What should I do if I have a conflict with my boyfriend and my boyfriend has a conflict with another

Updated on society 2024-04-24
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Be considerate of each other and understand each other. You let your uncle carry you, it's really incomprehensible, it's your fault.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He cares about you, sometimes you have to report to your boyfriend when you want to go out with a closer person of the opposite sex, boys are actually very stingy, you have to learn to coax him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He doesn't love you enough, he is obviously jealous, he doesn't ask you first, but instead vents and possesses you, this behavior is very naïve.

    He doesn't love you enough, he doesn't choose to believe you, he doesn't have the patience to listen to your explanations, he is self-righteous.

    He doesn't love you enough, he knows he's wrong, and he pretends to love you, which is really despicable.

    Since he doesn't love you enough, what about you? Love him?

    It is recommended that you talk to him calmly, misunderstandings are very hurtful, 25 years old, not young.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Calm down first, and then find a suitable time to meet, of course you should take your uncle to explain to your boyfriend. In love, "both sides take a step back, and the sea and the sky are vast,".

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't talk nonsense, he loves you, please don't hurt him, or don't let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Calm down, are you excessive; Uncle is only 8 years old, which is not much older now, and I think you can get used to paying attention.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Men have a strong sense of possessiveness, and their women can only be their own and cannot be shared with anyone! So you should pay attention to it at all times, think about it with your boyfriend, and use empathy to know a lot of things!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'll give you a free advice: Break up, this kind of man, he doesn't even give you a chance to explain, and he is so disrespectful to girls, break up early, or you will regret it

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time will ease all of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He cares about you, and he's jealous to do that. Don't think men won't be jealous, they will.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He loves you, and may be afraid of losing you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then divide it with him ... So small family people, why should they be together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know how to ask for help to come to me I'm only 21 but do you love him It's not good to quarrel all the time It's not good to have a small quarrel but often it's not good And what do you think he looks like to you Are you sure he really loves you If you are sure that you make the right decision about him and how he feels about you, it's just to make a bad decision about someone else I don't know much about it and just make suggestions It's inconvenient to interfere.

    I wish you happiness and let go when it's time to let go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Men are like that, it's not a big problem! Shen Zheng is not afraid of shadows, what are you afraid of, if he can understand it, it means that he is not bad, and if he can't understand it, he won't understand it for the rest of his life!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone is an adult, can you be a little more?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At the beginning of the conflict, trying to hold your boyfriend; The conflict escalated and the police were called for help. The point is, first and foremost, protect yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hurry up and persuade you, pull your boyfriend away, don't hurt the other party because of impulse, that will require legal responsibility!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is inevitable that there will be contradictions and conflicts between people, such as the conflict between your boyfriend and other women, find a way to solve the conflict, resolve the conflict, and don't let the conflict intensify.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1.First of all, you need to be clear about your position and ideas. If you have clear values, consider having an in-depth discussion with your boyfriend to understand each other's positions and understand each other.

    2.If you find that the other person's ideas are seriously inconsistent with your own, you may need to consider whether there are important things in common, such as whether they have the same interests, common values, goals, etc.

    3.If you find that your boyfriend's position is seriously conflicting, you can try to talk, discuss, and argue, but you must protect your rights and dignity and don't let yourself be hurt.

    4.If you can't resolve your differences, you can consider a temporary relationship while exploring your own ideas and beliefs, and perhaps a better solution will be found.

    5.If there are certain beliefs that cannot be compromised, you may want to consider breaking up. But be sure to maintain good communication, mutual respect and understanding.

    6.Be open-minded and accept the other person's different ideas, and perhaps try to understand and accept different opinions or perspectives reasonably.

    7.Reflect on your own positions and thoughts and seek a more comprehensive understanding and understanding. Perhaps some strengths or strengths can be found in the other person.

    8.Finally, it is recommended to consider whether you need to break up after evaluating your own and each other's core orange group concepts, values, and life philosophy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Keep your emotions in check.

    Controlling your emotions is easier said than done. Once you have an argument, it is difficult to control your emotions. If you want to control your emotions, you need to calm yourself down as much as possible.

    Don't touch the other person's bottom line.

    When many people quarrel, they pick on the sore spots of others. If you have a quarrel with your boyfriend, you still pick on the other person's bottom line to challenge. This can lead things to unpredictable serious consequences.

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    Does it make sense to think about quarrels?

