His father gave an explanation close to his ear, and then said to him: "Go to this half-friend of mine as I say, and you will understand the meaning of the friend." ”

The son first went to what his father identified as "a friend." And he said to him, "I am the son of so-and-so."

Now he is being hunted down by the imperial court, and he is in a hurry to throw himself into you, hoping to rescue him! When this man heard this, he couldn't think about it, so he quickly called his son, and ordered him to quickly change his clothes and put on the body of this unknown "court criminal", and let his son wear the clothes of the "court criminal".

The son understands: when you are at stake, the person who can treat you with all sincerity, and even sacrifice his own flesh and blood to save you, can be called a friend of yours.

The son went again to what his father called "half a friend" and said the same thing again with a fist in begging. This "half friend" listened, and said to the "court criminal" in front of him who was asking for help: "Child, I can't save you from such a big thing, I have enough entanglement here, you go away and run away quickly, I promise not to report you...

My son understood: In your time of trouble, the person who can protect yourself wisely and not fall into the well and harm you can be called half of your friend.

The father's deathbed admonition, not only to his son, but also to teach us a truth about making friends: you can make friends, and you might as well treat your friends with kindness, but you must never expect your friends to give you the same in return. Being kind to your friends is a pure joy.

This is also the meaning of this. If you demand something in return, your happiness will be diminished, and disappointment will lurk at the same time. After all, you are not the same thing as being kind to others and being kind to others, just as giving and being given are two different things.

Your goodness can only infect or dilute the evil of others, but don't expect it. Of course, occasionally you will meet someone who treats you as well as you do, and you should be glad that it is a blessing for you, but never assume that this is common sense.

I think this story makes the reason very clear, and there is nothing that I can't understand.

The one and a half of its source dust here is not a real finger, but a virtual finger. To be more precise, one and a half here refers to two kinds of friends, one is for you to sacrifice yourself, and the other is someone who can protect yourself wisely and not fall into the well and harm you. The Zen seed in a hail is pure, thorough, and one is reserved and worried.

It's for a half-friend.

There are not many people who really understand you, and even fewer people who really understand you and will find ways to help you, there may be some people who have not found it in their lifetime, and there may be some people who will encounter countless in this life, but they can only accompany you through a period rather than a lifetime. There are not many real friends, enough to be friendly, enough to understand you, enough to help you when you don't open your mouth when you need it, even if there is one such friend.

Some people's instinctive reaction is related to past material dissatisfaction and revenge.

That kind of friend can pay for your behavior, will tell you the truth, think about you, and pay without asking for anything in return, which is really difficult to meet.

Because there are not so many bosom friends, it is a blessing for a lifetime to meet one or two.

You can ask Du Niang (a half-friend) this story to know!

Won the "Monkey Award" at the 6th China International Animation Festival - Best Animation Dubbing Award, and was nominated for the "Monkey Award" at the 6th China International Animation Festival in 2010 - Best Chinese Animation Series Blockbuster.

To say that there is only one and a half, I dare not agree, but true friends are really not easy to find, and they are not destined to be in groups.

Once upon a time, there was a righteous martial artist who made friends with the heroes of the world. Before he died, he said to his son: "Don't look at the people I have been wandering in the rivers and lakes since I was a child, and the people I have made are like carp crossing the river, in fact, I have made a half-friend in my life."

The son wondered. His father gave an explanation close to his ear, and then said to him: "Go and meet this half-friend of mine as I say, and you will understand the essence of the friend." ”

The son first went to what his father identified as "a friend." Say to you: "I am the son of so-and-so, and now I am being hunted down by the court, and I am in a hurry to join you, hoping to rescue you!"

When this man heard this, he couldn't think about it, so he hurriedly called his son, and ordered his son to quickly change his clothes and put them on the body of the "important criminal of the court" in front of him, who he did not know, while his son put on the clothes of the "important criminal of the court".

The son understood: At the moment of your life and death, who can treat you with all sincerity, and even sacrifice his own flesh and blood to save you, can be called a friend of yours.

The son went again to what his father called "half a friend." They hugged their fists and begged each other to say the same thing again. This "half friend" listened and said to the "important criminal of the court" who asked for help in front of him:

Child, I can't save you from such a big thing, I'll give you enough entanglement here, you go away and run for your life quickly, I promise I won't report you.

The son understood: In the moment of your trouble, the person who can protect your life wisely and not fall into the well and harm you can also be called half of your friend.

The father's deathbed admonition not only taught his son, but also taught us a truth about making friends: you can make friends, and you might as well treat your friends with kindness, but you must never expect your friends to give you the same in return. Being kind to your friends is a pure joy, and that's what it means.

If you demand something in return, your happiness will be diminished, and disappointment will lurk at the same time. After all, you treat others well and others treat you well are two different things, just as giving and being given are two different things, your good can only infect or dilute the evil of others, but don't expect extravagantly**. Of course, occasionally you will meet someone who treats you as well as you do, and you should be glad that it is your blessing, but never assume that it is common sense.

Because there is only one and a half friends in life.

Because she's your wife.

One is the current and the other is the ex.

Only half a friend!

How can there be real friends for interests or something?

It's hard enough to have one and a half. Making a true friend is not something that can be done without five years of hard work, and it must be at a young age, because at this time everyone will not be defensive of each other.