After breaking up, promise each other to be together after 2 years, will it end well? What should I

Dude, my girlfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, I am in Beijing, she is in Sichuan, we see each other twice a year, we have persevered for three years, and to be honest, it is quite tiring. But because I love each other, I have always insisted, and sometimes I envy those couples who go shopping hand in hand when I walk on the street, but think about it, it will be fine in the future. Hold on.

My first love in junior high school, I didn't understand it at the time, she chased me, and then I broke up because of my indifference, and then I wanted to chase her, but I failed, I said, I waited for you for three years, and in the second semester of my third year of high school, I met my current girlfriend. So, as long as you are convinced that you love each other, there is nothing. Of course, you still have to be prepared for this, I have always said to my girlfriend, if you don't love me one day, you tell me clearly, I will accept it, I will agree, but don't pretend to love me in the arms of other men.

Give everyone a good time.

See your own tricks.

Hehe, let's be honest. Dude, you're thinking too much about it You should only be separated for a while when you post this question, and I believe it will take a long time.

There are a lot of questions that you can explain yourself

Forgetting a person apart is not about not thinking about it.

It's time, and time smooths everything out

After 2 years, being together proves that you are his or her spare tire.

Because in the past two years, he and she have not found the right half, so they have returned to the original point.

Wouldn't it be okay to see her more, why break up?

After a breakup, whether the past commitments need to be fulfilled depends on the specific situation and the attitude and willingness of both parties. Here are some possible scenarios and ways to deal with them:

1.If both parties have broken up before the promise is fulfilled, then you can decide whether to continue with the promise based on your own situation and that of the other party. If the fulfillment of the promise does not have much negative impact on both parties, then it can be tried to achieve it as much as possible; If fulfilling a commitment will cause distress or negative impact to both parties or either party, then consider discussing with the other party to see if you can adjust or change the way you make your commitment, or abandon it altogether.

2.If the two parties break up after the promise is fulfilled, then you can decide whether to continue with the promise based on your own perception of the promise and the specific circumstances of the promise. If the promises have been fulfilled and there is not much negative impact on each other, then try to achieve them as much as possible; If the fulfillment of the promise has ended, then you can consider revisiting the meaning and value of the promise and making a decision based on your own ideas and actual circumstances.

Regardless of the specific situation, the most important thing is to respect your own feelings and the feelings of the other person. After a breakup, both partners need time to heal the emotional wounds and need to re-examine their lives and future directions. Therefore, before fulfilling the commitment, it is recommended to have full communication and understanding with the other party, and respect each other's wishes and decisions.

Individual Spine and Wheel Views:

I think I have to continue, because after all, this is what I promised to the person I love, and I believe that every couple is very reluctant after breaking up, because after all, both of them have been together. Loving each other, after the breakup, I believe this love still exists. If a person falls in love with another person and makes a promise to that person, this must continue no matter what.

Such as Sakura Shingo is true love. The promises made will definitely be fulfilled, and it will be the same if you break up.

If you are separated, but you still have to complete those words, then what's the point? Your commitment is the guarantee of your love touch, but love has disappeared from the bridge,,, where does the rumor come from?

Kindness. It's all divided into wide rock hands.

What do those promises mean? It's just a verbal word.

So forget him about the servant.

Start anew.

Everyone's understanding of a breakup is different, and some breakups may be like closing a door and never coming back. And some breakups may just be small quarrels between couples, in order to make the other party care more about themselves and care about the small tricks they use. Therefore, this issue is also discussed in two situations.

If the breakup of two people is to experience countless quarrels or the parents of both parties do not agree to the union of the two people, the contradictions between the two people are irreconcilable, if it is this kind of breakup, in fact, there is not much need to reunite, because the same contradiction will appear after the reunion, the same disappointment, anger will also occur again, the original is tired of such a life before breaking up, if it breaks out again, it will definitely feel that it is extremely stupid to turn back, and the two people may end up dying and not getting along.

If the so-called breakup is just a small quarrel, that is, just talking, if you are reluctant to give up to the other party, the other party will also give you a good compensation is not an apology, both parties have steps down, and it is not good to lose a marriage if you choose to reunite. In fact, even if two people are separated, they must break up decently, and repeated separation and merger will make a mess, sometimes life needs to be imperfect, and regrets need to be accepted. If, after experiencing the same painful struggle and calm thinking, both parties have analyzed the main reasons for the deterioration of the relationship and the result of the breakup, and after a relatively full exchange, they have reached a consensus that this factor can be eliminated.

Compounding can be considered, which is calm and rational; It is also more able to lay a solid foundation for the further development of the relationship in the future, which can also be regarded as the growth of emotional experience.

The two went from acquaintance to acquaintance and love, which is a test for young men and women. Different family backgrounds, different personalities, different living habits, different values, etc. need to be run in with each other, and with the enhancement of feelings, they need to be constantly tolerated and accepted and given. But the complex emotions of human beings have a very strong impact at this stage of the relationship.

