My husband feels like someone is going to kill him all day long, and it feels very real, and the sym

Mentally, I have suffered a lot of mental pressure.

Doing something unpleasant, or having paranoia of victimization.

No, it's so scary. What happened to me to get to this point? If you really can't get by, then leave, anyway, you said that you don't have anyone else to worry about, how good it is to be free and free by yourself, if you want to go**, go **, why live in fear like this?

In fact, men are not as strong as women think, because they are men, they can't cry easily, so I think your husband doesn't have anything on his mind, family or career, you lack communication, you are so cranky, talk to your husband well, explain everything thoroughly, I believe everything will be fine!

Why do you have this thought, is it that your husband's family is not good to you, what didn't happen, don't think too much.

You should go to the hospital to systematically check what your name is, the precursor of rhapnoia.

If you can hide from the first day of junior high school, you can't hide from fifteen, hiding is not always a way, or find a suitable time and place, sit down and talk about it, if he really can't trust you, then you can only divorce.

Good luck!

You can call your sister to confront you face to face, but you can't help it when you meet a narrow-minded person. Instead of living this kind of frightened life, it's really better to separate it, no matter how you explain it to him, it's superfluous. Don't look for this kind of person when looking for a man, it's not a matter of hiding, you can only talk to him openly and honestly, I hope he can believe you, otherwise there is really no good way.

I feel like things have come to this point. Let's see if you still want to maintain this wedding cigarette. If you want to sit down and talk about it.

Since he suspects you to this point. How much is it because you have ... So now he really doesn't believe you very much.

How to solve it. Tell him about the situation (e.g. who you suspect is actually ... Before that...

It's that I have thoughts about you, but you refuse. I haven't had any personal contact with anyone right now. So that he can supervise you.

He won't really supervise you. To put it bluntly, give him an explanation. Give you back your trust.

This is already domestic violence in disguise, and it should be better to call the police. (Verbal threats are to cause a sense of psychological and mental oppression to the other party, although the crime is not committed, but the victim feels fear and threat in his heart) The police station has the right to manage (cold domestic violence and armed domestic violence, as well as the psychological threat of words and behavior to others) should also belong to domestic violence.

There is no wind and no waves, you must have done something deviant to arouse your husband's suspicion. If the husband and wife reach the point of fighting each other, do you think it is necessary to go on? Divorce and go to other places, after a long time, maybe he will dilute his hatred for you.

Go print out a call list and show it to him. Let him verify them one by one. He'll shut up.

Your husband is a typical lack of self-confidence.

There are two ways to deal with such a situation: First, are you sure to divorce your husband? The second question is whether a divorce is possible?

Once you have decided on a divorce, you don't have to think of other ways to solve the problem.

If you can't get a divorce and still want to live a good life, you need to completely solve the problem of your husband's lack of self-confidence.

Your husband may be a suspicious person by nature, if you feel that you really can't get by, then the best way is to divorce, there is no good way.

Such a husband divorced him immediately, otherwise, his daughter Xu would die in his hands in the future.

It's terrifying, why is it so extreme, you can call the police or ask your family for help, pay attention.

Of course, he is perfunctory, and stepping on two boats is his favorite. He should be the kind of person whose animal instincts are stronger than human nature, and you must be the kind of person who is indecisive and unassertive, which is why he treats you like this. You should have the evidence of his betrayal of the marriage and defend your rights and dignity with the law.

New women should have the insight and dignity of new women.

You have to ask yourself first, can you still accept him? If you can, you have to learn to be kind to yourself, changing yourself is the most important thing, if you can't, divorce!

Men are like this, while talking about dealing with it, they are still entangled. Now that he's changed his mind, it's time for you to show your opinion!

Do you feel that he is perfunctory? There has to be evidence for this, if it is true, don't hesitate, get together and disperse, and ....... Although I am also a gentleman!

Dizzy, is it because you are interested in money or people?

