Losing your goal and not knowing what you want

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Your goal now is to get into a good university, don't think about anything else. The goal should also be phased, don't be ambitious, down-to-earth, after reaching a goal, you will naturally have another goal in mind.

I'm very objective about you.,Now, if high school students go out of society, it's a primary school diploma.,Ask those college brothers and sisters around you.,Are they like this? What's more, you can't experience this kind of society without entering society. If you can finish reading it, don't give up, because it's a responsibility for yourself, a responsibility for the future, and a responsibility for your parents!

According to your personality and strengths, position yourself, don't mess up your mind, straighten out your thinking, and then make a decision.

What you have to do now is to study hard and work hard to get into a good university If you don't study hard and take the university exam again and again, then you still have to take this certificate and that certificate in college A good university has a high starting point Save money and time For example, if a junior college student wants to take the postgraduate examination, he must first get an undergraduate certificate If you take the entrance examination to a good university, you can directly go to the undergraduate examination.

Day Diligence (Day 3).

I found the root of why I didn't achieve my goal plan.

1.There are too many goals to be single-minded, which is a waste of time and energy, so from now on, I will focus on one thing, such as this month, I will only focus on reading and sharing, and next month I will only focus on running, so that there is a goal for each stage, and finally I can achieve it through hard work.

2.Setting goals does not break down goals. There is no breaking down the big goal into small goals and then eventually achieving the goal.

3.Node checks.

Failure to check what they do well and what they do not do well in time, and correct them in time, so as to achieve the completion of the target task.

4.There is no timely incentive.

I didn't reward myself for the food I wanted to eat, or the books I wanted to read, or the clothes I wanted to buy after I completed the goal.

5.Report in a timely manner.

Report your progress in a timely manner, you can share it with friends, or you can write it out to share.

From today onwards, I want to do this, I can no longer do things blindly, and finally I can't achieve the result, but also look at one thing and stick to it.

Only by constantly reflecting and summarizing can you make faster progress.

Stop complaining, find your gaps, and take action.

I have to accomplish my goals.

When setting life goals, you must pay attention to:

1. Your goals must be long-term.

Without a long-term goal, you may be overwhelmed by short-term setbacks. Once you've set long-term goals, don't try to overcome all the obstacles at first. Just like you can't leave home in the morning until all the traffic lights are green before you go out, you go through the traffic lights one by one, and not only can you go as far as your eyes can see, but when you get there, you can often see farther away.

Second, your goals must be specific.

A hunter, when he faces a flock of birds in a tree, if he can shoot down a few birds, then he is certainly not shooting at this flock of birds, and the harvest of a few birds must be the result of the hunter aiming at a specific target.

3. Your goals must be ambitious.

Once you've decided on a goal of only 1 kilometre, you'll probably feel tired and slack off when you're less than 1 kilometre away, because you're almost there. However, if your goal is to walk 10 kilometers, you will be prepared with your mind and all the necessary preparations, and you will be able to mobilize the potential of all sides, and you may be able to relax a little after you have walked the kilometers in one go.

Fourth, you must practice your goals.

5. Your big goals in life don't have to be detailed and precise. As long as there is a clear direction and general requirements, such as aspiring to be an outstanding scientist, aspiring to be a big entrepreneur, or aspiring to be a politician who changes the world, etc.

Basic Principles for Setting Goals:

1. You have to determine your goals and starting line. To get out of the maze, in addition to a map and compass, you also need to know where you are.

When you finally sit down alone, you can ask yourself the following questions and write down the answers:1

Find a way to get it back!

Hehe, life always has to go through a lot of setbacks, don't fall and don't get up!

There's always sunshine ahead! Be confident, you can do it.

It only means that you are not pursuing your goal with your heart, and you will not lose.

Then you have to work hard to get it back.

Life is like a journey.

Some people only pay attention to the destination and the road ahead, and forget to enjoy the scenery along the way.

And some people miss the happy or painful scenery of the past, and forget to enjoy the scenery along the way.

There are also people who are so enchanted by the present scenery that they forget the dangers that lie ahead.

None of these three types of people will be happy.

The first one misses the scenery of the trip even if you reach your destination.

The second is more sorrowful. Live forever in the past.

The third type is better, but the main picture is happy for a while, and often does not think about the risks in the future. It is impossible to be happy.

There is a kind of person who likes to see the scenery, and at the same time, he also thinks about the road ahead from time to time, and when there is danger ahead, he can give up the happiness of the moment, concentrate on avoiding the danger and continue to enjoy the scenery along the way. At the same time, when it is relatively dull, I reminisce about the past, smile and continue to look at the scenery.

What kind of person are you?

A train is a society, you need to be the front of the car, then drive seriously, take the passengers to a more beautiful place, need to be a passenger, then I will be a passenger, do in the front and back row does not affect the scenery, because the scenery outside everyone's window is different. But don't dream with your eyes closed, and don't look down and meditate on the past. Otherwise, you will miss out on the wonderful scenery.

Everyone has to do what they can, tailor-made, life goals need us to work hard to struggle, to struggle, to do although we did not reach the goal, but we are getting closer and closer to the goal, we have to continue to work hard, find out the reason, failure is the mother of success, I believe there will be a good harvest.

Hello, first of all, we must immediately stop the current sluggish state of life, let ourselves change, have the courage to abandon the current life, let ourselves stop this emotion, change ourselves. There will always be a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, don't be depressed, let yourself be optimistic.

Looking for something new, impossible to live forever in the past. If you lose something, you will gain something, and you can't give up everything because of a moment of confusion, and give up those family and friends who care about and love you. Come on, there is a better tomorrow waiting for you to discover and find.

Don't stand still, improve yourself, train yourself, and communicate with people during this time, and gradually you will get better, and gradually you will find that what you see now is only a narrow part of your life.

Find a point of sustenance and establish a new goal!