My boyfriend is very good, I have been working my own, but I feel so stressed, the boy helps me

Updated on society 2024-04-29
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Khan, lz, this should be what you want to ask him, not all good boys like a kind of girl, I should be considered excellent, I prefer lively, cute, serious, girls, I think you should be serious in love! Hope my words are useful to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, my boy, hehe.

    In fact, I think first of all, you have to determine your own position, whether you like his excellence or like his people, although the real society will be more realistic, but pure love is still needed. Second, if the boy really likes you, then you just need to be natural, don't be too pretentious, you will behave like what you are, love is equal, there is no need to change yourself because of his excellence, do your best, the boy can see it, and what he likes should be your current ......Of course it's in the boy is a good good boy, if not, then that's another story. That's how I see it as a boy......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If he loves you, he will love everything about you and tolerate your shortcomings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Pursuing, gentle and considerate, and occasionally mischievous like a child.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Feelings are built little by little, if you really like him, you should also respond positively when he shows you goodwill, so that the feelings can interact and the two people can attract each other!

    Don't believe that to love you is to embrace all that you have! This phrase will lead people in love to a dead end! People who believe in this saying are also selfish!

    People in love care too much about each other, so care about each other!

    As long as you manage it carefully, it's enough!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's a good thing that your boyfriend is motivated, and if there's anything you feel unsure about, it's that your boyfriend will be indifferent to your work.

    First of all, you have to adapt to your own mind and realize that there are benefits to being positive about your boyfriend. The first reason is that all relationships are based on material things, and if your boyfriend works hard and hard, then, your future will be very happy and not bad, which is a good thing. Secondly, imagine that a person who is lazy and narrow-minded does not have a clear plan for his life and future, let alone is diligent, and those who have a job are more attractive.

    Of course, you have to communicate with your boyfriend more, if you feel insecure, you can tell him the reason, and you, as your wife, you have to take all the responsibilities alone, and only through effective communication can you really overcome the difficulties. But you have to be more diligent, especially when you feel that you don't have enough strength to bear it, you have to be stronger. You don't have to be like him, ambitious, ambitious, but you also have to have your own plans, you have to have your own goals, in that case, you don't have much time and energy to bear all kinds of pressure.

    Also, you have to understand your boyfriend, since he chose you, it means that he is responsible for your career, you are his other part, you have to listen to him, he may be under a lot of pressure, so, you have to help each other, help each other, help each other, so that each other is not too tired, work hard for the same purpose, make plans, there may be more pressure. You can also communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner, tell him your true thoughts, two people face it together, there is no difficulty that cannot be solved, or give each other enough trust, believe in him, don't bear these alone, this will only make yourself more stressed and confused.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ah, this is a very good thing, most girls like to find an excellent boy, no girl will find a boy who is not better than themselves, so I think it is a very abnormal phenomenon that you feel pressure, in real life, you have to feel such a good boy, you have to be happy for him, this is a very good thing, I also hope to meet an excellent boyfriend, but I have not met until now. So I think it's a very sad thing, then I think it's completely unnecessary if you feel anxious and stressed, because in real life, you have anxiety and pressure at work, I know that there is competition, but if you feel anxious and stressed with your boyfriend, then I think it's a very abnormal thing.

    So if you think about it carefully, it's such a thing Sometimes, if we are thinking about the problem, we need to think from one direction, then the main thing is like this, if you are stressed, this is normal, because you are with your boyfriend, you will definitely feel some pressure, but you are too stressed is definitely not normal, because sometimes, your competition is not with your boyfriend, but, in, unit, It's like that, so if you think about it, if you're good or not, it's such a thing, whenever I think about these problems, in fact, I'm thinking about real life, if you want to make yourself better, then you just need to be better at work, and if you're with your little boyfriend, you don't have these worries, you don't have these worries. I think if you always think about the pressure of being with your boyfriend, then I think it's definitely not a good thing because it's easy to lose your hair when you're stressed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should relax and not think too much, because women don't need much ability, as long as they can take care of their family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better so that you don't feel pressured.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think you can choose to go to graduate school, or try to make your job stable, such as exam editing, and dress up nicely.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you should do or improve what your woman should do, because as a man, he has done the most basic and fundamental things. What about your woman? You have to grow up, or you'll have some distance.

    Don't tell me what a woman should do. You don't know if you want to be with him, you have to give, and learn accordingly. If you want to get it, even if you are really yellow in the future, you will pay the price.

    But because you are with him, you will still learn and become better.

    Laundry, cooking, and getting used to it are a bit stressful. Your woman should do things at a high level. Then you don't fit his level? Men belong to the ability to survive. Females are pregnant.

    He has the ability to survive. Then you say how much you're pregnant. Think for yourself.

    A good woman is paired with an accomplished man. A good man must have a woman who understands him. He likes you, you must have a better advantage than other girls, and you have to be more confident than Song Naixun.