I also had this thought, but I think it's normal, I hate it and sometimes it's not a big deal to think about it, next time I encounter something empathy or think about it from another angle, it's not worth it to persuade you to die for a man, sometimes people don't live for themselves for the people who love you, your parents, how should they live if you die,

What do you think? They all want to kill people, are they still normal people? If you can't break up, isn't that what you do now?

。。Me too! Don't be impulsive! It means that you are too lonely.

I also think this way, but thinking about the fact that children are not worth it, maybe they have depression!

What do you think? They all want to kill people, are they still normal people?

If possible, it is recommended to consult a doctor.

It's not very long, I've finished reading it. Love him? Love, please love slowly, you are her wife, your position is very important, the family and you don't push him too much, because you love him because the family loves him because he is a patient.

If you leave, what will happen to him, he will definitely need you, the patient is always elusive, but as long as you love him, I believe that everything will be fine. If you say you can't stand it, you say you've had enough and want to leave. Does that mean you are disgusted with him, that you no longer love him?

The vows he once made for love had been shaken because of his depression. If your heart is no longer strong, please don't say it's its fault, please don't say that he doesn't love you (he's a sick person, he needs you,), of course the reality is cruel and you have difficulties. The so-called sharing difficulties and the so-called never giving up, isn't that it?

Let's run to the United States, make a financial crisis, can't find a job, let him come to China to find a job, you can also do some jobs that are not very profitable or even not profitable, more noble jobs, for example, rural teaching. Doesn't he like to help people, and you should support him in doing something like this. Wait for him to get better, and then talk about other things.

He drifted a little high, and he couldn't find the direction, so come to the countryside to get in touch with the breath of the earth.

This kind of thing, I feel worried for you, the road of life is still very long, if you are tired of this kind of life, then don't be with him, because women don't have a few 5 years and 10 years to wait for ......

Don't let yourself be so tired, why hold on? If you want to help others, you must first take care of yourself, such a man will have a lot of hardships with him!! Don't say that you are not afraid of hardship, in the dead of night, when you think about everything you have done for him, you will be sad, you will shed tears ......

Therefore, it is a rational choice to leave him

Hope you're doing well!!

The age of 16 is the beginning of puberty.

Depression and depression.

Depression is actually two completely different concepts. Depression and depression are both manifested by low mood and depression, but the closer look is completely different. The state of depression is very obvious, because of the depression and pessimism caused by too much suppression of one's emotions.

Depression can be caused by external factors, the common is sentimentality, because of some sentences and things, and may even inexplicably think about this kind of psychological problem.

However, in either case, the patient will be negative, pessimistic, depressed, and some may have some extreme thoughts or behaviors. At this time, for these people, they not only need the care of some relatives and friends next to them, but also need people who understand them very well.

If you want to help them, you have to know and understand them. In this way, it is necessary to pay attention to their mood changes, and to know why they are depressed. In this knowledge, help them to decompress psychologically.

Actually, if you really get to know these people, whether it's depression or depression, once you get along with them, when they can trust you, these people can be said to be better than anyone else. It's just that the most difficult thing is how you can get to know them, how to make them trust you completely, and tell you your psychological words with ease.

It's not that people with this mental illness have no way to communicate. It's just that you can't get to know them from that angle. You said that he often goes to see a psychiatrist, which is very good, at least there is a psychological relief, and now that he has changed a doctor, then because you don't understand, he can't say a lot to you, and if these things and emotions that can't be vented are suppressed in the heart for a long time, it will collapse sooner or later.

Of course, by the way. Whether it is depression or depression, most of the patient's thoughts may be relatively detached from reality, and often sink into the illusion of nothingness but beauty. It's unrealistic, but it's also a helplessness.

Because the psychological pressure has overwhelmed them, coupled with the cruelty of this reality, they will often be forced to the point where they have nowhere to escape because they think too much. This is the reason why most patients with this condition choose to commit suicide.

