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There is nothing wrong with loving someone, it is not you who is at fault, it is him, a person who does not dare to be responsible for you. Do you think about why he likes you? Think about how you compare yourself with his wife, what are your advantages?
Are you young? Are you pretty? Ten years from now.
Are you gentle? Are you considerate? He was used to it, just as he was used to his wife's gentleness and thoughtfulness.
Think about what else you have? What he wants is just a spur of the moment, what about you? But you want to go down with him, otherwise you wouldn't be so miserable, and you still say that you don't want to destroy his family?
With your presence, his family has been destroyed. I can feel that you may be in pain when you are in this position, but the man who brought you pain is now coaxing his wife to live the life that belongs to them, what is your position? What is the root of this error?
In him, without him, you can go and find your own happiness, you really haven't destroyed his family, you are immeasurably meritorious, you know? Women are fragile, women need to have a shoulder, to have a support when they are tired, and this support must be someone who can be relied on, not someone else can rely on. Now let go, I bet you'll be in pain for 2 months to half a year at most!
And if you don't let go, you'll continue to suffer until you let go. Love should be given to people who are worthy of love, no one will ever inflict pain on you, pain is always brought to yourself by yourself, because you can't let go, so the pain, what if you let go? Congratulations, you have got a new life, and you have got your own happiness again.
Put it down, why bother
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Leave him, maybe he is also in pain, not to say who is right and who is wrong, there is no right or wrong in the relationship, but instead of three people suffering, it is better for two people to suffer, maybe there is a lot of guilt, a lot of self-blame, a lot of responsibility in it, but things always have to be solved.
For a man, responsibility is more important than love, a man without a sense of responsibility will not be responsible in love, even if he does not love this family, the responsibility is placed, and he must bear it.
You will find a guy, a guy who can love you and you can love him. This kind of thing itself is painful, and what is lost and what is not gained is always a pain, but the reality is that people cannot have everything they want. Suffering.
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Don't fall in, I've experienced it before, love is dead and alive, full of injuries, and in the end he will return to his family, these are just the results, the main thing is that there will always be a hole in your heart, I hope you will learn from the pain and come out. Behavior can only be controlled by oneself, and I believe that after coming out, it will be a sea and a vast sky. Wishing you happiness!
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Why does he love you when he has a home? Is he a responsible man, he can not be responsible for the current family, and in the same way, he can also be irresponsible to you in the future, people in love are the stupidest, why bother to suffer so much. Moreover, you have said that you don't want to destroy his family, so what is clear is the truest thought in your own heart.
That is, you haven't thought about starting a family with him, and since that's the case, why can't you let it go.
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He already has a family, whether you are sincere or not, you have already hurt his wife, let go, there are many good men who are suitable for you, you have to be cautious yourself, after all, it is just about the happiness of your life.
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Look back, it was destined to be an unequal love from the beginning, this is not the happiness you want, you deserve a person who loves you with all your heart, he is not yours, it is someone else's.
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It is very immoral to destroy other people's families, so let's let it go!
Don't say anything about love or not, if your love is based on breaking up the family and hurting his wife, will your love be happy?!
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A man with a family is not worthy to love you. If you love you after a divorce, it doesn't have to be all sincere. You have to be careful.
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Think about it, in fact, love is blind, and the more you worry, the more you lose.
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Ay! Isn't this just a good way to continue the relationship between lovers, don't look at you very well now, it may not be good after you are really together, men are like this.
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He is looking for you behind his wife's back, do you think he can really love you? Wake up.
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It's very simple, be a little three! But in the end, it will not end well.
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Let him settle the affairs of the family before talking about feelings.
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Don't destroy other people's families, imagine if others destroy your family. What would you think?
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Confucius said: Do not lose what you do not want to be lost to others.
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It's up to you to leave unharmed.
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I'm in the same situation as you now.
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It's good for both of you to leave early.
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This is a very unconscious, irrational and irrational behavior.
In principle, it is all wrong.
For you to be a family person, it is even more wrong.
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You're just trying to get fresh now, and then count it after the honeymoon period. If you feel that it is wrong for you to do this, you might as well take a look at your wife and think about the days of working together over the years, I believe you will be reluctant.
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Friends, you should cut off this bond immediately, if it continues to develop, it will not only hurt each other's families, but also may hurt yourself. After talking to her, you can continue to be friends, but it must not be at the expense of your family.
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Wrong, do you still need to ask? Don't have family responsibilities, you have no love for your wife, family responsibilities are still there, don't play with fire.
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If both of you are divorced, you can be together, but you don't have to do it when you have a family.
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That's not a man, he is irresponsible for his family, and even if he leaves and follows you in the future, he will be irresponsible to you ......
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This is just a temporary infatuation, not to mention that people have families, so they will not be happy.
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Break up immediately, don't destroy people's families, and don't delay yourself.
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Don't be with him anymore. Divide it! Feelings are two loves. Find one you love and love you. Who are you with. Anyone will be good to you. Don't be nice to you because he's good to you. For this you will not be happy.
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Find someone who thinks about each other and wants to love, so that you can be happy until you grow old.
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Marriage, especially the second marriage, is not about love, there are too many things to consider. To do a good job with your children, you can love each other's children, and the other person can love your children. I hope you meet a good man with responsibility.
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You think about your family, do you love your family or do you love him, if you can give up your family, and your child is with him, then be together, I think if you love your family, you don't love your child anymore, you don't love that man anymore, and you love each other only for a while.
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It's really stupid, I already have a perfect family, and I want to have an extramarital affair, do you guarantee that the other party can grow old with you, and now your husband is sorry for you. Why bother to break up the family. Have a good day though? Is the other party a billionaire, you can't survive without you???
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You are not suitable, if you are really with him, once you are knocked out, what will your family, relatives, neighbors think of you.
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That's still broken, it's good to endure the pain and cut love. If you have a family, don't think about these meaningless things.
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Give it up! You're going to hurt your family, and you're going to hurt your children!
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If your family is still alive, it is strongly recommended that you break the man.
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Do you know what role you're playing now? It's better to stop immediately, he can fall in love with you if he doesn't have a good relationship with his current wife, then think about you and his future, it's terrifying!
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Should be withdrawn. Saying goes; It is better to demolish a temple than to demolish a medium. Your joining will make a person very sad, after all, they are already together.
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What kind of man can't bear to leave his former wife, there will be a second time, leaving you
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Is he really sincere? Is a man with a family still irresponsible for his family? If you get married one day, will you feel secure? What if one day he betrays you!
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Don't destroy someone's family, if he loves you, he'll figure it out himself.
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It shows that he loves his wife and is afraid that his wife will be hurt. The solution is to find a good man to marry.
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Love is love, don't break up, play together, just love and love.
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If you can fall in love with a married person, and that person divorces his wife for you, then next time he will divorce you for someone else. Lou Lou thought it through.
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Destroying other people's families and not supporting them might as well put yourself in your shoes and think about how you would be if someone else destroyed your family.
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If you love his wife, I don't think I will get divorced, so you should find someone as soon as possible and leave him.
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There are so many single men who don't love them, and they prefer to get married, you are brain-dead! The Lord of Destruction.
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I don't know how to get a divorce, I just don't want to divorce, I advise you to be more careful.
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He had to have a choice, or he would ......You're going to be hurt, and so is her wife.
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You'd better find a good man to marry yourself, and don't destroy his original family.
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Xiao San is the most hateful, despise you!!
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