    Besides, even if he is excellent, he is still a human being, and he will have shortcomings in being a human being.

    You don't have to worry too much about not being worthy, you might as well have a good relationship with him. If you weren't by his side, maybe he wouldn't be successful today. Therefore, the first thing you have to do is improve your self-confidence.

    You should believe that you are also good. Don't always be humble in front of your boyfriend. This way, your boyfriend won't like you because successful people are bound to be surrounded by successful people.

    Secondly, you need to develop yourself, not just your appearance, career, or temperament.

    As a girl, you shouldn't have such an idea, your older boyfriend should be the full-time wife of the family if he is rich. You should also have your own career, have your own hobbies, dress up to work every day, pay attention to your diet, control your body, and achieve some success in your career. Your boyfriend will also see you in new eyes.

    Maybe his attitude towards you is your adoring attitude towards him. You can go hand in hand in your career.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are particularly stressed, then you should tell your boyfriend, and you hope that your boyfriend will become better and more good, so that you will not be very stressed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, I'm glad to serve you Oh, you can find a very good boyfriend He regrets that you are lucky, and what your friend has to do is to make yourself excellent, since he has this excellent condition, he can also teach you, whether it is learning or living, you can change yourself, make yourself more brilliant, he later our emotional talent is a long-term meritorious person, because if there is a huge difference in life and work, your common first shot macro topic will gradually decrease, That kind of unilateral action will not last long, because it requires both parties to have a common topic and work together to maintain the relationship.

    Questions. He has a bachelor's degree and I have a junior college.

    He liked me a lot.

    This degree doesn't mean anything, you can make yourself self-motivated.

    I'm an undergraduate and my boyfriend is a graduate student.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If your boyfriend is very good, then you must not be as good as **, but you are the kind of person who is not confident.

    Since the two people can come together, it shows that the temper and personality of the two people make Hu Youtan and Qi attract each other.

    So you don't have to feel pressured, you have to do things to make yourself better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think you need to stress too much, because such a good person will become your wide-ranging friend and prove that you are also very good. If you are really stressed, you can dig into your strengths, and cultivate skillful hands and improve yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Analyze your strengths and weaknesses, and strive to improve yourself and make yourself better. Objectively look at her boyfriend's advantages and Qiao Sakura's shortcomings, no one is perfect, he has excellent places and not excellent places.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't put too much pressure on yourself, and envy Zen and in ordinary life, you have to become very good, you have to keep scumming to improve yourself, and you won't have pressure after you become excellent.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then you have to continue to work hard to improve your abilities and make yourself excellent, so that there will be no pressure and you will feel worthy of him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you should make yourself better, and you should continue to improve yourself in life, so that you can be on par with your boyfriend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When I am with my boyfriend, I will feel that I am under a lot of pressure, first of all, I think I should find the pressure first, what causes me so much pressure, is that my boyfriend is too good, so that I feel that I am nothing with him, I feel very inferior, I am not worthy of standing by his side, so that she will make herself feel inferior every time, and feel that she has no shining point, and she is not worthy of his liking. If that's the case, I don't think there's a need for inferiority, since he likes you, then you will definitely have a reason to let him like it, maybe it's attracted by your qualities, so there's no need to be inferior, you can be yourself, you can also change yourself, try to follow the footsteps of the other party, and slowly you will grow and become excellent. <>

    If this kind of pressure is imposed on you by your boyfriend, then I think you can talk to your boyfriend, tell him that you are under a lot of pressure, to reduce your pressure appropriately, and it is easy to collapse when you are under a lot of pressure for a long time, so it is not good to be too stressed, or to relax appropriately. <>

    Everyone has pressure, just look at how you can relieve these pressures and turn these pressures into your own motivation to move forward, so that you can move forward bravely, and your daily life is also positive, and there will not be so much negative energy. So when you find yourself under a lot of pressure with your boyfriend, first figure out your own pressure, and then find a solution according to your pressure, relieve your pressure, and don't let yourself have such a big burden. <>

    You can also communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner, tell him your true thoughts, two people face it together, there is no difficulty that cannot be solved, or give each other enough trust, believe in him, don't bear these alone, this will only make yourself more stressed and confused.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you start to suffer from gains and losses, and you are worried that you are not good enough to be worthy of him, you start to distrust him and yourself. Continue to be yourself, what your original self is, what you are, don't put all your heart and soul into love! If you feel pressured, do exercise and listen to ** to relieve yourself, since your boyfriend loves you, it means that you are good enough!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is a saying that when we fall in love with someone, we have low self-esteem. But I don't think there should be such an inferiority complex in love. Aren't you excellent, you attracted such a good him?

    Also, love is never something that can be measured by standards. If he abandons you because he is not good or whatever, it is not love.

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