Actually, this kind of person is really easy to get along with. They can sometimes do nothing, no matter how much money or power, they are worthless in their eyes. They often just want a sense of care and understanding.

For these people, you just have to learn to care about them and understand them.

Depression has a wide range. I once had a relative who had a problem of refusing to communicate with people. So the psychiatrist's conversation** cannot be implemented.

But her lover has never left her and has persevered until now. But to tell you the truth, life is not very good. In fact, the key is not whether he can be good, but whether you have feelings for him?

Are you willing to sacrifice for him? If he didn't give you the life you wanted, would you complain and hurt him?

It's best to use your love to **, there are many unsatisfactory things in life, but don't use depression to pressure him, he is not depressed in the first place.

This is living at a low point, is dissatisfied with society, life, don't ask him too much, I have experienced, before, I was also a person who loves to learn, now, maybe it's the relationship of age, I don't want to learn, and I don't have the ambition anymore, but I feel that this is normal, fortunately my lover didn't put forward harsh requirements on me, so I feel a lot more at ease.

The struggle is endless, but there is a limit to people's abilities, don't be too cruel to yourself, let yourself go, and you will fly high.

Escaping won't solve the problem You said earlier that the family wouldn't let your husband read it.

Later in the book, you mentioned that you were studying, and I would be psychologically unbalanced if I had changed, and your husband used to think about helping people all day because he wanted to prove that he also contributed to society, which probably confirmed a sentence: giving is happier than receiving Also, you mentioned that the previous psychiatrist is retired, and you should find him, after all, he is familiar with your husband's situation, and now your husband is the most in need of support.

Most of the people who suffer from depression are people with relatively high IQs, and there are also people who are completely depressed (such as Cui Yongyuan), but the patients themselves must actively cooperate**. I think if you have money, you should ask the retired doctor to give him alone, as long as he cooperates, it will be cured. Of course, if you can't afford it yourself, it's okay to break up.

After all, the harm of one depressed person is much less than the harm caused by depression to both of them to society and family.

, listen, you try to give him another year, and if it is still the status quo, divorce or break up immediately. Don't say anything else, because you're going to face a lifetime. Put it when it's time to put it away.

Persistence is victory, you have to take care of him with your heart, you are an excellent and strong woman.

I think you are still stuck in depression, anyone has a depression plot, because the ideal and reality are too far apart, but we will choose to eliminate pressure, or choose a more realistic ideal, but for him, he has always insisted on his ideals, insisted on his original ideals, just like insisting on his dreams, but at the same time he will not relieve pressure and frustration, and when he encounters these, he will only retreat, even if he retreats, he still has that kind of dream. Regardless of whether he is China or the United States, especially in today's China, the more innocent dreams and ideals the more impossible it is to realize, and the bell must be tied to the bell, as long as he himself does not realize that everything is in vain, no matter how good a psychiatrist is, it is useless, as long as he continues to live in his inner world, it is incorrigible. And I will tell you a little bit, about love, he is not loving you at all, because he doesn't think about the harm his behavior will cause you, and he doesn't think about how much pain he will bring to the people around him.

Loving someone can give everything for her and bring her happiness, and he has never given up his dream of Nanke for you, if such a man knows how to love others, he will not be depressed, if he knows true love, he will know that he lives to bring happiness to his wife and family, this is the purpose of his existence, but he is for his dreams to bring you pain, he will continue to sleep in that impossible dream, and use you as a tool and safe haven for him to realize his dreams. Dreams are good, dreams are good, but dreams can only be movies when they come to life, if you are willing to continue but his tools and havens, when his God, please continue to guard, continue to wait for the day when he wakes up, maybe soon, but maybe never wake up. If you are not willing to pay such a price, please leave as soon as possible, if he commits suicide, it is not for you, but for that impossible dream, and your walk away is just to leave him without a haven that should not exist in the first place.

Let him twist his dream and put it on the ground and stomp a few feet, pick it up again, and know the suffering of the world when he gets a little dust.