What should I do to make my boyfriend s mom happy? Urgent! 10

I'll help you analyze it first:

You and your boyfriend have known each other for more than a year, and there is a relationship basis, not to say that you will break up when you break up, and your boyfriend's mother thinks differently from you, after all, it is two people, your boyfriend's mother thinks that unmarried pregnancy is unorthodox, you say that you are 5 months pregnant, and your stomach is a little visible, and his mother is also misled by traditional thinking, thinking that this is a bad thing, (in fact, it is like this now), I hope you can understand, and his mother said that you are willful may be that she does not know, Your boyfriend is more filial to listen to his mother's explanation, you should find an opportunity to communicate with your boyfriend, as long as you stick to being together, I believe that time will prove everything.

After reading your supplement, I think you just need to do what a daughter-in-law should do, too much flattery will only cause suspicion of your mother-in-law, I hope you can adjust your mentality, talk to your mother-in-law, and do your own things for ten years, and your mother-in-law will see that you are changing and will be able to accept you.

There's nothing else to say, she was lying to you when you got rid of the child, whether you have children or not, she won't approve of you being together, and also, girls must cherish themselves, there is no need to deliberately please your boyfriend or his mother, otherwise even if you can marry in the future, you will suffer a loss and have a good life, what era is it, are you willing to live under the eyes of your mother-in-law like your former daughter-in-law? If you can't get along, you will break up, of course, breaking up must be uncomfortable, but compared to a lifetime of happiness, time will dilute those unpleasant experiences, so, be kind to yourself, be ruthless and decisive, love is not the whole of life! You'll understand later.

I don't know how old you are, but I personally think you can talk to his mother, tell her what you really think, and by the way, you can also know the reasons for her opposition, I don't think her reasons will be just that you are willful, maybe there are family background problems in it, to get her support, you must first get the support of your boyfriend, and getting married without his support is also a big problem. Good luck!

Alas, divide it.

Even if I had good advice, I wouldn't give it to you.

The five-month-old child is still being beaten out. My boyfriend didn't say that beforehand. They are still arguing with you after you have surgery.

Not only is your boyfriend not sensible, but he doesn't care for you very much. What do you like about him?

I don't think she doesn't like you, but she thinks it's not time for you to have a baby. In the future, try to make everything go her way. If you are dissatisfied, communicate with your boyfriend and don't directly conflict with your boyfriend's mother.

In the future, I will live with your boyfriend, not with his mother, he listens to his mother so much, and does not take into account your feelings, it is estimated that after you get married, he will still listen to his mother, and you don't want such a boyfriend.

No matter how much we love someone, first remember to love ourselves.

Dealing with a situation where your boyfriend's mom is too controlling can be a challenge, but there are a few strategies you can adopt to ease the situation and improve the relationship:

1.Communicate with your boyfriend: First, talk openly with your boyfriend about his mother's desire for control and how you feel. Make sure he understands where you stand and wants to work with him to find a solution to ensure that your feelings are respected.

3.Seeking consensus: How to deal with his mother's desire to control with his boyfriend. Find common ground and goals to ensure that your feelings and needs are met, while also respecting his mother's role and feelings.

4.Set personal boundaries: Disturb or stick to your personal boundaries, call on and make sure you are treated equally and respectfully in your relationship with your boyfriend. If his mother's interference makes you feel uncomfortable, express your feelings in time and seek support from your boyfriend.

5.Try to build a good relationship with your mother-in-law: Try to build good communication and relationships with your boyfriend's mom. Understand her concerns and expectations, and try to find a common solution while respecting her position.

6.Seek third-party assistance: If the problem persists and affects your well-being and relationship, you can seek professional help such as a family psychologist or marriage counselor. They can provide neutral advice and advice to help you and your boyfriend find a better way to deal with it.

Most importantly, be firm in your own rights and needs, while respecting the feelings and expectations of others. Finding solutions with your boyfriend and working to improve your relationship with his mother helps to create a more harmonious family atmosphere.

So what does he do when he goes to work, doesn't he work and stays home with her mother all the time?

Besides, if you have a morning party, it's just a boyfriend, if you are willing to accept this life, then be together, and break up early if you can't accept it.

He's obviously a mom boy.

There are two points of view: the first is that you also treat the other person as your opponent.

When you choose to be with someone, you also have no way to get along with them.

Only when two people become friends of the alliance can you provide food, clothing, housing, transportation, and related actions.

On the other hand, you can't change someone else. Because a mom boy has to have a strong or at least more controlling mother, you can only deal with one person, you can deal with all the families. Many mother-treasure husbands do not respect their wives' opinions, and always feel that their wives are incapable or unreliable.

In fact, we are the same, when we do not recognize a person's ability, we will not choose to believe in him. The same is true in family relationships. If you want your words to have some impact, the premise is that you have your own strength and value.

So, only if you elevate yourself and give him substantial advice at certain moments, then it will definitely make the other person look at you with admiration.

What husband do you think she will have for such a mother? What kind of family has such a mother become?

You're unlikely to change all that, so you're unlikely to change 1 mom boy, and you're unlikely to deal with 1 mom boy. It's not his own problem, it's the whole family's problem.

I'm still saying that choice is better than change.

If you have to choose, then you enjoy this benefit, you have to live with this disadvantage.

I came to this city for my boyfriend. I am a girl from the countryside, I met my current boyfriend in college, and I have always had a good relationship. My boyfriend is from a big city, he is very good to me, I can feel that he loves me very much, but his parents have always been very opposed to us being together because I am from the countryside, and we broke up once two years ago because of his parents' opposition, and finally we were together because of love.

He has a great job here, and we thought that if we wanted to be together, we couldn't work in two separate cities, so I went to the city where he was, and two years later, his parents were still very opposed to us being together. My parents also liked him because he was more honest and treated me well. But we broke up because he was forced by his parents, so now my parents don't believe him very much.

In the past few days, my mother has been asking me to break up, because they think that his parents look down on me, even if I marry in the future, I will not be happy, and my mother said that she is not in good health, and I will not be around and no one will take care of her in the future. To be honest, the conditions of our family are not very good, and my parents have worked very hard for me to graduate from college, and after graduation, my salary is not high, so basically I have not subsidized the family, and sometimes I think about my parents who feel that they are very unfilial.

I don't fancy my boyfriend's family's money, in fact, his family's conditions are only average in this city, and when we are together, I try not to spend my boyfriend's money, I am very independent, in order not to let his family look down on me. It's just that we've been together for almost six years, and the relationship between the two has always been very good, I love him very much, and he loves me very much, let me give him up, I really can't bear it. We've been together for so long, and we haven't had a single fight.

I love my mom very much, and she has called me several times to tell me that she can't sleep well at night because of my affairs. But I love my boyfriend so much that I really don't know what to choose.

Private Interpretation :

When your boyfriend loves you and thinks that he wants to marry you, you don't have to worry about these problems, he will do it for your parents, so what you have to do is talk to your boyfriend about your situation, if he is really ready to marry you, he will definitely not let you have these worries.