Men and women at this stage often break up because the relationship is not handled properly, which leads both parties to end this relationship. If you get back together, you may have a hurdle in your heart.

Getting back together after a breakup can affect the relationship. After the reorganization, after a period of emotional warming and ambiguity, many lovers unknowingly fell into a cold period. Especially for men and women who have been separated for a long time, a lot of things have happened to both parties after separation, and two people or one party gradually find that the other party is no longer what it was at the beginning.

At this point, the following steps can be taken to address the affected feelings.

1.Staying calm and solving the problem is key. During the cold phase after regrouping, the first thing to do is to stay calm.

Don't keep asking yourself if it's right for him or her, if it's right to regroup again, why two people who feel good are going further and further. In fact, sometimes this feeling is just because there are a lot of words between two people. At the beginning, the knots in my heart were not resolved, so there was a psychological contradiction that was difficult to solve.

At this time, you should communicate well and solve any problems. If it can't be resolved, or if one party is never able to forgive the original mistake, then separate. Barely being together will only add to each other's pain.

2.Accepting reality and having the courage to admit mistakes is the foundation. If one party breaks up in the first place because of the betrayal of one party, it will undoubtedly be a psychological thorn in the heart of the other party forever, especially for those who have a personality that strives for perfection.

He can be a bit paranoid and can't tolerate sand in his eyes. He must take revenge on those who betrayed him and avoid those who hurt him. It's hard to forgive.

At this point, you might as well accept reality. His personality and thoughts have been solidified, and his likes and dislikes are clear and cannot be changed. You know better than anyone else, otherwise she wouldn't have resolutely proposed to break up.

3.In order to please him, love again is the means. Even if you make a mistake, he has bad feelings about you.

Don't feel bad, but he's just an ordinary person after all. Both men and women love to listen to sweet words. You'll usually please each other with your belly, say some compliments, have more intimacy, have more romantic moments, and then energetically talk about a love again.

I believe that whoever helps the one who works hard will be rewarded, he is just a piece of hard ice that will sooner or later be covered by your warm embrace. Remember the reason before the breakup, which in itself is a "spear and shield" that cannot be explained, so there is no need to always dwell on the past. Since the reboot must be measured from the heart, it represents a new beginning, otherwise it will only be a continuation of the contradictions of the past.

After breaking up, calming down with each other, and the washing of time, your previous negative information can be diluted. But the dilution disappears without a table, and you want to be reconciled after reuniting, but it shouldn't be called reconciliation. Because even if you get back together after separation, both of you are no longer the original you.

The key to whether the reunion can go further lies in whether the reunion finds and changes the various reasons for the previous breakup. If you don't change, you will repeat the mistakes of the past, but if you change, you will start anew.

You have to understand that after getting back together, you are equivalent to restarting a relationship, and the past is in the past, don't dwell on everything in the past.

That's my opinion.

Looking at the feelings at the time of the breakup, the breakup may be a momentary anger, the relationship is still there, this breakup is a temporary state, and there is a high probability that it will be reconciled as before. Both parties have no feelings, they are all together, but they will settle, and the probability of reconciliation is very low. If there is a conflict, anger is divided, or even a big fight.

Don't talk about feelings, they're almost enemies. Then the reunion is slim.

No, because the two people have broken up, it means that the two people are not suitable, and the two people must have encountered some problems in their lives that cannot be solved at all, so I don't think it is possible to reconcile.

I don't think it's going to be reconciled as before, because there has been an insurmountable estrangement between the two people after they broke up, and the time for the two to see each other is very small.

No. Because after two people break up, there will be a rift, and both parties will never forget this incident, so they will not be reconciled.

After a breakup, you will dwell on the promises that the other person has made because you still have hope in what the other person promised before the breakup. Why this situation occurs, I think it is related to the energy magnetic field "subconscious" in our body, all the information transmitted to people before the breakup is some positive energy, which has taken root in the "subconscious" of the human body, and after the breakup, it becomes all negative information and is instilled into the "subconscious" again, so there is a positive and negative conflict (just like when the human immune cells encounter the invasion of a foreign virus, the body will have some reactions), in the case of mutual growth and decline, The body will respond in a relative way to adjust to achieve that state of equilibrium, and the kind of entanglement mentioned above is the state of regulation released by the human body. Maybe it's because I still care about each other, I still love him in my heart, and I haven't come out of this relationship yet.

The reason why a person feels this way is nothing more than that he still cares about the other person and still loves him.

Generally speaking, when you are in love, if the other party makes a commitment to yourself, you will definitely feel that you have met the right person. When he can't make that promise, he's very disappointed in him. After breaking up, I think like this, it must be because I can't let go of the other party.