    If we have a fight with our boyfriend, then we can think about whether there is really any point in arguing with our boyfriend. If you are still deeply in love with your boyfriend, then try to be considerate of each other and think about each other's goodness, then there will be nothing to quarrel about.

    Put yourself in the other person's shoes.

    If you have an argument with your boyfriend, it may be that the other person has done something that you can't accept. The reason why you can't accept it may be that you are just thinking about the problem from your own point of view, and you can think about it from your boyfriend's point of view. Maybe you'll find a different result, so you might understand your boyfriend better.

    Calm down, not the Cold War.

    If you have a fight with your boyfriend, calm down with each other. Don't argue about who's right and who's wrong. When both sides are gone, then sit down and have a good conversation, and the problem may be solved.

    Don't be careful, and don't hold grudges.

    Some girls have a fight with their boyfriend, and you have to make your boyfriend apologize to yourself before you can forgive him. In fact, this practice may turn your boyfriend off.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is normal for two people to have conflicts and awkwardness together, the key is how you adjust and deal with each other, and consider the problem from each other's point of view, maybe you will be relieved a lot, and the contradiction may be solved.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it weren't for betrayal, emotional problems could be solved by frequent exchanges of thoughts and feelings, mutual understanding, and mutual tolerance.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is recommended that the woman appear softer, so as to arouse the man's desire to protect. Then reason with him, don't recommend cold violence, this will become more and more estranged, just talk about things, don't involve one thing to another, you have to know that you are to solve the problem not to solve the other party, so don't be too tough, solve the problem thoroughly, otherwise it will be the fuse in the future, so don't get by, wrong is wrong, if there is a mistake, you have to be right, and you must stand up when you are beaten.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Talk about it, and then the two of you go and solve it together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Stand on the boyfriend's side. After all, your boyfriend can be said to be your closest person, who else can you help if you don't help someone who has spent the rest of your life together?

    Think about it from a different perspective, if you are someone else's object, and your partner's friend has a quarrel with you, do you want to be sacrificed to you or your boyfriend's friend? If it's a really strong relationship, it's been based for many years, in fact, it's sacrificed a few times and complained about verbally at most, in fact, it's similar to family, and it won't really be vicious because of this kind of inconsequential thing, and those who can be separated are not good friends.

    And the object is different, for example, even if you are married, for other people's mothers, you are also an outsider, if you are not eager, you will say goodbye when you look back, no one will think it matters. Anyway, it's not just you who can deal with its son, and in the same way, your partner won't feel that there will be no next one without this. Otherwise, there would not be so many breakups and divorces.

    So if you don't play love with a playful attitude, you are naturally afraid of losing your partner, because this kind of relationship that is not maintained by a strong relationship is easy to separate. And a real good friend is actually the same nature as his family, and he will not cut off the relationship because he doesn't want you because of two quarrels and two hits. Those who can be judged are not good friends, they can only be said to be friends in general relationships, since they are in general relationships, it doesn't matter if they have this friend or not.

    After all, it is impossible for friends to live with you for a lifetime, and you can't live with friends all your life, just to be with friends, and you are not allowed at home, and good feelings are not used like this.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    On the side that you think is right, you have to distinguish between the two of them, and you have to keep an attitude of being right and not right.

    At the same time, you should also consider the personalities of the two of them before making a decision, if one party is more sensitive and fragile, and one party is very aggressive, then please comfort the more sensitive and fragile party afterwards.

    When comforting, don't use a tone of blame and questioning, first care about the other party's mood state, and then talk about your own mood, just say that you are very uncomfortable because of the disagreement between two very important people.

    And for the party with a bigger personality, it is much easier to do, and you can directly and euphemistically put forward this disagreement in private, which is right and wrong.

    Tell them what they should do better, say a few warm words, and it's easy to be coquettish. Both of these are very important people to you, and in the same way, you are also very important people in their hearts, so if you comfort them, they will feel very warm in their hearts and it will be easier to dissipate.

    After privately adjusting the emotions of the two, you can find an opportunity to let the two of them dissipate, such as having a meal together, going shopping together, playing games together, and in the process, you must create more opportunities for the two to communicate.

    Be sure to bring both of you along the topic of the conversation. If you're walking on the road, you can pretend to be a bad foot and make sure that both of them are worried that you'll be supporting you and taking care of you at the same time, so it's easy to reconcile.

