I love each other with a man who has a girlfriend, do I choose to leave or fight

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You love very hard, there's nothing wrong with loving someone, not to mention that he's not married yet.

    The question is, how do you want your relationship to end?

    If you want to be with him for the rest of your life, get married. Then you have to think about it, is a man like him who has a girlfriend and has other women really reliable? If you still want to stay with him for the rest of your life, then there is no doubt that you want him to leave his girlfriend.

    How to leave? This man is reluctant to say that he is not willing to break up, is he not courageous, or is he reluctant? If you don't have the courage, then you have to fight for it yourself, and go to a showdown with the woman by yourself (and tell this man afterwards that he will understand if he loves you).

    If he is reluctant to break up, then he still has feelings for his girlfriend, because he would rather you suffer than hurt your girlfriend So are you willing to continue to suffer for him? If you want, continue to endure, in fact, there will always be a day when you will be tired and want to let go of this feeling, and now it is not to the limit, so you don't want to let go

    Also, if you are not in a hurry to have a result, then keep a good relationship between men and women, only consider emotional and physical satisfaction, and do not disturb other people's lives, this relationship should be kept secret, otherwise it will be difficult to last. This kind of relationship is not restricted, if you want to break up, you can break up, you can fall in love if you want to, take care of each other, and do not interfere with each other. Is this what you want?

    Hopefully, you will find happiness in the end.

    He said that he loves you more Then he also loves his current girlfriend I have wronged you and have to share his love with others, although you get more love, but before you are emotionally less than 100, no one will be satisfied

    You don't want to be a bad woman, who says you are, don't think too much

    You don't know how he will arrange it Why must he arrange it, it seems that he has a great grasp of you and his current girlfriend Oh You don't have the confidence to grasp him Since you are reluctant to leave and can't grasp it yourself, you really have to wait for him, and sometimes waiting is not difficult, as long as it is a hopeful wait

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can take a look first, but it's likely that he's like this because of loneliness, can the 2-year relationship be broken? Can you? You'd better not get too close to him, or a woman is not easy to control her feelings, you have to know how to protect yourself, especially feelings can't be given casually, some men can hide their true nature for a long time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Today he can betray his girlfriend to be with you.

    Aren't you afraid that he will betray you another day?

    The man whose girlfriend is not around for a long time is very lonely and dangerous, you just happened to appear at this time, he said that his girlfriend helped her when he needed help the most, according to what you said he is a good man, will he bear to hurt the person who is good to him? On the contrary, he is not a man who values friendship, then what he is doing now is false.

    I support the statement of the 3rd floor, let him choose between you and his girlfriend.

    If he is really distressed, it won't make you upset, right?

    If you really like him, you have to fight for it, but only if he is alone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the choice in her heart is not yours.

    Why force yourself to hurt yourself?!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you should fight for it, true love in life is only once. But you have to ask the other party this question clearly, if he can't let go of his girlfriend, you can only choose to leave, if he really loves you more than his girlfriend, then he will handle the relationship in an appropriate way. You have to figure out who is what he wants.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time solves everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Calm down and find something else to do. Office love doesn't usually last long, and he has a girlfriend.

    If you really like him, please let him come to you after breaking up with his girlfriend, a man who enjoys the blessings of everyone must not want!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look at "Struggle" and you will understand something.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No matter how much emotional experience you have, the pain is more of the other party, not you, you will never reflect on yourself clearly, only when your heart is very sad, will you think about what kind of person will be worth paying your emotions and getting the happiness you want.

    Emotional experience is something that everyone will encounter, but everyone's opportunities, choices, and ways of dealing with things are different, and there will be joys and sorrows in the world. Especially today's single men and women, no matter what age they are, don't look for a temporary loneliness and helplessness: just like each other, you love him but he just likes you, or you don't love him, but the person he loves to comfort his lonely heart, such a combination will not last long, and it will only make you more empty and numb in the long run.

    If so much time is wasted here, it is just a fearless sacrifice, purely self-inflicted, and not worthy of pity.

    If you love each other, cherish the fate of this life; If you don't love, you should make a decision immediately, and when you separate, the loved party will still be less painful, and it will hurt very much to the one who loves each other deeply, but don't love and become hate, that is your own heart is twisted, and you will be wrong again and again! Adjust yourself and get back to being very confident and sunny to you! Then look for people who love each other, love is also a kind of fate, and I hope that people who love each other will get married!

    Only when you love each other can you be happy!

    I suggest you, give up! Bless her and hope she has a happy and happy life! Loving someone doesn't have to be possessive.

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