    Quarrels are nothing more than "offending" the other party by something, in this case, we can reduce the quarrels, learn the lessons of each dispute, and "change when we know our mistakes" so that we will not quarrel again because of the same problems in later life.

    It is a very uncomfortable thing to quarrel with important people around you and be sandwiched in the middle, and the palms and backs of your hands are full of meat, so you have to hold them all This kind of thing happens and it is most appropriate to melt the conflict with love and thoughtfulness.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Stand in a neutral position, find the cause and resolve the conflict.

    First of all, you need to talk about each other in general before you meet, and be sure not to be subjective! Especially when telling your girlfriend about your boyfriend, try to talk about your shortcomings first; And then let's talk about the pros. When I talk to my boyfriend about my girlfriends, I always talk about the advantages, not the shortcomings.

    But be sure to communicate well with your boyfriend, this meeting is a visit to him by your girlfriend. I think as long as you are not a straight man to a male friend with terminal cancer, you should be able to understand and tolerate each other.

    When the smell of gunpowder intensifies, you must take the time to tell him to understand. Because your best friend may wish to let him show his so-called "true face" in anger and let you two separate quickly. When you really understand each other, he will definitely be happy that you have such a female friend.

    Secondly: try to give your boyfriend as many opportunities as possible to show that he can do the job of taking care of you. And don't stay with your boyfriend along the way, pull your boyfriend along.

    You can spend more time with your girlfriends, and the man who really loves you won't be so stingy that he will be jealous even if you pull a girl's hand.

    And finally: on the way back your girlfriend will definitely tell you the conclusion. At this time, you must be centered on your girlfriends, and you can belittle your boyfriend appropriately:

    He dared to bully me, I don't have you and so on. In this way, your girlfriend will feel at ease to hand you over to someone else! No matter why they are arguing or how they are arguing, they are actually for you.

    Put yourself in each other's shoes and think about it. Communicate more, communication is the bridge that connects the friendship between them.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When a friend has a conflict with her boyfriend, I think we should ease each other's emotions as soon as possible, and who is more reasonable to stand on whose side.

    In life, we may also encounter such a choice between friendship and love, some people forget their friends, and some people feel that friends are for life, but a partner can be found again.

    Some people think that friendship is just a snap of a finger, without this friend there is a next one, and love meets the right person is rare, for such a point of view, I can't say it's wrong, but I don't think it's right, at least I won't do that.

    When a friend and a boyfriend have a conflict, we have a way to stop it from continuing to take root, take the right way to self-suggest, or take the method of attention shifting, once the emotion becomes indifferent, then we must be able to find someone to love more, because love to the extreme is uncontrollable.

    A friend is a kind of acquaintance, a friend who understands your tears is better than a group of friends who only understand your smile! Friends are a kind of understanding, friends are a kind of spiritual feeling to each other, a tacit understanding. Friends are a kind of companionship, those who dare to quarrel are good friends, and those who can't quarrel are true friends.

    They may understand you better than your lover, they are willing to be friends because they have similar interests, they don't care about your appearance, they don't care about your shortcomings, they don't have to think about forever, so they don't want you to be embarrassed. They say that the truth will not hold grudges, and jokes will not turn the other cheek. See each other's shortcomings, understand each other's temper, but have always tolerated and never left.

    Love and friendship are not important and unimportant, don't give up friendship for the sake of love, whether it is to give up friendship or love, you are not qualified to have it, because you don't deserve it!

    Friendship and love, for everyone, it will be painful to lose either one. Some people say: Boys exchange friendship for love, while girls use friendship to reject love.

    Friendship: It is a responsibility, not an opportunity. Friendship can be heart-to-heart.

    Love is for boys and girls, understanding each other, respecting each other, supporting each other, caring for each other, learning from each other's strengths, comforting and considerate.

    Some people are in love, and friendship is just a rebuke to the loneliness of their youth. Some people have friendship first, and the companionship of friendship has become a habit in life, and the position of friendship in the heart is unshakable. May you put them on the same footing and manage every relationship, which is an important and indispensable thing in your life.

    So if there is a quarrel, I believe that friends will stop first, what needs to be done is to ease everyone's emotions, give each other a step, so that everyone can let go of the mustard in their hearts, but don't force it, when you are angry, people's judgment is seriously wrong, as long as you are impartial, you will be able to handle love and friendship well.

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